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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel less fun in comparison to his ex, I've never felt insecure like this before.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't stop checking up on my boyfriend's ex girlfriend. We have been together for 7 months, and he broke up with his ex girlfriend bout 10 months ago (he broke up with her). I've never felt insecure or obsessive like this before, I don't know why but I am slightly obsessing ... (662 words)

After the trampoline injury, my knee has been acting funny. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

- hi if anyone has ever broken off their cartlidge off their knee cap please tell me because i think i have done it to mine. when i move it it clicks and it feels like things are moving. I injured it on the trampoline a few weeks back and after a day or so it didnt feal hurt ... (75 words)

What is to sense massive pressure until it gets really uncomfortable? Was it an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bit of an embarasing question. I don't know if i've ever had an orgasm. My ex would always say "i think you just had an orgasm" but the truth is i don't even know what one is supposed to feel like. Am i supposed to feel something really huge? cause i never have. It ... (80 words)

Why is my boyfriend so moody... ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I cannot figure out my boyfriend. We just celebrated out 1 year aniversary together a couple weeks ago. It was the greatest day, very cute and romantic, and the private part of the night--fantastic!! hah. Any way we dont see each other as much as we used to cause we both have ... (307 words)

I'm constantly put down by her - then she leaves w/ our baby for days at a time! This time, it's been 2 weeks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, i a have been with my partner for two years and we have a 9 month old baby, for about the last 18 months our relationship has changed somewhat, where no matter what i do its not the right thing and i'm constantly put down or criticised for what i do, i work full time... (331 words)

Is he in love with the idea of not being alone or really wants to get back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help desperately. I am incredibly confused and in dyer need of some input/opinions. I have asked a grand total of two questions before. First one concerning my boyfriends habits and me being a mother, and the second being once again about his habits and me saying ... (572 words)

Can anyone suggest anything we can do different together and re-fresh and avoid the "predictable" ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - I think I am bored with my routine in life. I don't know why but a few weeks ago I used to like going to my girlfriends and her coming down to mine but now I am so bored I find it harder to feel exited about going to her house. I get exited about seeing her but we never ... (173 words)

Never had my g-spot played with and never reached O. My new partner thinks it's hsi fault.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have never had my g-spot played with and i have never cum is this normall i am 24 years old and have 4 children. my new partner thinks its his fault please help... (34 words)

Large breasts, should I get a reduction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, im a 27 year old from canada. im just like every other girl except that i have extremely large breasts. im a 48 eee and im not fat im only 140 pounds, and every time i go out i get stared to death by guys. at first i like it but after a while it gets redundant. do you girls ... (75 words)

I can't get it through my thick skull...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help I am in love with this girl I only met her over the summer and when I first saw her I had this awsome feeling hit me. Her brother became one of my best friends. But I asked her where did she live? and she said she lived in Texas and I live in Florida, I need ... (178 words)

Why do men need porn?

This question has 142 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - If women get off without porn why can't men get off on the feeling alone also? Why is porn needed??... (20 words)

Why does he want to see me if he doesn't want to be with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does he want to see me if he doesn't want to be with me? I have posted all the initial information about this here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-there-a-chance-he-will-come-back.html After one month of silence, I rang him. Of course he didn't pick up so I te... (281 words)

If I left my current relationship to be with Gary, I know I wouldn't be able to trust him as he's emotionally unstable. Thus?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - real confused. i am 18, for the past 3 years was crazy about this guy...lets call him gary*. when i turned 18, i got with my current boyfried, steve*.. i never thought about steve in a "more than friends" was cause we had only been friends a year, and i was well head over hea... (462 words)

My friend asked me to have sex with her. I don't know what to say or do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? There is this girl st school. and today during P.e. she asked me to spend the night with her. so i said sure. because she is one of my good friends. then she said and "while we are at my housee..... we can, you know..." and and so i just laughed it off. ... (279 words)

