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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm worried my sister in law will have sex with her brother in law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age - i am worried about my sister-in-law she is going through a divorce and recently has moved in with her sister and her husband. i am worried because their kids are moved out and his wife works every day. He comes home early every day and spends time alone with her.i am worried ... (91 words)

Should I have made more effort to see him? Now I have upset him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have had our first misunderstanding and I don’t know what to do about it. He had sent me a message last night saying that he had arranged an event with some important people he knows which I understood was being arranged for next week, ... (498 words)

I came on a bit romantic and scared her away. How can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (M) age 36-40 - i like this girl i've been seeing who is my ex's friend. me and her have been keeping a secret relationship and we were happy together. i told her my feelings about her in a poem and she got scared and said she couldn't do it any more. how can i get her back? i really like her ... (73 words)

How much "looking" is too much... my partner spent our whole date ogling other women!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age - OK - I understand guys 'look', and sometimes 'talk' about the other pretty women in the room, but what is 'too much'? Within three hours of a date last night, there were approximately 20 comments from my significant other about the 'arm candy' across the room, the ... (148 words)

My instincts were right, he has a stash of porn. The trust has now gone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age - I put a question in the other day about my husband watching porn [just a gut feeling i had] Well surprise surprise my gut feeling was right. I found 19 porn cd's in his work bag today, so its not very pleasant in my home at the moment. Thanks to all who tried to help but now ... (84 words)

How do I make myself look older? Its so demoralising!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - im 25 and i look about 18/19! Also i have hardly any facial hair and rarely shave! Its annoying because i get asked for id, which is embarrasing, and people dont treat me with the respect i deserve just because of the way i look. Its so depressing and confidence sapping because ... (120 words)

I've done a pregnancy test and it was negative within the time stated but later I looked and there was a second line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i took a pregnancy test last night. it came back as negative + the leaflet that came with it said not to read it ten minutes after doing it, but i caught sight of it in the bin later + a second line had appeared! apparently this will only appear if you're pregnant.. but within ... (80 words)

How do I figure out if I am being overly sensitive or if my feelings are legit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Relationships are always stressful because I "over think" everything. I'm not sure my girlfriend is really right for me, so what do I ask myself to determine if I'm truly being overly sensitve or if what bothers me is legit?... (41 words)

I like her and she likes him and the other likes me and ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - listen here...... ok i really really still like this 1 girl that left me after i dated her for about 3 weeks and i kinda just tried to look at other girls at my school but none of them measure up to this 1. problem is that there's this "other" girl who likes me alot........any ... (130 words)

My boyfriend has gotten abusive

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the last 4 weeks he hit me with a ... (155 words)

I am 18, she is 15. Is it ok to date her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently left my old job of which I got quite close to another person who worked there. I'm 18 but she is still 15, is it wrong if I try to make something happen- not having sex; but just having a good time together?... (45 words)

I got my period while having sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and having the scare of my life.....I had sex a few weeks ago and got my period during it and he wasnt wearing a condom....than 3 days later it stopped and my period lasts 6 days....could this mean I'm pregnant? And if your not sure how long should I wait to take a test?... (56 words)

Any advice on saving my relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i need to save my relatinship with my girlfriend! having a bad patch, we both love each other. any advice anyone?... (21 words)

My friends said they were coming to my wedding and then didnt show!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married last weekend. I invited 15 of my own friends. Only 2 came, and they left really early too. About 8-10 other friends rsvp'd and said they were coming. They didn't show and only one bothered to tell me she couldn't make it because she was "sick". I emailed a ... (347 words)

My boyfriend is dead set against using spermicide. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys im a frequent user of this site and i absolutely love the feedback i get on my questions. So i was just wondering if anyone can help me with this one. My boyfriend (whom i absolutely LOVE)and i are thinking on having sex. PROBLEM IS i cant go on the pill and we are ... (131 words)

My boyfriend and I have herpes, I want to break up but I am afraid no one else will want me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and i have herpes. We found out a year ago and im still with him. I think i am with him cause im afraid someone else wont want me. He's getting mean. I wanna be with sumone else sum1 older but i dont kno if he likes me since we only e mail eachother every few months. Hes ... (84 words)

What to say to him without hurting his feelings, about the touching in public?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all my boyfriend and i started dating in june this year and been together since so thats 4 months into the relationship anyway when we go out he tends to love feeling me and kissing me , i dont have a problem with the kissing in public but i get shy with the feeling me ... (86 words)

