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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I take it from his actions he doesn't love me any more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy broke up with me a few weeks back, it's so hard to get over him.. he doesn't even want to be friends.. says it's for the best.. I really want to get back with him.. I've emailed him telling him how I feel but he just doesn't reply:( I don't want anyone else apart from ... (93 words)

He says "your my girlfriend, not my mother". Should I be so concerned with his life choices?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey its me again, about the should I chuck him or wait for a miracle. I've got another question, my boyfriend wants to do more pot which is completely against my morals. He has plans to do it this weekend. I want to use the old "three strikes your out" thing... but I can't ... (81 words)

Please help me I dunno what to do and whom to believe......

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

14 September 2007 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 18 and living in California. I met my boyfriend 19 years of age online and also through mutual friends.. he lives in Florida which is 23,000 miles away and still I have not yet met him in person... when we first started talking on the phone his best friend tried telling me ... (201 words)

Last week when I was home he didn't come home and I know he was with an escort again. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently discovered that my partner has been paying for sex. I've been away a couple of times this year with our 6 month old and each time I've been away he has contacted an escort agency. Last week when I was home he didn't come home and I know he was with an escort ... (73 words)

Why is the boy I love so nasty to me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

- The lad I really love and have done things with in the past and have been out with before but he says he doesn't fancy me anymore. He has been off with me today, we were out with a lad who fancies me and I want the lad I love 2 want me back and this other lad was like flirting ... (247 words)

How can I make them understand that he makes me happy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need some help I have just gotten into a relationship with a guy whos 19 (20 in november). I am 15 and turn 16 in december. Since getting with this guy I have become amazingly happy. We have spoken about the whole sex situation and have agreed to wait until I'm re... (99 words)

I suffer with irritable bowel syndrome and the last couple days I have had really bad back and neck ache, I was just wondering is this something to do with my IBS?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I suffer with irritable bowel syndrome and the last couple days I have had really bad back and neck ache, I was just wondering is this something to do with my IBS?... (33 words)

Should I take the chance and risk getting hurt again or play safe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've met a guy through work who I really like and whilst I'm not sure how he feels about me, I think that he could feel the same way. The only problem is that I don't know if i can trust him. He's a sales rep (I've worked with sales reps for about 6 yrs and am usually immune ... (239 words)

Why do I keep having these intimate dreams about my sister's boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister has been with her partner for just going on 5 years and the past 2 nights I've had a dream that we (myself and her boyfriend) have been left together and he has came onto me and we go all the way. I've never found him attractive before as I see him as my sister's ... (89 words)

Is she confused? Maybe I just need to give her a break?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I am 16 I am gonna be 17 in October and last week my girlfriend dumped me cause she thinks she is being really bossy and rude to me but she's not. Then 2 days later I call her then we talked she says you need to let me go then says let me think about things let me cool off. ... (280 words)

She is worried about all family and friend's expectations for her present relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, just wonder what your views are on this. In love with my affair. She's in love too but still aint ditched her fella. Just carry on hoping she will one day start shutting him out cos it's getting stronger between me and her or ultimatum? What are your views. She aint ... (88 words)

After giving birth 2 months ago, every time I go near her breast she leaks milk...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife gave birth to our baby daughter 2 months ago, she was our first but whenever me and my wife are having sex or being intimate and I go down to caress her breast etc(sorry to be graphic) or when I put my mouth near them she starts to leak if you get me (milk wise. She ... (149 words)

I was with my boyfriend and he had a see through substance on the tip of his you know what...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my boyfriend and he had a see through substance on the tip of his you know what and I just wanted to know if it contains sperm or if it's a lubricant, also, why does this happen, we weren't even doing anything, I was just sitting on his lap. Any advice would be great... (60 words)

Has anyone gotten back together when your girlfriend says they fell out of love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Has anyone gotten back together when your girlfriend says they fell out of love ? Me 24 and my girlfriend 26 have ben together for almost 3 years. Three weeks ago before we went to sleep told me that she thinks we need a break. That she needs to see how and if she misses me... (634 words)

My bf has to have a beard b/c of his religion, but I hate beards! I want him to cut it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend so much, but he's got a beard and long hair, he has to have it this way because of his religion, but the thing is im not a fan of beards, but he can't cut it. I really hate beards ! It just makes him look older and my friends think im dating a 40 year old ... (117 words)