My good mate is kissing me on the lips lately; I would quite like to be with him but don't want to ruin the friendship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a guy I am really good mates with but recently he keeps kissing me, on the lips. And I'm starting to have feelings for him and do not know what to do because I don't want to ruin the friendship we have but I would quite like to be with him.... (53 words)

Does he need to wear a condom and do we kiss while I'm doing the hj?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive never given my boyfriend a handjob. does he need to wear a condom and do we kiss while im doing it? help me... (24 words)

I've fallen for him, but don't know what to say b/c I get embarassed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 15 and I've recetly fallen for this guy 'stuart' (17). I went away on tour with him last year, but didnt talk to him much, i hung around with him but i was much closer to one of his other friends who i liked a bit, and we were the "couple" of the tour, though nothing ... (155 words)

Still in love with the ex and have been seeing him behind my husband's back. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid... Have I got a problem.. I was living with someone for 10 years, we had two daughters and a horrible relationship. We were young and naive and ended up seperating. Then right away I started seeing the man who is now my husband of 3 years, and we have a 1 year old ... (133 words)

Could I still possibly be pregnant? We used a condom.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone and anyone! Ok, so about 2 weeks ago I had sex for the first time (don't worry, we used a condom). It definitely hurt...a LOT...so much that it was almost unbearable and I had to keep telling the guy to stop and give me a break. I guess he didn't like having to ... (115 words)

He left me for his ex and mother of his two children the day after our miscarriage! How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

- Hi everyone, im going through hell. i have just broken up with my bfriend, he has left me to move back in with is ex. we find out i had a miscarriage on the tuesday and on the wed he moved out with his two kids, who i helped surport. They loved me to pieces they thought ... (147 words)

I've had a crush on my best friend's brother...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have had a major crush on my best friend's brother. I've liked him since early spring, and over the summer I practically lived at their house (to hang out with my best friend). I've known him almost my entire life, and our families are practically identical. So we... (328 words)

She's 21 now, but when she was 15 she had sex with her teacher! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm stuck for what to do. I've been with my girlfriend a few years now, and a few months ago we told each other's deepest secret (Here I was thinking it would be an interesting game to play, but really didn't expect anything like she told me). Basically, she had lost her vir... (252 words)

My mother treats me unfairly, and favorises my brother. Can't see what I have been doing wrong.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I struggle with my mum's relationship with my brother. He's a year older than me. I'm very envious, which often makes me nasty towards both of them. My mum seems to think he is the most perfect person in the world, even though he dropped out of college, got appalling GCSEs, is ... (323 words)

She says she likes someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and so is my girlfriend. we have been together for just over 2 years. She has just told me that she likes/fancys somebody else, even though she does not find him particuly attractive and claims she has never thought about doing anything with him. She maintains that she ... (123 words)

We fell asleep together and I think others might have the wrong idea...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well im 15, and the guy i like (he's 18) i'v known all my life and weve always been veryvery close. He doesnt know i like him as more than a friend as i know it wouldnt work, and i would never do anything to ruien our friendship. He has been the one person i tell ... (172 words)

I'm on the pill, but am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Please someone tell me what is going on. I have been on birth conrtol pills for about a year now. My period has always been on time, never early never late. Well lately my guy and I have been having a lot more sex than usual, yes he does ejaculate in side me because I am on the ... (220 words)

How do I interpret pregnancy tests?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi - was wondering if someone could help me please?! my period is nearly two weeks late, i have done two pregnancy tests - one about a week ago, the other yesterday and they are both negative. (the most recent of which said on the box it is the exact same test they will do at ... (97 words)

Should I stop wasting my time with him or avoid jumping to conclusions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i asked my friend for advice, but all she told me to be careful of him... so here goes. i met this guy a few months and i'll admit this, i didn't take him seriously at all. he's a huge flirt, would flirt with anyone, really. so i just thought 'pfft, ladies man'. ... (373 words)

