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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can someone explain the reasoning behind what people talk about as "stains" in a males' underwear and how that relates to possible cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

19 September 2007 (?) age - I feel a bit uneducated in this matter and want someone to explain the reasoning behind what people talk about as "stains" in a males underwear and how that relates to possible cheating? Could someone enlighten me on what this is all about please. ... (48 words)

Please could someone out there give me some advice whether to finish with my current boyfriend and get back with my ex or stay with him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Help. I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and we have been together for 9 months now. Latey we are arguing quite a lot. Since we've got together his family have treated me outstanding as if I'm one of them and me and his sister have become best friends but... I ... (255 words)

I want to tell my ex how I feel before it's too late. Should I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've got to say this or I'm gonna burst, I split with my ex boyfriend over a year and a half ago and I don't think I have truly ever gotten over him. After we split I started seeing someone else and have been happy with him ever since, although I get this nagging feeling about ... (150 words)

My friend stopped replying to my text messages. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have an odd relationship with a friend who is a boy. we've known each other for about 5yrs and we both like each other alot (and know we both do) but yet we aren't dating! we always seem to be texting each other but last week he suddenly stopped texting me and doesnt text me ... (78 words)

Do you think he likes me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, well where do i start i recently started my new college last week. And after that first week ive been crushing on this lad. But today something came to shock and we sat next to each over and we started chatting and while chatting he grabbed hold of my hand and he ... (95 words)

What do you do when you love someone you can never have?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - what do you do when you love someone you can never have?... (12 words)

This girl I like is pregnant with someone else's baby. I don't know if she wants me around just for the baby's sake!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this gal at work. she asked 4 my number n i gave her it.. I gotta admit she is real nice n prob auta my my leauge.. but we met up a few times n it went real good......I moved away n now ive moved back n i bumped into her in town n she said she did real like me n she was ... (141 words)

Please tell me your stories about finding your soulmates! I'm feeling down right now!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, Do you believe in soulmates? Does anyone believe they actually exist! I am having a down moment in life at the moment and i need to hear some stories about people finding their soulmates! how did you find them? can you break up with a soulmate only to find them aga... (110 words)

I think I have fallen for my wife's sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i have fallen in love with my wife's sister. i think she feels the same way for me. should i tell her how i feel about her or just keep this to myself?... (33 words)

Do you think my boyfriend purposely planned his vacation, knowing that I wouldn't be able to go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys n gals I need your views, please!!! I'm currently 5 months pregnant and overheard my boyfriend and his mates talking the other night to find out that they are all off to Amsterdam in November when i'll be 7 months pregnant! My boyfriend of 4 years just sprang ... (401 words)

My fiance found out that I cheated on him. Will he forgive me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I cheated on my fiance with a guy I work with and he found out. We broke up today. We have been together for almost five years and lived together for, four years. I miss him so much but at the same time part of me is relieved it's over. How long will it take for my heart to ... (75 words)

He says he still loves me, but he is with someone new, and he is giving her everything I wanted from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy at work and immediatly liked him...a friend said he was divorced but turned out that he was just leaving a 6 years marriage (total of 10 years together). We went in a date less than a week after he "officially" left his house. I never thought I would even date a ... (795 words)

I am going on a date with a guy who I think is either gay or bi!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going on a date with a guy this weekend but I think he might be closeted gay or bi. He doesn't dress sterotypically gay, or have gay mannerisms. However, he has made out with other guys before, in the context of truth or dare, but he seems weirdly proud about this fact, ... (140 words)

Is there any way that I can help my friend, who is dating someone much older?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Am worried bout my friend shes 16 and has been spending alot of time with an older man hes 48 - thts older thn my dad!! few months ago her parents found out - she was still 15 then anyways they contacted the police n he was gunna b done for being a perv but all charge... (178 words)