My fantasy is about my partner thinking of another guy! Why? In all honesty, it seems rather twisted to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age - I am in a monogamous gay relationship with my partner of 10 years. He is 50, I am 44. He works in an environment where all of his co-workers are male and one of them is a 20 year-old straight guy I'll call Jack. Although my partner hasn't admitted this to me, I believe he has a ... (258 words)

My girlfriend tends to ignore me when friends are around, but says she doesn't realize she's doing it! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months it seems great and we are both soo in love but sometimes i feel like being kind of ignored like if her cousin or one of my friends is there she acts different. i need help because most of the times i get pissed off a... (67 words)

Because of my split, I feel that I'm falling into depression. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my ex have been split up for 6 months im still in love with him i cry myself to sleep. he still comes to c me and we still do stuff and he says he loves me and cares for me then ignores me. what do i do i feel im falling into depression. i want him back so much please ... (65 words)

Why do cheaters always come up with the same excuses? Why can't they just be honest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I have a couple questions that someone can answer. I was wondering when people cheat why do they all have about the same answer, it's any of these most of the time, " I didn't intend on it," "It just happened", " I wasn't looking for it", " I never set out t... (148 words)

Since getting a bf, she's started ignoring me! How can I get her to like me, or even just be my friend again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok im 16 and have this really good friend who i have been really good friends with for about 2 years. She got a boyfriend about a month ago that she really likes, and nothings been the same since. Ive liked her ever since we've been friends and i told her that and she didnt say ... (129 words)

Is there a chance of him liking me? I'm shy, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i have a big crush on my friend that i have known since we were 3. He is a month younger than me so he got put into the year below me and he has just come to my secondary school. We dont hardly talk now but sometimes i feel him staring at me. He is very cute and popular ... (126 words)

I feel used and hurt - how do I get through this break-up and get proper closure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do i get closure? Im writing because im quite hurt. Ive broken up with my boyfriend of nearly a year. He was very loving, did sooo many lovely things for me, but he could switch and in an argument say some really really hurtful things. He is 22yrs old and im 28. At t... (574 words)

My husband said his feelings for me could change again, but only if I kicked my daughter out of our house!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for two years. We have both been married before and have children from previous relationships, we also have our own four year old son. We have had quite a few problems in the past but have always managed to resolve them. A few weeks ago my ... (189 words)

Does everybody find a love as good/better after splitting with "the one?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry if it sounds as thought I'm whining here but, I really feel like I'm never going to have the same feelings for anybody ever again. I'm 19, so you might find that ridiculous. I've come out of a relationship.. about 4 months ago, that lasted 3 1/2 years. It's ended becau... (192 words)

We broke up b/c of arguments about his ex! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boy friend is 13 Years older than me, he has 2 kids from his wife that he is getting a divorce with that he was with for 16 years, I love him to bits but, I always seem to feel threatened by her even though he left her after she cheated 3 times. Lately we have been arguing a ... (147 words)

My bf of 2 months told me to F%*K off in front of his friends and I left the bar in tears! Should I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

- I had a row with my bf last nite (we have been together only 2 months) and it was over nothing - mostly my fault. But when I tried to apologise he told me to F%*K off in front of his friends and I left the bar in tears. Usually when we argue I contact him the next day to apolo... (119 words)

Should I leave my bf w/out confronting him about his cheating? He's very controlling and a compulsive liar.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - im trying to cope in silence about my boyfriends secretive life,he thinks i dont know what he`s been up to secret phone calls and txt messages to other women,he`s also got photo`s of them which ive seen,should i walk away without confronting him as he`s very controling and a ... (56 words)

How likely is it to get pregnant when only the pull-out method is used?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys...=) Well basicly last night I had unprotected sex...i know it was stupid...I definatly wont be taking risks again... i know the guy/his history etc so STI'S isn't an issue... but I'm worried there could be a possibility of getting pregnant =/ He did pull out so i kn... (86 words)

My daughter's boyfriend is treating her like crap and it's driving me crazy!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age - I am the mother of a very attractive, smart, outgoing 17 year old. She has alot going for her. She has been dating a guy for two years (they started seeing each other in high school) they are two grades apart but only a year and a few months age wise. He is a nice enough guy ... (200 words)

He sent me a text about another woman by accident! I'm gutted.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. im 24 and have been with my boyfriend 2 years. last sat night he had a boys night out. i was at home alone when i got a text message from him saying "she can't be more unreal than you..ha. are you settin me up. ha". He obviously meant to send it to someone else. I rang him... (223 words)