My family don't understand my feelings after the recent break up, and it's hard for me to concentrate on employment now and put up with their reaction. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Not necesarily a question but a cry for help. I'm so mad. My sister got a job a this great company and they are still hiring people. I'm unemployed so I applied for a job there and got an interview. I canceled it and rescheduled because I didn't felt prepared enough and now my ... (716 words)

He's hanging out with hsi mates 24/7 and makes my asking for a bit of time sound like a chore. Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my boyfriend for nearly two and a half years,we've always had a great relationship but recently he's been hanging out with his mates 24/7 i wouldnt really have a problem with it but when i want to see him he's never around he's always off with them. we never even ... (142 words)

We're used to seeing each other every day but now it will be only once a month, until college. How will this work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help I'm moving away from fl and I love my gf she is 18 and I'm 17 we have been dating for about 6 months we had sex a lot and we both love each other. This is both of ours very first relationships that we have ever been in. I have to move to Alabama over 1000 miles ... (223 words)

Now that we broke up, he says he will never find anyone like me and regrets having cheated. He is willing to do what it takes, even counselling. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - He's cheated 7 times we been togther almost for years. I love hime more then anything he cheated again but says now he will do whatever it takes to work on his bad ways including counciling. We have had trust issues because of his past and it made us both unhappy but he cheated ... (184 words)

I've left him for the fifth time, but he doesn't seem upset! Is he b/c he's used to it? This is bothering me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've recently (2 weeks ago) left my husband for the 5th time due to his drinking habits. The other times I have left him he has always cried and begged to have me back. This time he acts as if it doesn't bother him. Could this be because he's gotten used to me leaving and ... (101 words)

My friends don't approve of my older boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im 15 and going out with a 21 year old. everythings fine except my friends are being really annoying about how its wrong. what bothers me the most is my best friend is getting pissed off and hes always like dont even mention your bf anymore around me ok? idk what to do i ... (71 words)

Lately my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyriend has been refusing to have sex with me and i dont kno y. Ive started a diet thinking that is y but idk. Hes been really mean to me lately and it hurts its like he doesnt appreciate me. He never says please or thank u. Recently i told him im going 2 the air force. ... (80 words)

I have huge self esteem issues

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I'm 18 years old... I have HUGE self esteem issues, but I date some of the prettiest girls.. The problem is, keeping them. My self esteem kicks in fast while in a relationship, like I doubt that I'm good ebough for this person, or if I'm pretty enough to be with them a... (203 words)

We've been kind of casual and I think I want more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy a few years back, because we worked together. As we got to know each other we stared hangong out, doing couple things like going to the beach together... I met his family and all his friends. But as the summer came to the end and I went back to school and he went to ... (340 words)

Should I feel bad about letting other woman know what a jerk my ex it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Do you think it is a good idea to warn other women about men who prey on other women? I posted my ex on womansavers and dontdatehimgirl and I found other women who looked him up and posted comments about him on there too. I was shocked to see how many other women he has hurt. ... (91 words)

I initiated a text and now worry he lost interest as he didnt have to chase me as much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

- Hi Recently met a guy who is 27. I am 19. He asked for my number and did text me in the first week, nearly every day (I let him text me first). After talking to a friend, she suggested that I text him first for once or he will think I'm not interested. Up to this point, me a... (333 words)

I would like to meet crossdressers. How can I do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age - i like men dressed in sari, blouse, bra and panty. i am very much desirous of making frindship with with those men who like to wear sari, blosse,bra, pettycoat and bangles. How can i make frindship with them?... (39 words)

He has to hide me from his adult kids or they have a fit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age - i have been asking question on this site for the past few days. i am in my 60's and my bf of 2yrs 8 months is in his 60's. his kids are 35 and 39 years old and they run his life. they told him to break up with me in july because they didn't think i was the one for him. do you ... (410 words)

My girlfriend and I are crazy for each other! So why do I always think I'm going to lose her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i have the most amazing girlfriend i could ever ask for...in my eyes shes perfect in almost every way. i love her more than i have ever loved anyone else. and shes always saying she feels the same way. so why do i always think im gona lose her?? ... (52 words)

Will his wife leave him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age - Thank you for posting this site. I came across your this site by chanced as I am looking for a answer to my problem and hoping to get some help. Is there any case near similar to mine? Being involved with married man. We are both in love but he is too afraid and too worry to... (256 words)