I've been with him for 7 years, and I think we are losing each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend we've been together since 7 years but we have some fights in the middle but lately we had alot of fights and im afraid that i feel we are loosing eachother i love him and he loves me but i feel that he dosent care anymore i feel unrespected and his work is ... (88 words)

Is okay to go to 2nd or 3rd base with a person you are not dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya I was just wondering what peoples opinion was on the subject of going to second or third base ( ie oral sex and handjobs etc) whilst not being in a relationship with the person? Is this considered slutty behaviour? ... (43 words)

Does she like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - (Sorry if I've sent this twice but I can't find my other question) I met this girl at a club, she goes to the same uni.. We startd to dance together then startd to kiss, she gave me her number and I messaged her. She messaged back but I got the impression she didn't want to ... (114 words)

I have not had a period in 2 weeks now, I have done pregnancy tests and all negative.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have not had a period in 2 weeks now, I have done pregnancy tests and all negative. I was on the microgyon pill and missed 4 pills 2 in the 2 week and 2 in the last week. My periods are always on time and i am never late only when i was pregnant with my son but he was planned ... (93 words)

It seems like my boyfriend and I are growing apart. Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 7 months. In the beginning, everything was all great but now it seems like we're growing apart. Our conversations are filled with pauses (never used to happen) and it seems like lately he's been going out with everybody but ... (175 words)

She's not in love with me, but she still keeps calling me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Has anyone fallen back in love with the person they fell out of love with ? My girlfriend of 3 years told me she loves me but is not in love with me so she broke up with me. When she did she said that with all of her exes she knew it was over but with me her feelings could c... (180 words)

My boyfriend keeps me a secret - I think he's ashamed of me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months, he still wants us to remain secret while he tells his parents about taking his ex out..when i told him i don't like him telling about his ex and keeping us secret, he told me that, loads of things go through my little head and ... (218 words)

We made out on our date, but now he just treats me as a friend! I want to know what's up with us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy that ive liked for ages, and we finaly went on a date, during this we made out it was so amazing, but since the date he just treats me as a friend and we don't even talk about wot we did. and now we r both back at college, we hardly ever get to see each other ... (122 words)

I'm 18 and in college now - should I tell my 10th grade teacher who is in a relationship my feelings for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm in love with my teacher. Well ex-teacher. He was my sophmore history teacher. Now im a freshman in college. Well i always had a thing for him. Well at the end of that year, we exchanged e-mails. We sthll write each other every once and awhile through email and myspace. ... (215 words)

How can you turn a friendship into a romantic relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I just wanna say summat small. I know an amazing girl and I love her. She would feel the same I guess, but she just doesn't. She thinks I'm good looking, but she's not attracted to me, she doesn't really feel that way about anyone... and doesn't even know what her type ... (109 words)

I love my girlfriend, but I have feelings for someone I consider my soulmate, too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for a year now and I love my girlfriend to death. The only thing thats bothering me is I have began to have feelings for another girl. I feel like she is my true soulmate but I know that I can never have her. As long as shes in my life she is ... (89 words)

I keep thinking that we may get back together - how can I get this feeling to go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me because she was going to University and thought we'd struggle to continue to maintain our long distance relationship (We had maintained a long distance relationship of 240 miles for the past 2 years. In that time we met up on 13 ocaisions for a ... (228 words)

I really like a guy but I think maybe my friend likes him too. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i really like this guy and we have a good time together, but im afraid incase he doesn't fancy me. I think we flirt but maybe thats how he is. Im also afraid that my friend lkes him. What should i do i really like him??... (47 words)

He gets violent if I ask him not to be in contact with his ex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of 9 months and the man who i live with accepts the fact i have a son from a previous relationship and doesnt get mad when my sons imprisoned father sends letters but it infuriates me when his ex that lives 10minutes away calls him and he almost always lies about ... (97 words)

I'm married. I've fallen in love with someone far away, but I don't know if I should up and go to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 4 years (started dating since '98). Things were good (not the greatest) with her from the beginning. Let's start from the beginning... I was previously engaged to a wonderful person, but she died of lukemia. Ever since she passed away, I took mys... (392 words)