I think my wife wants to try saving the marriage but her friend is pushing her back to the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my and my wife were trying to save our marrige so she left her bf for me, a week later she back with him after i walked in on them. she will not talk to me about it 5 days later, all she has said is that she loves me but not in the way i want as she feels more happy with her... (124 words)

Is this emotional abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Is it emotional abuse? My fiance and I always argue, and last night I just had enough. The problem is I live with him, and where Im from is far away. Anyways, I was just wondering if breaking up with him is the right thing to do. It feels like emotional abuse, but I don't know ... (340 words)

My wife left me and our son, we got back together, she cheated on me and is now doing coke! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife walked out on me and my son 7 months ago. Six weeks ago, she meet a new guy which up set me so much as i did not know i still loved. Anyway, two weeks ago i asked her back to make a go of things and she said yes. Everything was so great. I was so happy. It was the best... (287 words)

Why would a man call his ex when he has someone new?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in such a mess emotionally! :( I dated a man for almost 2 yrs and he broke up with me last April. It was painful for both of us, but it was a long distance relationship and he wanted to find a lady who lives closer to him and doesn't have children. He continue to email ... (199 words)

My ex hinted he would tell my husband if I didn't continue the affair. How do I tell my husband without damaging the marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Help, I'm married and have kids. I recently ran into an old boyfriend from my teenage years. My husband knows his name (Chris) and what we did (we never had 'all the way' sex, I just performed oral sex on him about 10 times or so). Anyway, I ran into Chris at the grocery ... (318 words)

How do I get him to see me like more of an equal?? He gives the impression he thinks I'm stupid and don't have a clue about life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

- The man I'm seeing frequently treats me like he thinks I'm stupid. Granted, I grew up in a small town and never moved away. I went to our community college but never received a degree, but it wasn't for lack of intelligents, but because I was married and had already landed a ... (329 words)

Wondering if he's too big for me and so if it will hurt the first time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Hi.. i'm 16 and i'm wondering if my boyfriends penis will "fit" in my vagina the first time we have sex.. it looks so big when i give him oral and i'm afraid that i'll bleed and that it will hurt because i'm a virgin! please help!... (49 words)

A relationship... with no one knowing? What are these mindgames, what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Okaay..well...My ex and I broke up because he didnt want a relationship. He said this was due to the fact we will be going to university, and he wants the ''univeristy experience''. Even though we wont be leaving for univeristy for atleast a year!?!! We have kept being ... (307 words)

Is it really possible to be in love with someone but put all your energy into something else (studying) ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs. He has been in college for the past year and has 1 more year to go and it has been stressful on the relationship with his very busy schedule. I love him dearly and up until now I thought he felt the same. I tend to over-analyze and ... (208 words)

W complex situation...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay here's my situation - I had a liking for my mates ex a couple of months after they broke up and she liked me(he broke it off twice with her). This was so unexpected coz i didnt see this coming and i never looked at her that way before, especially when my mate and her ... (296 words)

Does this mean he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i know this sounds stupid by i need some help i think this boy likes me and shows me these signs my m8s says he does but im not so sure,so can you help with some of these signels that he does sometimes and tell me what you think? He punches me on my arm sofetly he calls ... (102 words)

He might just want casual sex, and if I tell him I might lose him as a friend, so what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my best friend is a guy, and he has previously been out with 2 of my friends. in between both of these relationships, we became very close and ended up sleeping together. i felt really guilty, we talked and agreed not to tell anyone. years on, still really close, he always ... (114 words)

I really like him... but am I wasting my time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so Ive like this guy for about two and a half months now who I have slept with prolly six or seven times now. When we first started hanging out he was really sweet and wanted to hang out all the time but then after about a month he told me he wasnt over his ex and that he ... (216 words)

He lives far away but maintain contact. How do I know it's true love and exclusive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid... am a lady of 24 yearys and i have been dating this guy for 3yrs 1mnt now...he is caring loving and everything ...but the only problem is that we are always far away from each other...He is a footballer and he always travels.right now he has been sig... (125 words)