I cant seem to stop picking fights with my guy and its driving him away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 10 months.. We were 3 1/2 hours away from each other this summer, and would see each other a couple times a month. Everything was wonderful and our relationship was the best it's ever been. We are back at school now, for ... (252 words)

After I checked his texts he got wierd and said he needed space. Does that mean he is cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my boyfriend was happy,15 months together.then i found text message of a girl on his phone i rang her and she said they were friend he said the same however from that day he went wierd with his phone and then told me he needed space!i am giving him the space and has been ... (66 words)

My ex says he will always be there for me. What does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

- I need some advice. My boyfriend broke up with me almost 5 months ago because he says he's afraid of commitment, but we have still remained in some contact with each other, basically only through emails. He told me that he's dating someone else only after I told him that I ... (206 words)

I am so confused as the whether I want a commitment and children or I just want to have fun

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 26-year old female who has been with her boyfriend for nearly 3 years.We met through work and he is 11 years older than me. Although I love him very much I don't know whether he is the 'one'. We don't have a connection or 'spark' that people say they get when they meet ... (352 words)

I bumped into my ex today and we just stared at each other. I would like to get back with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this 1 guy I have known for like 10 years. We did go out at one point for about 2 years. Ever since we have been bestmates, and everyone agreed we were the perfect couple. But we fell out months ago and I REALY miss him. I see him at school all the time and its ... (153 words)

Has anybody fallen out of love with someone, only to fall back in love and stay happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Has anyone gotten back together with the one they fell out of love with, and fallen back in love and been happy ever since ?... (25 words)

I'm having some real problems with my boss...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boss is very mistrusting person. She insists on reviewing everyone's work personally though she doesn't have the time so it slows down everything because the works sits on her desk for days and people run out things to do until she's approved it. The employees here are ... (397 words)

My online guy doesn't seem interested. Has he found somebody else??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi dear aunts (and uncles)! I have a new question for you. I´ve become a member of one of those dating sites, specific for people that are looking for brazilian partners. I´ve done some research and add up a couple of guys and start chatting to them. Most of them either h... (237 words)

I like him. Do I tell him how I feel, or have I missed my chance??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I fell head over heels for a guy who recently got married. A few months before he did the deed, he told me how he felt about me. He said that hed fallen for me and never met anyone like me before. We had kissed on a few occasions, but one night we met for a drink with a frien... (279 words)

How would any of you feel if your spouse never talked to you? Is it wrong for me to want out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

- How would any of you feel if your spouse never talked to you? Been married a number of years to a man who never opens up. He's kind to me, he provides for me, but I never feel close to him and it's getting harder to have sex with him because we have no intimacy otherwise. I ... (261 words)

My boyfriend can be so immature. How can I make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy for 3 years. We've had our usual ups and downs, breaksups and reunions, etc but I really need some advice. Now before I say anything I should say that my boyfriend can be REALLY immature, insecure and needy. Despite all of this though, I love him and I ... (362 words)

In an unhappy relationship with lots of issues... But am I giving him a fair chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - recently my boyfriend and i have been having big problems. He started a new job about 9 months ago which takes more of his time and energy, in turn, the past 7 months he has done nothing but work, eat and sleep. I have an office job which requires that i sit around a whole ... (697 words)

How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)... (19 words)

I'm getting mixed signals. Does my ex want me back or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - HEy all, My ex broke up with me before the summer, we had been together for nearly 3 months, during that time we never had sex. I am still a virgin and am nervous about the issue and find it hard to get over expectations ,especially being a little older. 3 months later sh... (320 words)

I loved a girl that got married to someone else. I cant forget her. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a boy 24 years old. i loved a girl and she got marride. just now i fell her love, i cant forget her. Her face is always on my eyes. what to do now iam a software engineer.Please help me,both of us are in bangalore. ... (54 words)

Should I take my sons dad back after 2 yrs split even though I have become independant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello All, I have a problem.... When I was pregnant with my son 2 years ago, I was going through a lot of stress, and the emotional stress of having a baby, so under this pressure, and to me my son's father ability to not have ambition.... I broke up with my son's father.... (585 words)

How come some guys semen is whiter than others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how come some boys seaman is whiter than other boys?... (10 words)

