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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The ex bf or the new guy? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have an enormous dilemma! Here's the background: I have been with the same guy on and off for just over 2 and a half years. For a long time I have wanted nothing but to be married to him and build a family together. After 11 months of dating he said he wanted to live together ... (947 words)

My bf is so immature and sulks if we disagree, then won't budge, even refuse to go out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my fiance is so immuture and sulks if we disagree,i make the first move and he continues to behave like a spoilt brat and refuses to budge even declines to take me out,should i just go out with the girls since he doesnt want to know? why should i be punished twice for his ... (60 words)

She told me he didn't do oral but after our break up she did it with another guy. Now we're in a serious relationship and bittered by this thought.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - dear cupid, i've been dealing with this female on and off for about ten or eleven years now. when we first started having sex i asked her could we have oral sex, she told me she didn't do that but after she stopped dealing with me she started having oral sex with another guy ... (97 words)

I am a kind person, matured early. When people I know die I don't feel sad, when they marry I don't care. I want to care, show affection. How to solve this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Issues moving forward with relationships and other things... During the past few years, I have had nostalgic feelings and feelings of regret about my life prior to becoming an adult. At the age of 20, I really want to move forward and start accomplishing things, but some... (761 words)

Why can't he accept my heart belongs to him and stop being suspicious, when he loves me, maybe just as much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - im inlove with my man and someday hopefully i intend getting him to make me his wife,i want to love and be with him forever,but 1 snag he constantly accuses me of hiding things in my email yet i allow him full access to look at anything,it's so heartbreaking for me as i know ... (84 words)

I find myself feeling pathetic and depressed because of her changeful ways. Her mood changes so easily without explanations.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, ive been with my girlfriend for 15 months. i love her very much but her mood towards me can change soo easily, i dont even have to do anything. one day she can be passionate towards me then the next day she can be incredibly distant like i barely know her. when i ask whats ... (257 words)

My gf said her boss would ride her to the airport for a business trip, before leaving she said she'd quit her job because I seemed...jealous. I was not, although having discovered flirtacious texts from him. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice about my girlfriend. Recently it's come to my attention that her new boss has been texting my lady late at night. She dosen't know I've seen them and as soon as she reads them she deletes them. For the most part the texts I've seen aren't what bothers me but ... (577 words)

He keeps asking about threesomes. I've had them and they're not a good idea at all! Should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay i have been with my boyfriend for four years. And yes our relationship is somewhat good. But a few days ago all my bf did was ask about a threesome. I have had them in the past and they are not the greatest idea at all. he kept on begging me telling me that he wont stick ... (100 words)

We've been going out for 3 years and just moved in together - and he never wants to have sex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my b/f have been going out for 3 yrs just moved in together but he never wants to have sex i'm 21 and hes 35 what should i do... (31 words)

13 years of marriage, she tells me now about a one night stand before we got together.

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm totally freaked out. My wife of 13 years just admitted that a few days prior to our getting together she had a one night stand(drunk) with a high school friend of ours who she barely knew. She has NEVER told me this even though we dated for 4 years prior to getting married ... (143 words)

I want to have sex but my gf is never ready. Are there ways to make a girl ready?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey frnds ! i wanna know how to make a girl ready for sex??? i need to have sex but my girlfriend is never ready to do so!! i can't controle it....i need to have sex...plzzz help me out!!!!!!! thanxxxxxxxxx... (45 words)

I don't have any friends to go out with or to take my mind off my Internet lover, after the break up, so what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

- i just broke up with my boyfriend who i met online but never actually met in person. we were together for one year and he ended it saying its not going anywhere and im wasting his time. he is completely ignoring me now. i love him. believe me i do, i know people say you c... (238 words)

It kills me that I might lose her to another guy..how do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was dating a girl for 3 years, from my sophomore to senior year in highschool. She was my first "real" girlfriend, and i was her frist everything pretty much. There were a lot of times through our relationship that I didn't feel like it was working anymore and almost ... (279 words)

These medical conditions that make me want a completely new appearance. Is it possible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

- i need a new face. seriously its not just your average 15 year old "im bored of looking like me" thing. i have medical conditions and was born with a few things that have messed my face up such as a cleft lip. theres this girl that i wanna look like - i dont wanna be her or ... (175 words)