My young friends mum has been having an affair and my friend doesn't know what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm writing on behalf of one of my best friends. We live in the Arabian gulf and her parents got divorced. She lives with her mother who has in the last 3 months told her that she has been having an affair with a married man for over 7 years and that she is now also married ... (155 words)

He doesn't want me anymore. How can I respond properly to his comments about me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry for this silly question, but trying to decide how to respond to my future x, he informs me after 5 years of being together, that he can't totally commit to me because he needs a different body type to keep him turned on, and I lack certain personality characteristics a... (295 words)

My self esteem is so low and I really can't afford the counslor that I've booked. Any help please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I think i'm cracking up. I've always felt like i dont fit in any where, my self esteem has taken a battering over the years. I was bullied in the past at work and school and pretty much dont know where my life is going. I broke up with another boyfriend the other month. He said ... (162 words)

He has been violent. Is he sorry? Can he change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (?) - hi there i really dont know how to start this but my partner of 2 1/2 years has been violent since we brought our home together approx 18 months ago i always thought it was me that got him worked up by things i did or said. he told me it was my drinking that provoked him so i ... (531 words)

Should I just leave it in the past or take a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I need some advice. There is this guy that I think about constantly. I met him years ago, I was seeing this guy and he was their best friend. We had a connection and the guy I was seeing noticed and asked if I liked him. Basically they told me to chose (The friend lik... (306 words)

I have total hots for him! His girlfriend already flirts with other guys - What do you think I should do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I have loads of boys who fancy me, but I fancy this boy who has a girl. I have total hots for him and rumor goes that his mate has been flirting with other guys anywa! Please, I need help. What do you think I should do?? I don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings.... (55 words)

Was my wife overly promiscuous or fairly normal before we got together?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Was my wife overly promiscuous or fairly normal before we got together?? During High School she had sex with 3 guys. 2 of them were boyfriends and one was a friend who she had a crush on. She had sex a total of 4 times in high school. A few weeks before we got together in colle... (109 words)

I'm beginning to think he likes me - what do you think? And what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im almost 15 and im not sure the guy i like likes me back and im not sure what to do. we went on a school tour to rome last year and thats when i realised i liked him, he is really funny and makes me laugh (+ he is easy to talk to) well ever since i came back to school after th... (140 words)

The guy I like found out about my feelings for him! Where do I go from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I like found out that I like him today. I really want something to happen between us but where do I go from here? What do I say to him?... (32 words)

I quit my job for him and we deleted our internet profiles. I found out he has a new one that lists him as single and looking for sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for two years, i worked in a pub which he wasn't happy about, as customers flirt. so i gave up the pub, and together we decided to delete our internet profiles. however i found out he had created a new profile advertising himself as single and lo... (136 words)

I think my ex is "the one," but my family really likes me current guy! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh my goodness such a dilemna. Im 19 and last year went out with this lad who was 6 yrs older than me, he was gorgeous and spoiled me and was amazing in bed and we had so much fun together. But now I'm with someone else, he treats me ok and wants us to be together forever,... (144 words)

My husband and I are too shy to kiss each other! This shouldn't be an issue - we're married!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This is kind of embarassing to ask. My husband and I (married last weekend) are too shy to kiss! We kissed when the minister said kiss the bride, but before then it had been like a year since we kissed last..He is not the initiating type at all, and I used to initiate and kiss ... (334 words)

How long with it take my ex to get over the guy who just dumped her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex left me for another man, also down in here in Kent, and he dumped her after eight months, claiming that it was too far to go and see her (3 hours away), which, just to stop going to see her like that is a lie. Anyway, how long would you say that it would take her to get o... (63 words)

I've just come out of the hospital and found out I've failed uni, my relationship is strained and my friends are moving on! How can I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey ppl im so low at the moment.within the past week my whole life seems to have fallen apart. this time 2 weeks ago i had the world at my feet. i had the most perfect boyfriend in the world with an amazing relationship, great health, a place at a brilliant university, a house ... (177 words)