I know I can be her ideal guy but what can I do to get her to hook up with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear, cupid i'm so confused please help me. There's this girl that i'm crazy about. we met about 5 years ago. we r the best friends she knows how i feel about her. I know deep down she feels the same i'm so convinced that we where made 4 each other. i treat her better than any ... (89 words)

Why have I got a lack of sex drive with this pregnancy when last time I was always wanting it!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - We got married last week. My 1st pregnancy (my baby is 5 months old) I wanted sex a lot. It seemed like I couldn't get enough. I would even wake him up in the middle of the night and get on him. I am 3-4 months pregnant now and I don't at all feel like having sex. As a ... (82 words)

I'm having an affair with a man 20 yrs older than me. What will be our future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im 20 year girl. i have a boyfriend whose 40 years old. he is got married in novmber 2006.we have our relation from past 4 years.we stay in one house.our parents doenst know about it.we had sex several times.so what will be our future. i dont want to get married to someone ... (58 words)

My estranged husband uses the children to get at me. Do I stop including him when it comes to our daughters behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Well another upadate on some of the issues I have been faced.I told my ex on Tuesday that my oldest wants to stay here with me and after that he BLEW, fighting with me allday.Serious text messages that were horriffic to me.I had to work nites that evening which was fine so that ... (371 words)

I think I am in love with someone on this site but I have only 'spoken' to them once. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

- i think i'm in love with someone on this site. i know that sounds insane but everytime i read something they have written i think "omg this person is amazing, so understanding and everything i want". i've never even spoken to them apart from one time they replied to a question ... (68 words)

I think I have shaved my pubic hair too much because now I get ingrowing hairs. What can I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I think I've shaved and plucked my pubic hairs too much because now i get a lot of ingrown hairs and i have to tear the top layer of skin with my nail to let get the hair out otherwise it will just keep growing. Is this dangerous if i do leave it and if I stop shaving or ... (72 words)

We had a perfect sex life at the start. How can we get that back again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf and i had a perfect sex life when we first met how do you get that back ? ... (20 words)

I've tried my best with my family and boyfriend but my life doesn't seem to move forward. What more can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I really don't know where I've gone wrong in my life. I'm 24 years old and not one area of my life is working out the way I'd hoped. No matter how lacking my life is I maintain my bubbly personality and never let anyone see I'm down. I never stop caring for and trying to he... (986 words)

Our 16 yr old son wants to become a male stripper when he leaves school. How can I get him to aspire to something else?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Recently I got a phone call off my 16-year-old son's teacher saying that "your son is showing very little interest in his work at school and the only thing he's interested in is becoming a male stripper. The careers advisor told me this. We've also found out he's been reading ... (282 words)

How can I stop feeling guilty for leaving a violent alcoholic husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have made the decision to separate from my husband after repeted attempts of leaving him and returning again within a week or two with the hopes that he was ready to get help as he's promised. He is an alcoholic and for the past two years he's become verbally and physically ... (234 words)

Should I be worried about him not being interested in me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my bf for one year now and he has been wonderful. Lately he has been under alot of stress with work and hasnt been interested in being with me. Should I worry about him not being intertested in me anymore? Is it okay to ask the guy why he is not active?... (57 words)

Is my boss flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really confused with wether my boss is flirting with me or just being friendly: He winks at me He walks past me, looks me in the eye and holds my gaze and then smiles I passed him a recept the other day and he practically took my hand with it (Slid his hand down my h... (363 words)

My mum found my vibrator and seems to be shocked! I'm so embarrassed!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

- Yesterday i came home from work and my mum was really weird with me - very quiet and acting like she was mad and didnt want to speak to me but i didnt know why. So i went up to my room and saw that she had been tidying it up because she had a day off work. anyway i didnt think ... (137 words)

I'm in love with him but he says he doesn't have those deep feelings for me. I don't know what to think anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 29 yrs old. I have been with my boyfriend for 7months. At first he was very motivated, and worked very hard to get me to start dating him. We get along wonderfully, we have the same interest, circle of friends, similar values and goals. All of these things have made... (205 words)

How can I be confident when its obvious most guys are better looking than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I’m self-conscious about my looks. How can I be confident when it’s obvious most guys are better looking than me? I have a friend who is approaching 50 in age, and who's not exactly "dashingly handsome." He's not ugly, but it's obvious that he's not a male supermodel either. ... (83 words)