What does a barrister do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, i`m about to leave school this year and i am in the "top 10" of year 11's comming out with the most g.c.s.e's and i want to become a barrister i realized this when a teacher mentioned it to me can u tell me plz what a barriester actually does? and when i leave school ... (132 words)

I'm fed up with people presuming I'm happy when I'm so down. They wouldn't understand me if I told them how I felt. Help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im fed up with people presuming im happy when im so down. I know this is my fault because i put on a smiley face and pretend im fine but deep down i feel depressed. I have a great supportive family but if i say anything they would laugh it off and tell me to stop being silly. ... (164 words)

Will it hurt my boys not to have a male influence in their lives?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Curiosity question here. I am currently separated from my husband and seriously considering divorce. Of course at this time in my life I feel like I don't ever want another man in for life for as long as I live. Every experience I've EVER had with men end up the same way. ... (213 words)

Will his girlfriends think I'm immature?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm in an age gap relationship. I am 18, and my boyfriend is in his 20s. Everything is wonderful so far, we've been dating for about 7 months. I've met his family, he's met mine, he's met my friends, everyone gets along, wonderful. Due to distance, ... (180 words)

Ideas to look older? (make up, clothes, hairstyles)

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 14 years old i look a bit younger i want to look 14 or older but i still have a bit of a baby face i am about 5'2 so i am a bit small but i am still growing and i am thin too.my hair is longish but i want it longer.please can someone give me ideas ... (66 words)

How can I help and show her that no matter how much work needs to be done I'm still with her and that I don't mind that shes having to do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is a teacher and she loves it. Just oen problem this time of the year is always the most stressful for her. I think shes been over working herself and getting herself upset for no reason, shes not at the stage where she starts crying but i can tell she wants to ... (174 words)

His ex is putting him in debt and I don't like that. Should I stick this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Me (in my thirties) and my boyfriend (in his forties) entered into our relationship over three years ago, though we were friends for a few years previous. Before we were together, we were both involved in relationships where we financially supported our partners, but they were ... (707 words)

My partner wants to go to university, but I'm afraid of the distance this implies; feel miserable verytime it's brought up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) age 36-40 - my partner wants to goto university, and i hate the thought of them leaving me. I know a relationship couldn't work between us with a 50mile distance if they go. I don't know what to do or say. 'Cos its their life and they can do what they want, but it just makes me feel ... (63 words)

I helped her with tones of things and we were close. But she came back from vacation as a whole different person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I think this is my lowest point... hello everyone, i have this friend, and she used to be very nice until she went away on vacation, she came back as a whole different person... we talk over IM and phone for hours, because we went to the same school, but now we don't see each ... (186 words)

23 years age gap. I don't care about me, but of my boyfriend's reputation. Please advise.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a relationship with an older man, there is a 23 year age gap but we are both very comfortable with each other and we're very happy together. My problem is that im worried that people may think bad of us, not many people know of our relationship and im scared he wil... (96 words)

She tells me she has an std, and then blames me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, I have been married for a month now my wife came to me and said she had caught an std and the way she said it was like she was blaming me i have not been with any other women and she claims she hasn't been with any other men i think she's trying to use reverse pych... (64 words)

It was a week after her period, could she still get pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I had unprotected sex last night. Is it possible that she could get pregnant even though it was almost a week after her period?... (27 words)

My son has been diagnosed with autistic spectrum disorder. How do I solve his problem of not wanting to use the toilet except for urine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi readers. i found out last year that my son has been diagnosed with autistic spectrum disorder. its not very well known of and some people dont even know it exists. My problem is, he has just started primary school and he is confident enough to use the toilet when it comes to ... (274 words)

I can talk with any guy, unless he is my crush; then I become shy. Advice, anyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy... but.. I barely talk to him. I feel sooo shy when I am in his presence. I'm like, "WTF is wrong with me?" I basically can talk to any guy, unless he is my crush. I think he likes me back, because he is also shy around me. Once, there was a time when he... (125 words)

They broke up a year ago, he's still not over her, should I give up or stick with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a wonderfull good man for 5 months now. He is not over his ex. He spent 15 years with her, she was his only other girlfriend other than myself. They have been apart over a year. They have no contact with each other. The problem is that I feel he has ... (326 words)

I think he is falling out of love with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we do love eachother but i think he is starting to fall out of love with me how can i get things back to normal?... (36 words)