After a fight, he stormed out of the house and is giving me the silent treatment! It's been 2 days now - I need help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33 and have been engaged for a little over 4 yrs. We have been together alittle over 10 yrs. My fiance' and I just purchased our home last Dec. We agreed to purchase the house 1st before getting married. We are now working on our wedding plans but are having trouble ... (317 words)

My boyfriend is too busy to see me or call - He says he is not the phone type of guy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is too busy to see me or call. He goes for a week without calling if l dont call him he doesnt call and when l call he says l tried your number and l failed to get through. He also says he is not the phone type of guy. Tell me if he loves me or maybe he is doing it ... (66 words)

Do you think my abusive ex knows everything is his fault and just can't handle his guilt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there, anyone got any advice about this? i have left my abusive partner of 20 years. yes we have split up time and time again before but this time i have spoke out and told him exactly what i think of him and told him all the nasty things he has done to me and the kids. I... (199 words)

I think that my bf may have been in a relationship w/ his best friend - I don't want to share his love!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 8 months now,although i have known this man for 9 years.I am very confused,i think he may be in love with his best friend(m).His friend is a single gay guy,who i am certain is in love with him. Before we started seeing each other we had been... (356 words)

I've tried to talk w/ my gf about our sex life, but she gets angry and says I'm "an a$%hole male after only one thing!"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm a 23 year old male who has been with my g/f for 2 years now. When we started going out, our sex life was healthy. But we haven't slept together for over a year. I tried talking to her about it, but she kind of just doesn't even give me a straight answer. What should I ... (112 words)

Is it weird I don't want a guys night out? My buddies are upset when my wife comes out with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it weird i don't want a guys night out? I'm 24 and married. I'm a very social guy and prefer group dates and parties and just generally any situation that involves a lot of people. My friends that I have from before meeting my wife will sometimes want to go somewher... (203 words)

I feel like a reject everytime he's not in a good mood cause he doesn't want to be near me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

- A major problem I had with my last bf was that when ever he was upset he wouldnt want to be around me or anyone. He would just want to be alone. I always took this really personally. And if he was around you when he wasnt happy, he would be really nasty. My new bf isnt as bad, ... (181 words)

My 'friend' is acting like an immature jerk about my past sexual relations - he says he's going to tell my bf about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a bit of a muddle. I have recently got together with a friend of my ex. Myself and my ex split up years and years ago, but a couple of years ago when I was at a low ebb and after listening to him tell me all the things I wanted to hear I slept with him. I knew he was ... (580 words)

After 2 years, he dumps me in a disgusting restaurant, and leaves like nothing ever happened between us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I acknowledge this is a long and possibly confusing post. I've been heart broken and think I'm losing my mind trying to rationally think about my situation! My boyfriend and i had been together for almost 2 years. Earlier this week he arranged to meet me for dinner, but ... (324 words)

I caught my fiance and daughter getting it on in our house!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I moved a long way to live with my fiance. I love him so much. My two kids came with me: son, 14 and daughter, now 20. I have caught my daughter and fiance at it in living room! I went to bed early and came back down and caught them. This has broken my heart as I love both o... (117 words)

Guys: About breasts, do you like them small or large, real or fake?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i notice that my boyfriend eyes other girls clevage.i feel that my breast is small but he says mine is just the right size. so i was wondering if guys prefer large breasts or dont mind small ones.how about fake ones?... (43 words)

He cheated and while we made love and I climaxed, he told me the graphic details! We're sick about it, but it's a turn on! What's up with that?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age - my husband of 10 years had sex with our next door neighbour. he had told me he was attracted to her. neither of us could understand why because she really is not at all attractvive in any way. on my birthday he came home and told me they had just had sex. he was very sorry an... (258 words)

