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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): ok my boyfriend is 17 and he turns 18 in febuary. and i am 15. turning 16 in june. of course we've been together for awhile now. were not having sex or nething. and were planning on continuing our relationship. both our parents are questioning weather there gonna let us stay together. we both like each other alot. and you cant help who you like. it just happens...we have been hearing alot of your wasting your time..NO!!! and WHY?
but we just forget everyone else cause they shouldnt worry about it. cause its our life.
and to make it clear. by making somthing happen. is to stay in a relationship without having sex. cause there are some people who wanna wait till their married.
but anywho go for it! if you both make each other happy.
your perfect.
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reader, terrifenby  +, writes (27 September 2007):
 if you really like her there is nothing wrong with it! however make sure both of your families know about it and are ok with it! and even if she says she is ready for sex wait untill she is 16! this way she will also respect you more and you will earn the respect of her family
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (26 September 2007):
 yea huni go for it. age isnt always important. just be careful on ythe sex side of things because thats wen you can face problems. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): Heys
Yeah i think its fine to go out with her. You have to be ok with people judging you though, but if its what you and her both want go 4 it :D
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reader, little miss helpful +, writes (21 September 2007):
 yeah its is fine to date her. you cant help who you like and care about. as long as you wil treat her rightits fine. its ok people saying no! but it would be diffrent if you was 19 and she was 16. 3 years is not a big age gap at all there is 4 years age gap between me and my bloke and we are so happy. if its what she wants aswell then go for it. dont listen to anyone that says its wrong its not at all she is old enough ti make her own dessisions. do what will make you both happy. take care and let me know how you get on!!!!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (21 September 2007):
 The difference between 18 and 15 is fairly large. As people get older a few years isn't much. You're talking about an adult v. someone who hasn't even completed puberty yet, she's in between playing with barbie dolls and becoming an adult.
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reader, Alliehoff +, writes (21 September 2007):
 no,it is not wrong,as long as you dont pressure her too much in sexual activity.If your only dating her to have sex with her,it is wrong because girls at that age get emotionally attached easily.long as you are good to her,and you are not completly hated by the parents,i think its fine.good luck!!!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (21 September 2007):
 You asked: is it wrong if I try to make something happen- not having sex; but just having a good time together?
Yes it is. She is a minor. You are not, at least not in some parts of the world.
I do not beleive in the subtext here. What is the point of having a good time together if you have no intentions of trying to see where it could go further?
Perhaps you might want to try to find girls a little older than you.
But before anything...find out what the law of sex and minors is where you live. That will be more important than anything I, or anyone else here could advise.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (21 September 2007):
 as long as no intercouse is entailed then yes, age is just a number, but do not find it strange if her parents disapprove. just reassure them that you're with her for all the right reasons and you'll have fun!!!
good luck
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