Will she ever leave her husband for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a beautiful married woman 5 years ago in a restaurant on a Saturday. She was from a neighboring state. We talked and clicked. She was perfect - we fell in love. She has an a**hole for a husband. We stayed in touch and she visits when she can - about 6 times a year f... (211 words)

For his 16th he wants to eat at every fast food place in the area.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - In three weeks time my 15-year-old son will become 16. I've asked him what he wants to do for his birthday, and he said he wants to eat out at every McDonald's, Burger King and Pizza Hut in the area. I've said to him he can go to one of those restaurants, not all of ... (349 words)

I keep straying to other men.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married for the second time and have four children i love my husband he is 1 in a million, but i cant stop straying to different men, i dont no what to do i think about it all the time, what can i do?... (46 words)

We nearly kiss, then he texts me to tell me the rumours of having been intimate with a third person aren't true. Does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I Really Like This Guy Who Is 2 Years Older Than Me I Went To His Party The Other Day And Got Really Close, We Nearly Kissed Then I got a text sayin that he had fingered this girl, but this girl is a lyer and she lies to make herself sound good. The NExt Day I Got A mess... (190 words)

Is it fair that he will be leaving me on my own for a month every year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I moved out to new york to live in new york where he is from and where his business is out of. But now he is going back to colorado every january for a month to rent his houses (his other business). Im basically out of luck because i don't have my career started up. Im trying ... (192 words)

Why does being good looking make you so miserable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

- this is going to sound unbelievably arrogant but i assure you this is a genuine problem i have and i am genuinely asking for advice because it is really hard and upsetting me. i think i am too good looking. i know i am attractive, and guys ask for my number sometimes 10 or 20 ... (344 words)

I don't know what's going on at the moment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - my boyfriend has emigrated to Australia (since May) and although he wants me to join him he is currently texting me at 3am, 4am (his time) from bars at least once or twice a week. I have asked him whether he would like it if I went out drinking with people until this hour ... (302 words)

Daughters away for the weekend, can you give me some advice on a fun time for me and my wife please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi me and my wife have been married nearly 8 years and have a good relationship. Our daughter is going on a trip with college tonight and won't be back until tuesday night, so we have the house all to ourself and tomorrow, perfect time for lots of passionate sex! Just need abit ... (147 words)

Should I run a mile, or give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age - Hello everyone, need a little advice here as I'm not sure what to do. Split up from my ex about ten months ago and friends suggested going on a dating site.. Anyway I've had a lot of fun chatting to men, but some are just downright disrespectful and I know are only out for ... (224 words)

What's the difference?, someone please explain.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is probably one of the most stupid questions you will have ever read but could you please try to answer it! What is actually the different between making love and just sex? I know it all involves the same thing but alot of people say its different like it wasn't making ... (80 words)

Is he trying to get out of the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my relationship has run its course, though I'm scared to say it. We're nothing at all like we were when we first started seeing each other- we were spontaneous, amorous, happy- everything lovers should be. We are each other's first relationships. He's had to move to ... (317 words)

Is he just scared of getting hurt again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been talking to a guy for two years now and we got on from the start,i really like him and have done since i first started talking to him.he says we have a special friendship as we have been intimate over the phone and i have told him i really like him and that i see him ... (155 words)

Do I move back in with my ex, or will it just make things worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in financial dire straits. Going throu a divorce. Ex Boyfriend has offered my kids and I a place to stay. I don't want to exchange one problem for another. I am currenlty temping. Not making enough to see to my basics. Debts are piling up. Ex not paying ... (69 words)

I'm in love with someone who makes me so happy... yet, so miserable as well. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I need serious advice on how to handle this. I am in love with someone who makes me so happy yet so miserable at the same time. I lovemy girlfriend. Infact she is everything I could ever want right now. Problem is she fucked things up at the start. Shehad an old boyfri... (819 words)

A colleague fancies me, but he knows I love my partner with all my heart, so as a result, he wants to quit his job! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 24 and in a happy relationship with my partner to with im engaged to i work at asda and i have friend called mike we are good mate and have been there for each other at our time of need but resantly i have resived text messages frome him sayin he fancys me and that he has ... (170 words)

I have a crush on my Music Producer. Is it worth pursuing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a small-time musician and I have a seriously intense crush on my producer, who is in a (very) long distance relationship. He's 31 and I'm 19. Are there too many reasons not to pursue him, or should I just go for it? He sends obvious vibes that he likes me and we have a ... (84 words)