I used various type of birth control, but I think I might be pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm 16 years of age. I was on microgynon then i came off it. I had my period on the 29th of July and then after that I had sex without the pill. Then I had my period again, but only for 2 days. Then I had sex again and now my period hasn't come yet. I think I might be ... (66 words)

How do I get back together w/ my ex? I don't want to sound desperate and scare her off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to get back with my ex, I think she wants to as well, I'm not sure (you got to take risks in life though!). What is the best way to do this (I dont want to sound too serious and desperate so as to scare her off)?... (50 words)

My bf slapped me b/c I was nagging him when he wanted to sleep! I feel it's all my fault.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 yrs slapped me in the face yesterday just because I was nagging him very late at night when he wanted to sleep. Is his action justifiable?? He blames me for provoking him since I didnt respect him in letting him sleep. Now, I feel it's all my fault. Hugs... (63 words)

Our friend is being quite snappy w/ me and will not talk about it! Does he have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been close with a man of 42 (i'm 27) for some time now and he has recently became good friends with my husband. We all go out drinking together and my husband's friend and i have remained really close friends. My husband is aware of this and has no problem with it. R... (143 words)

How do I break off the engagement to my long distance partner? I've found someone better for myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What should I do. Am 28 years, I was engage with this guy whom i did not know, He was introduced to me by a friend. The guy is in abroad we were contacting each other on phone, I posted my picture to him and he also posted his to me. We talked on phone for over one year an... (160 words)

I'm dating a married man who cheated on me! His wife refuses to divorce him and I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What can i do now? I am a 26 year old girl, pretty and independent. My college boyfriend left me when I went abroad for my further degree. I had another boyfriend two years after I came back to the country, but i found he married, he cheated on me, said that he has seperat... (591 words)

I'm in love w/ someone other than my abusive husband - but I'm unsure about his actions, as well! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a husband for 14 years. I loved him and was totally dutiful when i got married as arranged by my parents. He beat me sometimes on account of fights and left me helpless. I got fedup and promised to throw him out of my feelings but didnt divorce because we had 2 ... (160 words)

He quit watching porn for me, but he still is cheating on me by pleasuring himself! Is there any hope left for my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age - I am having major problems with my husband, been married for 29 years, I found out he was watching porn behind my back, he said he would stop, I caught him again a few months later, he was ashamed and promised he would stop, since then I haven't found any films or anything on ... (262 words)

Should I tell my wife's friend that I love her so I know whether or not to stay w/ my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I love my wife but I am also in love with her friend. I would give everything i have to be with her friend and don't know whether i should tell her that i have fallen for her. Will she tell my wife, would i be better to tell her to clear my thoughts then if she wants nothing ... (80 words)

I went through his phone and saw that he still talks w/ his ex! She's seeing someone, but he didn't mention me at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - im 26 and iv been seeing my bf now for about a year, when we first got together he had just come out of a 3 year relationship and i had come out of an 8 year marriage.we've known each other for 8 years and when i split up with my husband i started to find him attractive. So las... (286 words)

I really like my ex's friend and she likes me, too. But I think she has reservations about getting together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a couple weeks; I've had the biggest crush on her since I've seen her. Her friend is my ex girlfriend. I really, really, really, really like this girl and she says she likes me, too, although I have a feeling that she doesn't ... (109 words)

I danced w/ my brother-in-law before my husband at our wedding - now my guy is all upset! What should I do?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I was married 5 days ago and on our wedding night I danced with his brother before I did my husband. He is all upset and has not talked to me since. I have told him I am sorry but it doesnt seem to matter. What should I do?... (49 words)

I'm living in hell by staying with my husband for our kids - please help!

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advise and opions. Have you ever been in a bad relatioship where you feel as though you're under-loved, never missed and he could care less? What do you do when you feel yourself slowly falling out of love more each and every day? How do you let him go when you ... (119 words)

My partner of 20 years and father to my children has fallen in love with a prostitute! He's also slept w/ several others!