Do you think he wants to get back with me? I ended the relation for he was abusive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

- I broke up with my bf just over a month ago, he was verbally/emotionally abusive. We were going out for 7 months. Anyway up until yesterday we hadnt spoken to each other since the break up. I dindt try to contact him at all and he made a few lame attempts to get my attention ... (288 words)

He's been sending sexy texts to other girls... and somehow I've been made to feel bad about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 7 months pregnant and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have two children from prev relationship. I have found a number of text messages and emails from my boyfriend to girls asking if they could meet up etc and he sent a message to a girl he promised not to contact ... (168 words)

Am I in Love and do you think he Loves me? Not sure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I recently started going out with my boyfriend and we have been together nearly a month now but he is my first real boyfriend and I dont know how to react around him. I find I always want to text him just for an excuse to talk to him, I cant stop thinking about him, I dream ... (133 words)

How do you stay friends with your ex whom you still love? Shoul;dn't they be able to mend things, two people who love eachother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for the past 6 months. When we first started dating things was amazing. The first two months was a like a dream. Then we started to argue all the time. Then it became an EVERY day thing. Over stupid, petty things that I look back on now and wonder ... (265 words)

My parents want to interfere in my decisions. How do I explain them they affect my independency?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i'v always been the type of person that likes to have independance and make an attempt to do things on my own and if im not able to do something then i will ask for help. the problem is my parents. i'm 26yrs seperated with 3 kids my parents spoil them rotten. dont get me w... (267 words)

Went to Oktoberfest and slept with a co-worker (even though I have a girlfriend)... I'm disgusted with myself!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I am in a world of pain. Never have I felt like this before. I went to Oktoberfest on the weekend and I slept with a girlf from work even though I have a girlfriend of 4 years. I am disgusted with my actions. This is the first time I have betrayed my girl... (140 words)

Joined a guitar class, does this guy like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - recently, i joined a guitar class. there is this guy i think i like. he is 4 years older than me (17 yrs old this yr) and in polytecnic. he likes the clerk at the centre. i dont want to tell him i like him because i am scared he will not like me and i would be too embarassed to ... (129 words)

They never want a relationship, just sex; and when I eventually give in they still don't want a relationship. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 20 yr old girl, struggling to gain a relationship. I dont have issues with finding men, i go on dates and meet men, they just never want a relationship, just sex. and when i do give in to them eventually they still dont want a relationship. Im not an ugly or boring girl, ... (146 words)

Am I just relishing the attention or am I seeing 'Stuart' as a replacement for what I could have had with 'Michael'... ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Total dilemma. I've known this guy 'Michael' for about five years. We've been to uni together and become really good mates. We have the same sense of humour, like the same bands, he is without a doubt my best male friend. Both his mates and mine have told me on numerous ... (210 words)

How do you know when and what your "pupose" is, so you can teach it to your children and be blessed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm sorry if I offend anyone by bringing religion to the table, but I have a question for the belivers. It has been said many times that everyone has a purpose in this life and that you will be blessed in abundance if you follow that purpose. Well, how do you know when and ... (157 words)

I have period problems - can anyone give me some advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone! i didnt have my period for about 2 months, so when it came, i had them for more than 2 weeks. that's "really" annoying, because it takes a long time before it ends and when i go to school it gets more annoying! arhgh! help! ps: do you have any advices apart f... (79 words)

I cheated on him last year and he wants out; he's been unfaithful several times before. Should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have been going out for 10 years. I cheated on him last year for the first time. I told him about it and he wants out. I feel cheated because he has had affiars several times and i have always forgiven him. I'm very confused now. Should i just forget about ... (59 words)

My period is iregular, delayed, long. Any advice except for the pills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone! i didnt have my period for about 2 months, so when it came, i had them for more than 2 weeks. that's REALLY annoying, because it takes a long time before it ends and when i go to school it gets more annoying! arhgh! help! ps: do you have any advices apart from t... (79 words)