2 years together. I had to go to New Zealand for a while, and she cheated. Now she's really mean towards me. Do we have a chance at all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi My now ex and me had been dating for 2 years and known each other for 7 years (since she was 14). She was always really into me and talked about marriage and kids and how much she loved me and couldnt be with anyone else. She has had a few b/f before me 2 of which where s... (853 words)

I've always been hetero, gay images are not sexually exciting for me, but I enjoyed my experience with a transsexual. How come?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age - i am 66, a widower, no children living at home. i been alone about 10 years. my sexual orientation has always been hetero, men never attracted me. through my work, i have become acquainted with a black transsexual, very pretty, very feminine. my wife was black and since ... (327 words)

She cheated on me, and I was going to propose! How do I get through this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend have just broke up because she has had sex last wendnesday with a random bloke in the toilets of a night club and i was going to propose to her how do i get over this with as little pain as possible?.... (46 words)

I'm troubled by something my girlfriend did in the past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my gf have been in our relationship for almost three years... i'm aware that in almost every relationship the past comes up. The thing is, my past doesn't bug her as much as hers does me... We both had boyfriends in our pasts but she told me something she did with a guy ... (202 words)

Is it wrong to have the "all or nothing" mentality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it wrong to have the "all or nothing" mentality? Must we remain friends? Is it ok if you have no interest in being a friend to a woman who (place excuse here) and just wants to be friends. We have been close friends for 2 years and now that I have exposed my feeli... (75 words)

Does anyone else think this guy is taking things too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! Sorry...this may be a bit long but I just want to give everybody a bit of bakground info :) I met this amazing guy over the summer. Let me start by stating that I’m 24 and he’s 22, so this isn’t some high school summer love. He was just passing through town on his way ... (370 words)

I've met a beautiful new girl... But conversation seems a little arkward! What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Confused about a girl. Ok we'll theres this girl I saw today in my gym class and as soon as I saw her I was like OMG, she was like the prettiest girl I have ever seen. I am very into vampires, and lets just say she looked like a slightly darker Kate Beckinsale from ... (513 words)

Distance of 300 miles is starting to eat us up. How can we find the common ground??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and 9 months. we're very close and very open with eachother.. the down side is that we're long distance. about 300 miles between us..(i'm in the s.f. bay area and she's about an hour from los angeles) the reason why we're ... (318 words)

Why do some women not enjoy giving head?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont understand why some women love giving head and others wouldnt dare even if you gave them thousands of opportunities to do it. whats so wrong with it? you ladies out there what do you think?... (37 words)

How long does someone wait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age - I was dating a guy for about six months. Everything was wonderful. He had been divorced for about 9 years and me 10. We have much in common, including work, religious views, money etc. One night, he got quite and told me that he has been in love with a married woman for 8 ... (170 words)

Big Age Gap

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age - I have feelings for a female at work,but I am 52 and she is 29.Is this too much of an age difference? How would I tell if there is any interest on her part?... (35 words)

If I do the bad guy thing

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 21 soon id like to think I know a bit since I had a crap life my girlfriend cheated on me and I gave her a 2nd chance and she cheated on me with 2 guys at the same time why do things like this happen to nice guys. Well I don’t think I am a nice guy I treat girls right I ... (117 words)

He didn't explain what was going on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 21, female and I met a guy a few months ago at work. I asked him to go out and we went out a few times. We went for drinks at the bar. But he always waited for me to ask him to do things. After a while he seemed more interested and started calling me to go out to the ... (211 words)

I've only ever had one relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Very trivial, but I hate how long it's been since I last had sex. It's been.. Almost 5 months. I've only ever had one relationship, and it lasted about a year and a half. I still have a lot of feelings for my ex (and PLEASE don't just assume that Sex is the only thing I mis... (157 words)

I think I am depressed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I am depressed.. I get upset over the littlest things, always crying about anything n everything... when I get upset I either eat loads(and I have gained loads weight) or eat nothing (terrible stretch marks from putting weight on n off) I feel shit all the time abo... (165 words)

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of course me being so young i ... (262 words)

What could he want after all this time???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have this ex-boyfriend who is bothering me at the moment. We parted company 4 years ago after dating for a couple of months. I thought we got on great but he just disappeared unexpectedly without indicating that he wanted to split up and after ignoring a couple of my phone ... (212 words)