I'm paranoid about his ex and now he isn't replying to my txt asking for us to talk! Can anyone help me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi. i wrote in yesterday about the contact between my bf and his ex, and how i went through his phone. i decided to ask him straight out about his feelings for her.he told me that he speaks to her on the odd occasion as he is grateful to her as she helped him with access to his ... (179 words)

How can I get over my ex fiance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

20 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi aunty, my problem is how to forget my engaged girlfriend whom we separated after 3yrs but still feel i love though she told me she is seeing someone else seriously.help aunty... (34 words)

I want to tell him about past secrets but I'm scared he will go off on one! Any advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i posted this a while back as a follow-up to the question "Can he love me that much and still be that relentlessly cruel?". there was only one reply (thank you, basschick), but it's still bothering me, so i'm re-asking. "we've been doing well lately. getting along, bickering... (545 words)

Why wouldn't he want to tell his family about our wedding? He makes me feel like he was forced into this marriage!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my boy friend(hubby) and i went to new york city hall to register for marriage more than a month ago. legally we're married, and we're hoping to have a formal make-up wedding next year when we're more financially stable. before we registered, i spent a long time communicati... (393 words)

He says he isnt gay but we had sex in a hotel! How can I make him feel the same for me?

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20 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - heres the thing, im gay he's str8, we chatted online and felt very connected, one day we meet up and talk talk talk and we were so close, he is not bisexual for sure, he doesnt like guys at all, so we check in a hotel coz we were so tired to go home and it takes like hours to ... (195 words)

I am a male but like to be dressed as female, how can I fulfil my desire?

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20 September 2007 (M)

age - I am a male but like to be dressed as female, how can i fulfil my desire?... (17 words)

I'm way too into sex. Should I fulfill my desires on the guy next to me?

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im way to interested in sex, even tho ive had a baby. what should i do, fulfill my desires on the boi next to me, or wait.? may baby is 4 n a half moths old... (37 words)

Is it legal to have a sexual relationship with your teacher if you are 18??

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - is it legal to have a sexual relationship with your teacher if you are 18?? ... (15 words)

I broke with my ex because his family arranged for him to marry his cousin! How can I forget him and move on???

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey.well i been with this guy for 3years and 8mths,and i really love him so much,we broke up abt 1mth ago and i cant forget him, well he went on holiday to vist his family in january this yr,and came bk married to one off his cousin,he came bk in march,and he never told me i ... (157 words)

His ex wants him back and is using emotional blackmail. He's confused. What can we do?

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently got involved with a guy I met a while ago, after swearing that I will never fall for another guy after my last break up 6 months ago. He has also been single for 6 months and also has a son out of the previous relationship. It was no problem accepting his previous ... (198 words)

Does she like me as much as I like her?

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20 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I met the most amazing woman at a college party last saturday. I was slightly drunken, and I thought she was beautiful, so of course I flirted with her. I ended up finding out that she was completely sober, and was just the DD. Somehow I had walked myself into a game of t... (290 words)

Should I leave my partner? We argue all the time.

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my partner and i are together 1yr and 8mths we are deeply in love . he spoils me with every including body massages makes personal love song cds brings me flowers and trys get involved with my 2 children . problem is we argue often and every week without fail and they fights ... (132 words)

She chose to marry the Muslim random guy the family selected for her because she was afraid of their reaction. What should I do?

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20 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My spirit is completely destroyed. I met the love of my life and we were together for two very happy years. We weren't just a couple we were best friends and planned to be married. We picked out the names for our future children and talked often about where we wanted to live ... (384 words)

If I go back he will continue his torture, if I stay back society will blame me, so what should I do to end the abuse in my marriage?

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Iam having troubled life for the past seven years, my first marriage was a dissaster there was dowry problem, i was physically abused, i kept quiet for a long time for my parents sake. basically i am a shy person and closed person who would like to keep the problems to myse... (341 words)

I wouldn't have cheated if I had been sober, but how do I shake this feeling of guilt?

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20 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I've been dating this wonderful girl for about 2 months now, but something has happened to turn my life upside down. Last weekend, I went out drinking with some friends of mine, and I wound up cheating on my girlfriend. I don't really remember much ab... (127 words)

In second year of uni and never had a bf. Any ideas?

