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writes:I'm a seventeen year old girl and I have a major crush on a 23 year old guy. He's shy and is a very private person, and I've been trying to slowly get him out of his shell and talk to him. I have him as one of my friends on myspace, and I've asked him many questions, a lot he answers, but a couple more personal ones he doesn't. I've asked him what he likes to do on weekends, so I would know what he's into and maybe ask him out. He acts as if he likes me, but now I'm not so sure. What could I do to get him to open up to me and feel more comfortable?
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reader, Warbid +, writes (25 September 2007):
If you know him in person at all and you really like him, play with him, and make fun of him(not meanly), and joke with him. Being childish is usally the best way to get someone to trust you, espcially someone shy that his age. Don't make him think your stupid, just innocent, atleast in your intentions with him, it will take him a while to open up, but it shouldnt take as long this way. and if you dont know him in person, get yahoo messanger or something and talk to him.
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (20 September 2007):
 a guy will rarely confess his feelings and emotions to anybody. they prefer to hide them or make a mockery of them rather than openly talk about them. the best thing you can do is tell him you are always there if he needs to talk and you can be trusted. he'll open up in time if he wants to but if not that is his decision.
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