I have a boyfriend and I'm fat - but does my guy friend who has a girlffriend like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my mum says he likes me. my best guy friend says that he does. my best friend. i like him. but how do i know if he likes me? he smiles alot when he see me. he use to say hello all the time. but it changed he's gf got mad when he does that. im kinda fat. he is not. hes gf is ... (104 words)

I always have to be right and my bf just agrees to avoid arguments. How can I stop this behavior??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have a problem that is going to soon end my current relationship(its partly the reason my other relationship ended), my boyfriend brought a subject up last night which he told me that i "also have to be right" and that he just agrees with me because its easier than trying ... (123 words)

My fiance is a control freak! He's forbidden me from wearing clothes I like and slapped me across the face!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my fionce is controlling, weve bee together just over a year and at the beginning of the relationship it was so perfect! now, hes a control freak, i cant even wear the tops that i like. hes pinned me down by the throat wen weve bin arguin n slapped me across the face, althought ... (149 words)

I'm bored of having a normal life. I want to move to an impoverished country and no longer be a slave to money!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, dont know if this is the usual thing? im running away from my life, theres nothing wrong with it, i have a job, home, friends and family. but i'm bored of having a normal life. i already know everything thats going to happen, work, morgage, married, kids, retire - isnt th... (226 words)

I can't tell him that I'm unsure of our relationship b/c his best friend just died - I can't hurt him anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so unsure what to do i have been seeing my current boyfriend for a month and its very long distance and ive only seen him a few times in that time. And im going through alot of things this year including the sudden passing of my grandad and i feel i rushed into this ... (107 words)

It's been 2 months since our break-up, but my feelings for him just keep getting stronger!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 15 and have just come out of a seriouse relationship it has been two months now and i am still not over him. i like him more than ever Is he the one?... (35 words)

He didn't add me on facebook b/c it would annoy his ex, and more! Is he over her or what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is my guy over his ex? I have found rude pictures of him n his ex(with whom he broke up 2 yrs back),everytime i ask him about her, he is overprotective n blames me of not trusting him. He avoids my questions and blames me instead.He visits her in odd hours, 10 pm, 11 pm for... (145 words)

How can I build my tolerance so I don't go so quickly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I cant really control myself while having sex. I dont last long while having sex and i feel embarrased and ashamed because i cant really please a girl that well. Any advice on what i can do to help build my tolerance so i dont go so quickly?... (48 words)

How do I get my husband of 15 years back after my mid-life crisis affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age - is there such a thing as midlife crisis,i'm a women of 44,been split with my husband of 15 years.i went off and had affair,never even look at another man before,started flirting with men,wanted my life back i suppose.then one morning i woke up and realised what had been going ... (94 words)

My fiance said it didn't matter if he thought of other women, that he loved me. I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age - im engaged and afew months before we are to be married i asked if he ever fantisize about other women...his reply, what if i do,what does it matter,i love you...im lost and dont know what to do with this...... (39 words)

My online guy wants to travel to meet me, but I'm not sure about him. Should I allow him to visit?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hallow, m a 27 years old female, got this guy thru a certain website and we are dating online, chat frequenlty, he gave me his mobile number and sometimes calls me and send me text messages,it has been a month now since i have known him, he seems to be humble and sincere, now ... (120 words)

She keeps talking to her ex b/c he's related to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend will not stop talking to the ex-boyfriend because they are fourth cousins. They were together for five years, before I came into the picture. As we started dating she told me that it was her ex-boyfriend, but she fail to mention to me that they were related to ... (243 words)

Is she flirting with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - is this a sign of flirting, quite confused?! there is this female whom i go to work with. we talked a couple times regarding my concerns. just every once in a while she will be gazing or looking at me for quite a long time, lets say a little more than 4 seconds and i ca... (134 words)

I you loved someone, wouldn't you do anything for that person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - IF YOU LOVED SOME ONE WOULDNT YOU DO ANYTHING ???????? well heres my question, my fiance and me are living about 5hrs away and were still kinda young and not making so much money i seen him in july and now i am going crazy i want to see him now but cant as i dont h... (357 words)

I'm pregnant and feeling angry and sad. Are these just mood swings like my husband says?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - quick question if you love some one than can you have bad feelings of sadness ? like as you feel not cared for or loved?????? i am pregnant and my husban thinks its just my mood swings but i feel so unhappy and want to leave all the time but at the same time i fe... (175 words)

