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writes:im 20 year girl. i have a boyfriend whose 40 years old. he is got married in novmber 2006.we have our relation from past 4 years.we stay in one house.our parents doenst know about it.we had sex several times.so what will be our future. i dont want to get married to someone else who i dont love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): I'm confused, however, I agree with leanne.od "whatever you decide, you need to put yourself first." If you still have some problems about your dilemma, maybe you can go to Agematch.com to get some expert advices.
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (20 September 2007):
 How can you be living with him? Doesnt he live with his wife? By the way, this is the wife he married less than a year ago and three years into a relationship with you? And he began a relationship with you when you were only 16 and and he was 36? Does he often show signs of pedophilia? This whole thing seems wrong on too many levels to mention!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): How are you two living together while he is married to someone else? Does his wife not know or care that you're living with him?
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (20 September 2007):
 i'm sorry but if he got married, does that not imply he doesn't want to be with you full time? commitment is important and he married someone else.
i understand your circumstance, i've had an affair with a married man but he was already married and i knew that.
personally i think you should let it go whilst you are young enough. - also ask yourself, if you have been together for 4 years, you'd have been 16 and him 36, is that appropriate?
whatever you decide, you need to put yourself first because he certainly doesnt. i'm sorry but i don't think it's fair on anyone involved.
good luck though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): Your a stupid, pathetic girl. Find a man your own age and who is YOURS.
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