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30-35,
*kyla002
writes:I am really confused with wether my boss is flirting with me or just being friendly:He winks at meHe walks past me, looks me in the eye and holds my gaze and then smilesI passed him a recept the other day and he practically took my hand with it (Slid his hand down my hand)as he looked me in the eye and said "Thanks Skyla"Walked past me the other day and quickly dragged his hand across my shoulderAnother co-worker who my boss has been friends with for a long time said my boss told her he cares alot about meAsked me to come up to his office and had a huge chat with me about random things like if i use protection, what would i do if i got pregnant, Do i do drugs? What i do in my spare time, Would i like more responsibilites with my job? is everything alright?Said when they sell the buisness one day that they are taking me with themAlways commenting me, saying im a bloody good worker.When i went on holiday, he told me to be naughty but be carefull.He also said hes really excited about me turning 18 ( Thats the legal drinkin age in NZ)He walks pasts me all the time and brushes up against me.Sooooo is he flirting? Additional Details:I worked with him for about 5 hours today because he was training me to be a supervisor and he didnt try touch me, or talk to me inapropriatly or make a move on me.even though he had a lot of chances because we were working alone together most of the timeSome people are saying if i have the same feelings for him then go on and have fun. but how would i make a move on him without hardowt showing him im making a move. just incase he isnt interested in me at all and pushes me off him?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (21 September 2007):
 Reading this I think if you tried to have fun, you'd end up getting hurt.
His advances are inappropriate. In our country their called, sexual harassment. The reason I worry if you were to have fun with this is, he's what we call a pig. They prey until they get what they want, then who knows what they will do.
His questions are inappropriate as well. Think rationally. What behaviors to you believe a boss should display to their employee.
RESPECT, PROFESSIONALISM, INTEGRITY. Acting this way show that he is not fit for the position he holds, and would be just as immature to have fun with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): i franky do think yah........its a flirtin. Nevertheless, should you take care if you think you could not love him in return and either not necessary doing that. Khalfan, Zanzibar Islnds.
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