Did he take advantage of me while I was asleep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I drunk wine and I became drunk at around 12 midnight for about 4 hours and after that at around 5 in the morning I went to bed with a guy having a clear picture of what I was doing. But can it happen that I did not sleep with him or could he have taken advantage while I was ... (132 words)

She goes out w/ guy friends one-on-one and said if I did that w/ women she'd be jealous, too! But she keeps doing it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all... I am a 40yo guy and have met a wonderful woman 35yo. At the moment though, her and I live in different states and I am planning to move soon so we can be together. We are already talking commitment/marriage and kiddies which is just great! I am really looking ... (543 words)

I'm pregnant and I think he cheated on me! There's so much evidence! What do you think??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello IM GETTING MARRIED IN NOV. im so excited butt heres the problem i fear that my love for my fiance is not letting me see whats really going on i maybe wrong but you tell me what it sounds like my fiance works with a girl that he told me was gay and wasnt into m... (851 words)

Does this mean she wants to break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and I had a serious fight about me not showing enough love to her, I already admit to it and told her that I was gonna change, but she doesn't believe me, and all she says is that she doesn't know what to do anymore wit us, does that mean she wants to break up???... (57 words)

What do I do? I have a crush on my boyfriend's cousin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, im 16 and in trouble. I think i havea crush on my boyfriend's cousin. His cousin, i dont know why i do have a crush on him. He too has a girlfriend but everytime we se each other at a game or at his grandma's house we always stare a each other... directly at the eyes. bu... (181 words)

Embarassed about online dating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Embarassed about online dating Hi everyone, This may sound really silly, but I find myself feeling embarassed about using an online dating site. Only one of my friends knows I am on Agematch.com and that is because we both joined together! We have both been o... (222 words)

She never wants to talk or even say please...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I dont think I have ever really been happy in a realitionship.The one im with right now we were happy in the bigining but now she would rather watch tv then even sit and talk with me.Sometime I feel like im her bitch.Like She never asks me please or thank you.She just assumes ... (79 words)

Is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - It's very hard to see my girlfriend in college while I'm still in high school and I'm feeling extremely lonely. If you love someone, is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?... (36 words)

My friend got back w/ her abusive ex and said we can no longer talk! I'm tired of her getting hurt! What can I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on dealing with a friend and her boyfriend. First some background info: I met her at a church we were attending when I was 14 and she was 7 in 1994, I'm now 27 and she's 20. When we met we hit it off instantly and we were like best buddies, I was the "big ... (821 words)

He's so interesting it makes me feel boring...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - I don't know what's wrong with me. I found an old classmate who used to go to college with me on facebook and we sent messages back and forth and found we had a lot in common.He is so interesting, incredibly well-read and intelligent, and is pretty funny and I blew it. We hung ... (254 words)

I found out some things about my long-term partner that disturbed me, like cross-dressing; now I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

- Hi! Please help! I've been with a man for almost 3 years now...and recently he told me he has this sexual thing for inflatables...(he likes to masterbate with them and deflate them and such) when we were first together he mentioned it but I never gave it much thought...So rec... (245 words)

I love him and he loves me but he used to be my teacher; should I back off? He's afraid of the ramifications

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive fallen for my ex teacher.I am 18 hes 27.We get along great.I told him how i feel ,and he feels same!however he is scared to take it further because of his job.its making me so angry that two people cant be together when we're both adults.He taught me last year but i have ... (69 words)

My boyfriend just dumped me, he says he can't handle a long term relationship; what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok..me and my boyfriend juss broke up 20 minutes ago..he said it was cus he couldnt stand long term relationships....he said he was like this with all his exes..nd now im one of them..so wut do i do?... (38 words)

If a female family member is home alone with her relative's husband, what are the chances she will have sex with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - what do think the chances are of a female family member on the wife's side having sex with the husband if she moves in with the husband and wife. especially if she is alone with him alot while is wife is at work.... (43 words)

Can a 17 year old be jailed for impregnating a 14 year old?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - can a 17 year old male get put in jail for getting a 14 year old female pregnant... (18 words)

How can I ask out the girl I like? Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i really admire a girl in my skool. i want to ask her out face 2 face but dont kno how? any tips on wot i cud say? how to start? how to make it less emarassin? fanx... (38 words)