Am I being paranoid, worrying about the old row we had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Am I being paranoid? I asked my boyfriend if an arguement we had a while ago is affecting us, he said no, it is dealt with etc...things are really good between us but that makes me even more suspicious I mean what if he is acting nice so he can fool me just to do something mean ... (237 words)

My lack of trust brought back to him bad memories and we broke up. Anything I can do to convince him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf ended last wednesday. Things happend a couple of weeks before, and he said that i had been accusing him and checking up on him, and these are the things his ex used to do and she really hurt him. He said he didnt want to get hurt again so he thought it woul... (208 words)

I can't understand why he won't give me a chance if he loves me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - can anyone help? me and my bf broke up over a month ago we where fighting a lot and i was very insecure and didnt trust him i have begged him back but he said no that he loves me but cant be with me hes not the same coz of all the fightin. he has also said he hopes i get my act ... (108 words)

His communication is getting less, it is killing me, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - help me please!!!!!! i am with my boyfreind and everything was going fine (he works away) and all of a sudden he just stoped texting me and ringing me so ive tried texting him and no reply so i rang him the other day and he said he was busy and he would text me soon that was... (118 words)

Am I not falling pregnant because I've been on the pill for a long time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I am a 28 year old lady who has been in a relationship for 8 years with my fiance.For the last 6 years I've been using bith control pills known as Triphasil.Last year we decided to make a baby so I stopped using the pill.Since then we've been trying a baby but nothing ... (192 words)

Could my son be gay? He has an odd friendship with a (much) older man...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age - My 17 year old son has befriended a 58 year old man. He visits him every week and stays all day says he has a bbq and a few drinks. He says he finds he can talk to the man easier than talking to me or his mother. He receives a lot of gifts some expensive from the man. co... (73 words)

I got drunk and told him I'd had multiple partners and affairs... but it wasn't even true!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - If I can get a guys' view on this, I'd appreciate it. I have been with a man for about two years now, in secret (never married, but were both involved in long-term relationships). We have a very close relationship, but not without its hardships and struggles. We both went thr... (469 words)

Based on our convo, do you all think this guy likes me?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

- I'm 18 years old and really like my friend who is 19. Just wondering what you guys think of this conov I had with him the other night on msn... Basicaly I was talking to him the other night on MSN and I was saying how most of the good guys are either taken or dont like me it ... (375 words)

How do I get through to this guy that I'm already committed to my bf??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a friend at work who has started showing an intrest in me. have told him from the word go that i have a boyfriend whom i am commited to. He also acknowldges that he has a girlfriend but he only wants to know me better personally. He insists on spending time with me after ... (138 words)

She doesn't care about me as much anymore, but wants to fix things. What can be done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years, and we have been very in love with each other all this time, we used to do everything together, she even moved in with me. Two months ago she went to work in another country for 6 weeks and since she returned two weeks ... (259 words)

How can I get my ex to move on - I still care about her as a friend, so I just can't ignore her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend. A few months ago we got in an argument, and she abandoned me. She lied to me about a lot of things, and i thought that I forgave her. Before I begin, I need to explain that I have no hard feelings. Also, I dont judge her... its j... (222 words)

We've had rows about her ex's - part of it due to my insecurities, but am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help dealing with something my girlfriend did in her past. I've been seeing this girl for 6 months and when things are good - they're great. My only hang up is that she confessed to cheating on her last boyfriend with a previous Ex-boyfriend that she was seeing... (202 words)

He feels nothing during sex with me and sees it as a chore... He says I'm too loose!

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25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I only had 2 sexual partners so far, one is my current boyfriend. My first boyfriend had a small penis however i had many orgasims and had sex many times a week. But my new or 2nd boyfriend who has a large penis says i am loose and that he doesn't feel anything... (166 words)

Does this mean that he likes me and doesn't want to be disrespectful toward my relationship?

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25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this guy friend who is always asking me for advice. He likes this girl who won't give him the time of day. At least not any more. She did for about a minute. Then she without even getting to know him she changed her mind. I have tried to give him advice for months. ... (358 words)

I'm 18 and have never had a bf - what am I doing wrong?!

