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anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend was happy,15 months together.then i found text message of a girl on his phone i rang her and she said they were friend he said the same however from that day he went wierd with his phone and then told me he needed space!i am giving him the space and has been two weeks does this mean he was cheating on me?
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (20 September 2007):
 Well you did invade his privacy, also you basically accused him of cheating by asking the girl about their relationship. He is proberly angry about what you did by going through his phone and feels he doesnt need that.
Remember you wouldnt like it if he asked all your male friends about their relationships with you.
Say your sorry and promise (if you really will) that you wont go through his phone again. Try and go from there
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): He probably either doesn't like you anymore or wants to get with someone else if he hasn't already. Checking someone's phone after being together 15 months is not an excuse for them to want "space" I can see if you were with him a month & this happened, but you have the right to check his phone if he's texting girls. I think he is wrong, not you. So I wouldn't listen to what the other aunts have said. He shouldn't be texting other girls in secret. He is up to something.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (20 September 2007):
 I dont think he is cheating i think he is more hurt that you dont trust him a persons phone is private and to look through it and call people is an invasion of privacy and shows you dont trust them. I think you need to apologise and talk it over with him
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (20 September 2007):
 he's feeling let down that you felt the need to check his phone. it's his personal space and you have no right invading it. unfortunately you did and now he needs to know if you're going to become one of these girlfriends who become insecure and needy and constantly looking over his shoulder.
would you forgive him for making accusations.
i don't think he is cheating because if he was i'm sure the other girl would love to split you two up.
give him some space.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): Maybe its because you didnt respect his privacy. That may likely be the reason why
Just apologies and say that ou shouldnt have done that cause face it you werent meant to do that. And see what he has to say
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