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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Theres this 1 guy I have known for like 10 years. We did go out at one point for about 2 years. Ever since we have been bestmates, and everyone agreed we were the perfect couple. But we fell out months ago and I REALY miss him. I see him at school all the time and its really upsettin. Hes had 2 other girlfriends since me but they both didnt last long. Today I bumped into him and we just stared at eachother. And I could tell his mates were like 'this isnt good'. I was the first too make the move and walk off. I really want to make up with him but with the amount of things he has said to me since we fell out is horrible. And I dont want him thinkin he can do it all the time. Any ideas what too do? x
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reader, rcn  +, writes (20 September 2007):
 You're too young for all this. Let me ask you this, are the bad things he says to you, with out without his friends around. At your age, the social age, boys don't want to be made fun of for liking a girl, or making up with a girl, you know all that mushy drama stuff.
Making eye contact like that shows a bond between the both of you. That must have been a moment that felt good. They key is talking to him alone, then he won't feel threatened by having friends judging his actions.
Let me ask you this question. I know you live in a different country, but at your age do you or any of your friends own a copy of the movie "Grease"? If so, when they first find out they are at the same school, and he's kind of a jerk trying to be cool in front of his friends, that is true behavior that happens at your age. I asked about that movie because I think every girl I know, at least everyone I have dated, has a copy of the movie and will watch them every time the movies air on tv too. Even though they can watch their movies at any time, when it's on tv there is no negotiating to change channels and watch something else.
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reader, x-kay_kay-x  +, writes (20 September 2007):
 lmao u might not thinkk this is funny but i have been still is in the same situation its like a routine everyone seems to bitch about the realsionship n he says how bad it was n your like well u wasn` t complaing at the time lol i no been there done it b4 lol twice it has happened to me nd in the end you find out that wat he sed is just cause of his freinds or other people encouraging him don`t take any of it serously he is just tryin to show other people he is over u when actually if he is doing this then obvously he aint. i`m not sayin be all freindly n do stuff together i mean the occasionall hi would b gd if u wanna get bk with him the don`t think about the negative points think of all the gd times u had in your realasionship
gd luck kayx
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