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25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 and I have never had a boyfriend before. I have no idea what im doing wrong. I go to college, I am physically attractive (Guys look at me all the time), and I definately have a nice personality (I make friends easily and keep them. Sometimes I feel that im ugly,... (181 words)

He said he's afraid of getting hurt in a relationship. Is this just his way of saying he's not that into me?

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25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy, Mike for about 6 months now. We arent really dating as we originally decided to take it slow and casual. However I have really started to like him, and so I asked him if he still felt the same way as in the beginning, and he said that he likes me and ... (104 words)

I cheated on my fiance and left him, now I want him back! What should I do?

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25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I just broke up last week. We have been together for five years. I cheated on him and left him because I was unhappy. Now I think I want him back. What should I do? How do you break up with someone you've been with for that long and not help but feel like you ... (114 words)

I've slept w/ my friend's gf when he left. She was going to follow him, but now she loves me! What should I do?

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25 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Her bf, a friend of mine as well, left promising she should join him. That is not what he told me. Since he left we started to phone and meet almost everyday. When I opened my heart and mentioned my deep feelings she answered we could only be good friends. A month later we ... (120 words)

I feel we're drifting apart and don't know how to fix things...

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25 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel we are drifting apart... My boyfriend and I have been friends for 10 years and boyfriend/girlfriend for 7 months. We moved in together 2 months ago. Things were absolutely fine until an unfortunate series of events that began 4 weeks ago that seem to have ad a detrim... (630 words)

My boyfriend placed an ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do?

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25 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend placed a personals ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do? ... (19 words)

It's so easy for people to say "Just be yourself!" BUT I CAN'T! I'm only like this with girls, though!

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25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, where do I start? I feel so insecure about everything lately. Well most things. For example if I am around other girls I find it hard to engage in a conversation while being myself. Honestly I love my personality and I think I am a great person but it is hard for me to show ... (145 words)

He told me he wants to take a break b/c I wanted to go out w/ my friends! But I really love him!

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25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey people my heart is really broken. my bf always dumps me and then we return. but now he wants a break. all of this is because i wanted to go out with my friends. is there any chance when somebody asks for break that they can return to each other? i really love him please ... (57 words)

Everyone and their mothers know that I like him, but does he like me back?

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25 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. Here it goes. I have a bit of a problem here that has been over cliched and has been around since the beginning of time. There's this boy I like; I don't use the other term because... it seems a bit,ah,serious. Anyway, I wonder if he like me back. Only he know I like him. ... (226 words)

What's wrong with me (other than being a pig for treating my wife this way)?

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25 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Feels like I've fallen in Love for the first time in my life...but i've been married for over twenty years... It all started about five years ago (im 41 years old now)...my wife and I had been becoming too distant...it was more than the two of us growing apart, but rather the ... (362 words)

How can I be happy when I'm torturing myself and the one I love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Her threesome in the past problem nr.#982512. How to cope with such a great loss?? After all that time I've spent on helping myself getting over something I never really intended to hear it's all over now. You see we were a dreamy couple. IQ both over 130, physically very ... (976 words)

The last time I liked a girl, we became best friends - so how do I actually try to start a romantic relationship w/ this new girl?

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25 September 2007 (M)

- Hello Cupids, well, theres this girl ive recently started talking too ive taken a big interest in, now i got her number the first day we started speaking, and we have been texting alot. Ive been told by somebody that knows her that im not her type, i can do better (which ... (178 words)

I like Michael Jackson... but my friends take the piss!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - HI,im back lol after the update on my last question which i stupidly put as an answer i think lol anyways i have yet another question **so glad i found this site haha** anyways ive been a michael jackson fan for like,well for ever -since i was 5,and im really embarrased to ... (189 words)

Can long term friends become lovers?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2810 days ago

25 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, do you think long term friends can become lovers? ... (11 words)