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Am I mad or what??? I've been with my partner 20 years, we're not married. We have two kids, 18 and 16. Anyway, three or four months ago, he was ill suffering from anxiety. Turns out he has been seeing another women - well, girl actually. She's 22 - we're 38. He said he was i... (199 words)

How likely is it that my parents can find out of my viewing porn over the net though I have deleted the history?

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19 September 2007 (?)

- I am 14 years old and I have recently been looking at porn on the internet. I am really worried that this is illegal or that my dad might find out. I know how to delete the history so he can't find out that way but I am still really worried. I'm not gonnna do it again but does ... (73 words)

I figured if I could have sex with a few women, then I would be able to see passed her past. I cheated on her 5 times, but only ended up kissing.

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19 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - A while ago my girlfriend and I had a rough going of separate ways. A little over a month ago we began seeing each other again. Before our breakup, I was head-over-heals for her, and when we began dating again started off the same. While we were broken up, I found out w... (257 words)

I have no control in this relation, my partner is very dominating and won't listen to what I have to say.

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel as though I have no control in my relationship. My partner is very dominating towards people in his life, especially women, and uses this to get his own way. For instance, if he wants you to do something and you refuse, he will say “I’m telling you now, you better do ... (278 words)

My partner is very critical of me!

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel as though my partner is very critical of me. Little things like, for instance, not washing his clothes correctly or forgetting something from the store, cause him to blow up and make comments like “I ask you to do one thing and you can’t even do it”. It upsets me because ... (149 words)

Who to choose: my current boyfriend who wants to be engaged or my best friend who is my ex?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What to choose: Person A:Current Boyfriend/Possible Fiance, Person B: Ex/ Best Friend, or other advice?? I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship for about 3/12 years, though I keep thinking about my best friend/ ex. My current boyfriend wants to be engaged and want... (1000 words)

I want him to ask me spending more time together but I don't know how to claim this without appearing demanding. He's very concentrated to his work...

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a relationship with a man that is very concentrated to his work and he is occupied the most of his time. Sometimes he asks me to help him and i always feel happy to help him. However he asks me easy things and it isn't really very difficult to offer him what he asks from ... (149 words)

Our sex life has dwindled to 4 times over the past year :-(

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19 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Everyone, I am a 23year old male, recently engaged after dating my gf for 6 years. I would describe our relationship as almost perfect. I love her very much and i know that she loves me too... For the first 2 years we had sex every week, sometimes more... However,... (324 words)

Will this be solved if we both bit the bullet and moved in together?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age - Are we ok? BF and I have been together for 4 yrs. Live seperately. Lately we have both become almost too afraid to do or say anything to each other for fear of offending the other. I work fulltime. The fulltime shiftwork. He has only himself to consider. I have a 15yo ... (120 words)

Is having phone sex normal? Maybe I should look for a better intimate and more meaningful relationship with somebody who lives closer?

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19 September 2007 (?) age 30-35 - ok so me and my bf are in a long distance relationship and i dont know if its normal to have phone sex? im not too much of a sexually experianced girl i have only had 2 sexual partners in the past...and im 18 but now i am having an urge to have a passionate relationship...and ... (87 words)

He makes sure I'm completely satified when we have sex, but he never has an orgasm. Strange?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm dating this guy i use to see when i was 17 years old, he was my first experience, I'm now 39, and he is 42 years old. he was in prison for the last 10 years. I ran into him 2 years ago when he was release he was in a drug release program. he went back to jail beca... (243 words)

Is it ok he's an online gaming addict?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - is it okei if my bf is an addict on online games and dont have time for me?... (20 words)

He married his ex to "shut us down," now he wants to get back to me. Crazy to consider it, am I?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of a year and I got into a huge fight. He got married to his ex girlfriend 2 weeks later to "shut us down". Now (6 weeks later) he says he made a mistake and wants to get back together. Am I crazy for considering it?... (50 words)

She's too tight? What should I do?

