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writes:Hi dear aunts (and uncles)! I have a new question for you. I´ve become a member of one of those dating sites, specific for people that are looking for brazilian partners. I´ve done some research and add up a couple of guys and start chatting to them. Most of them either have been here or are coming and some even are living here... One of the guys have cought my atenttion. His profile says that he wants to meet someone, and in the future, get married and have kids. But his first intention was stablish contacts and meet people when he comes here by the end of the year. We started chatting, first on the site, then on msn, and we discovered we have same tastes for music, movies, travels and also have this will to someday find someone to start a famliy. However, he hasnt shown interest in me by the site (they have this kind of remarks for profiles) and is not always open to chat. Maybe is too busy with work or have found someone else? Am I being too paranoic on that? Should I be more straight forward? He has been too vague on settting up a meeting and I´ve already invited him to a concert of one of the bands from my country I´ve introuduced to him. thanks!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 September 2007):
 It's kind of difficult to figure out what this guy might be thinking, but, from the information you give, I would say he is not that interested. If he were, he would be contacting you all the time and he would have set up a meeting.
I suspect he might be checking other people, too. In my opinion, your chances with this guy are not that good. He seems to be "shopping" for a partner.
In any case, to remove the doubt, you should be straightforward and tell him whether you should expect something from him.
Se cuida.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (20 September 2007):
 Yes you should be straight forward. You need to know what's going on, and he needs to be honest and not keep you hanging. That's not fair to you, and it's not right for him.
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