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writes: i like this girl i've been seeing who is my ex's friend. me and her have been keeping a secret relationship and we were happy together. i told her my feelings about her in a poem and she got scared and said she couldn't do it any more. how can i get her back? i really like her and dont want to loose her and she knows it to. what should i do?
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (21 September 2007):
 she feels scared because she doesn't want to loose her friend. i'm sorry to say that girls are usually as close as sisters and you have crossed a line moving in on your ex's friend and she knows that her relationship with her friend is in trouble if anybody finds out about you two. my suggestion is that if you really like this girl, let her go. sometimes when we like someone so much, the kindest thing is to respect her wishes and if she has a change of heart, she'll let you know but i doubt she'll prioritize you over her friend because friends are for life, guys come and go.hope you can move on and not dwell on things. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): Personally I would love my partner to be as romantic as that. We have been together 4 years, have 2 children and he has never written me a poem. So I think thats lovely.I have to say though, I get the feeling that maybe she was not as serious about your relationship as you were and so I can see why she would find this scarey. Writing a poem for someone is a very personal and mature. Perhaps she just isn't ready to be that deep.I would say that if you tell her that you are sorry if you made her uncomfortable but you didn't know how else to express your feelings, im sure she will realise that she has over reacted a little. If you really like this girl, let her state the pace.
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