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19 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend cant have sex. she's too tight, meaning it wont go in even when im hard. what should i do?... (21 words)

My step father pushed me into having sex, should I tell my mother? It could give her the strength to leave him.

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a serious question that needs your opinion. Was I raped or sexualy abused by my step father? It started when I was 15. He and my mother were dating for just a few months at the time and he sorta slept over alot. One day It snowed so much school was let out early and I ... (721 words)

How do I deal with my depression and get over her?

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19 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have become very depressed after this girl rejected me. i dont know whats wrong. i have been reject before, and never felt very depressed for very long. at most only a couple of days, but this has lasted at least 5 months. maybe its because i like this girl so much. HOw do i ... (63 words)

Now he has a gf and always looks and smiles at me. He was my first, what should I do?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!! so Im really heart broken! so I was with this guy and I heard he was cheating on me so I wanted to get him back and I really liked this kid, I liked him sence 7 th grade, he was the kinda guy you would dream of liking you and he liked me so I went and hung out with hi... (521 words)

How does our friendship go back to being normal without this awkwardness, after I gave him a bj while we were drunk?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my best guy friend and i got really drunk last weekend,im fifteen and he's sixteen,so to make a long story short i gave him a blowjob,it was my first time giving one and his first time recieving one.Now its really awkward between us,how does our friendship go back to being ... (55 words)

Is it acceptable for someone in a relationship to be swapping numbers with people of the opposite sex and receiving such texts about how horny she was?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boy of 6 months and who lives with me, asked me to get a phone number out of a message on his phone for him. In doing so, I found a text from a girl that he had met a few weeks ago when he was out with his friends. It said how horny she was, etc.. I'm pretty sure he's... (173 words)

Now he claims that he never loved me and the only thing that made him feel that he was in love was the sex. How do I get over it?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have the worse problem. It was this guy that I was seeing, as well as sexually. We were always together, it's like we went togrther,but there was no title on it. I let myself fall in love with him after only 4 months. Now he claims that he never loved and that the only thing ... (94 words)

Everything was perfect until my date stopped calling me and became distant. We had a wonderful trip after that, but then he told me that he loved but but his heart was not in?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help, ive been dating a guy for 2 months that totally swept me off my feet,im a very careful and guarded person normally but this time I could not hold back. We fell in love almost instantly, could not be apart and hated not hearing each others voices daily. He went a... (291 words)

I'm 11 and my girlfriend is getting bored of just holding hands and kissing. Now what?

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19 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - i am back again hey i got a new girlfreind and we have done evreything together from holding hands to kissing what do we do know i think shes getting bored oh i am the person hew asked for advic about the getting backtogether and breaking up please help i am 11... (52 words)

I thought that pleasing him was the only way to make him love me, but now I want out because he used me. Could he change?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I recently turned 18 and i have a big problem and i am looking for some advice. i have been having sex with this 24year old guy since i am 15years old. I recently got pregnant and my mom forced me to have an abortion. anyway i really want to get out of t... (333 words)

Had plans of moving away, but after meeting my bf I realised I've something good to stay for. Now I resent him for changing my life plans. Help?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i met my b/f about a year ago and fell for him straight away but a month before that i was asked by a female friend to move to australia with her as her grandad werent well and and needed looking after. my plan was to move with my friend but over the weeks of planning i met my ... (106 words)

Is this harmless flirting or am I starting an affair?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a really good looking boyfriend who i really love and im not the type to cheat. but lately at work ive been sending emails to this one guy who is soooo good looking he flirts and i flirt back, he's got a girlfriend and ive got my boyfriend. Is this harmless flirting or ... (76 words)

We live with his parents! How can I get us out of his bedroom and into our own place?

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19 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i wanted to buy a house not long ago and ive been with my boyfriend for over a year. we already live together but at his parents which i find we are always stuck in his bedroom. he's 23 and im 20 i feel like we're now at the point where we need to get somewhere of our own. ... (120 words)