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just starting my second year of university (engineering), and yet have never had a boyfriend. I really would like to have at least some sort of relationship, but I have only ever had one guy ask me out, and he was a creep who admitted he asked me as a last resort. I can't ... (90 words)

Why is it that the really nice, good guys just arent that 'attractive'? How can I change being shallow so as not to care of this aspect?

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20 September 2007 (F)

- Why is it that the really nice, good guys just arent that 'attractive'? I hav a friend who is SOOOOOOOOO nice and caring and is sooo supportive of me. Hes been there for me all the time. From my last break up with a bad bf, to a car accident I was in, to stress from study... (209 words)

Should I try and prove to him he can trust me or let him go? I made a mistake before meeting him and he holds it against me.

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 months and I had a fight tonight because I have realized that he doesn't trust me to go out with my friends, or to a party and have a drink. I don't have a problem with alcohol and never have, A few months before I met him I went to a party at an old friend... (437 words)

Ladies: what can I do to win her over? Any suggestions??

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20 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - why cant i win her over? what do i do? she likes someone else more then me at least i think. we have gotten close but then she faded away. how can i get her to like me again? what can i do that she'll never forget? ladies help!!!... (49 words)

He went to jail for getting me pregnant - I lost the baby and we split. Now we're together and I'm pregnant again, but he won't tell anyone about us!

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ok i have a question quick insite i was pregnant and lost my baby when i was about 4 months along due to stress and everything as my boyfriend was in jail for 2 months for having sex with me i was 16 and he was 20 at the time im now 17 and hes still 20 im pregnant ... (353 words)

I work, study at night, do the cooking and more than my share of household duties, and feel unappreciated! Am I silly if I want a bit of help from her?

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20 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a 28yo Male who has been in a relationship for almost a year with my girlfriend also 28. we have lived together for 6 months. My problem is I am so miserable becasue i feel totally unappreciated I work 9 - 10 hour days and study at night, do all the cooking because ... (203 words)

I'm unsure if he likes me...

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20 September 2007 (F)

- Im unsure of what this guy thinks of me. I met this guy about two weeks ago, and since then he has been non stopp texting me! Like 24/7! Some days I would go through $20 (Australian Dollars) worth of text messages. He said he thought I was pretty and really nice. However... (294 words)

What could I do to get him to open up to me and feel more comfortable with the age difference?

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a seventeen year old girl and I have a major crush on a 23 year old guy. He's shy and is a very private person, and I've been trying to slowly get him out of his shell and talk to him. I have him as one of my friends on myspace, and I've asked him many questions, a lot ... (123 words)

Should I tell him that for 10 yrs I never stopped thinking about him and I want to try again?

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a first love come back into my life after 10 yrs. i'm separated from my daughter's father we remain close and even were intimate after the separation a few months ago. my first love and i have been communicating for a month now and he's coming into town for a week nex... (93 words)

My dad told me I'm gaining weight and it's really affected my self esteem!

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20 September 2007 (?) age 30-35 - ok so today i came home and my dad suddenly for the first time in my life told me that i have gained a little bit of weight and i feel horrible now! my self esteem went reallllll low and im not fat at all just a bit curvy.. so i dont know what to do.... (56 words)

What are the different techniques of mustarbating for boys/men?

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20 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What are the different techniques of mustarbating for boys/men?... (9 words)

The experience with the prostitute wasn't the best, does this mean I will never enjoy sex when married?

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20 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I once slept with a prostitute after a week of exceptional sex urges. The experience wasnt the best cause she was older than me and she wrapped my peniswith 3 condoms all at once. Does this mean i will never enjoy sex when am married or was it due to smthing else? Pliz help.... (54 words)

Is he a cheater, should I dump him?

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20 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is he a cheater, should i dump him? i want to first start out by saying i have been cheated on in the past and i think the cheating may be my problem now..?? so this is my problem, my boyfriend and i have been togther for 6 months, before starting a relationship we were... (841 words)

How can I get closer to her and talk to her about my feeling about her?

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20 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I catch a girl? She is my classmate at the university. I do like her, but she is one of those proud and formal behaving girls (like me as a boy), she is so hard to have a small talk with, I wonder how I can set up a relationship with her. I am shy for making romantic ... (107 words)

Do I tell her I love her? Should I do it over the phone, or in person?

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20 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have known this girl for a few years now and we're good friends. I Realized a couple weeks ago that I love her. I can't stop thinking about her. Ever since I realized that I loved her I haven't started the conversations at all. She has been the one who calls or texts or ... (162 words)