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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does he not call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. The first 5 months were great, he was doing a lot of chasing and making me feel special aaaaallll the time, just like i wanted. He was much much sweeter to me than I was to him. I was being "careful", I didn't want to g... (727 words)

She can't make up her mind. What do we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My best friend is a very attractive girl, I don't consider myself too good looking although she persists on telling me otherwise. The problem is that we recently kissed, quite passionatley on more than one occasion and she declared how she was in love with me. I feel the same ... (140 words)

Does anyone have any tips about squirting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone help me please? My partner and I experiment in bed and we saw a porn film that involved a lady who squirted her cum. We have since tried this ourselves with no joy... does anyone have any tips? ... (45 words)

My mother brings down my self-esteem! Please help...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 16 years old and need more than this. I'm living with my mom and dad, my dad is ok and I love him. But my mom, she brings my self esteem down. For the past 4 years I worked for her, respect her, and loved for her. Until May, she had to close down the business for awhile. I ... (513 words)

Loved but abused?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Please can someone help? I have been with my partner for nearly a year now. I am his first love and his first proper girlfriend. I also live with him and his mum. (She is hardly ever there though) He is a friend of my younger brother (my b.fd is 18) and we have known ea... (235 words)

Dazed and Confused! Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I left the father of my son and partner of 6yrs for my childhood sweetheart who after 3 months broke my heart for the second time. I then went on to find myself a new man, which I might add is totally in love with me and I love him to bits, minus our arguments and fall-outs. ... (209 words)

Forbidden or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am adopted and I was wondering if it would be wrong to date my cousin? I don't think it's incest at all or anything. I really like my cousin. He is a boy. Please help me. Thank you.... (39 words)

What can I wear that would make me seem older?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Whats the best thing to wear when you are trying to look older? I dont want to look seven anymore. Any tips? ... (26 words)

Girlfriend or Education? Please help me decide.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 19 year boy. I don't want to have a girlfriend because I think I should finish my education first. What do you think?... (26 words)

He said that kissing means a lot more than sex, and that's why he doesn't do it. Why can't I get over this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with this guy for almost a year. We hang out almost everyday. One day we went out drinking and I had hit on him. Nothing happened that night. We then spoke about what happened later on and a lot of sexual tension was built. He came over to my place a ... (262 words)

I have come to realise no matter how much he means to me I can't come to terms with the fact he has kids (he is divorced). Should I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in a relationship of two years with a man who I get on really well with. We never argue, laugh alot together, and the sexual chemistry is strong. He is 12 years older than me and has two grown up children (16 and 20). He just recently got divorced after splitting up ... (270 words)

How to be able to say to him that I love him, and miss him? I have always had this problem...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How to say him, that i realy miss him, and love him? I have always this damn problem... I just find myself incapable of saying to any guy that i Miss him, and have feelings toward One. My father and mother's marriage was and still is hell, and on one part maybe because of... (98 words)

He says the spark is gone. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i are going through a hard time right now because he says the spark has gone..We've been together for 2 years now and we're great, we have the same sense of humor and have awesome chemistry but right now its just awkward..We are taking a break to see how life ... (99 words)

How can I resolve a co-worker relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m 17, and my lad is 27. We’ve been dating for about a month now, but we have not once gone out on a date! I try to arrange things with him but he always blows me off at the last minute, and he keeps saying that I’m not interested. I wasn’t too keen on the relationship in the ... (147 words)

Earnestly seeking the truth

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts, I am jealous of his ex-girlfriend and I'm driving myself crazy. I've talked about it with him a million times...he is always understanding, although it's waring on him...and he is always honest, completely. He was with her for 3 years, just 6 months before he... (365 words)

I'm 13. Am I ready for sex?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl 14 in two weeks an I'm stuck in a situation because I met this boy on msn and he's really nice to me an everything. I've seen him before but the thing is he wants to have sex with me and I am fine with that but I'm still a virgin but want to loose my ... (143 words)

How can I stop comparing other guys to him? I would still like to stay in touch because he means a lot to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok then the situation is that in the last few months I have met up with my ex-boyfriend about 3 times to 'mess around' as such! This was something that he initiated but I happily and wanted to go along with it. It felt wierd because it felt so normal as if no time had passed ... (259 words)

How important is income level to love? My bf doesn't feel my finances are solid enough...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

- How important is income level to love? My friend who is really my boyfriend doesn't want to look at it that way lately because of money. I support myself, but he doesn't feel my finances are solid enough. I know that many relationships have foundered on this topic, but it's... (101 words)

It's obvious he likes me but he's already engaged in a relation...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Well i like this lad who is 19 he is 19 too he works in a pub im in all the time n he always says hello and smiles n bye he always waves too. Well last nite he was in out clubbin and i seen him he was constantly looking at me he must of waved and said hi about 5 times and it ... (144 words)

She bled twice, is this normal? I'm her first...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have made my girlfriend bleed twice and we have only had sex three times, is this normal? I am her first but I didnt expect this!... (27 words)

A married woman is flirting with me at work, what can I do to avoid this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, apologies for the length of this... but I really need your help. I'm 23 years old, single, and have been working for a large company for 2 years now, and recently a married woman (she's 34) has been flirting with me. I've told her no, stop flirting with me, and that ... (313 words)

My friend had a panic attack when we got lost in the caves

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i'm 33 and have a queriy about my best friend. Well me and her have known each other since we were 13(year 8 at school) so we like most of the same things and always are able to have a good time. Well i go out with her brother and her hubby is also one of my best friends. We ... (438 words)

She got back with her ex while I was on holiday in France

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - help me some one please... everything was goin ok with this girl that im madly inlove with which is the same girl as in my previous "ask for helps" and then i went to france. when i came back i find out from my friend who is a really tight mate with her that she got back wit... (152 words)

Haven't seen my girlfriend for three months and she says the spark has gone. How do I win her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Basically me and my girlfriend (both 19) have been together 8 months, i havent seen her in 3 months and she says that she no longer find me attractive or feels the same way and that the "spark" has gone. what can i do to make her interested again and win her back??... (57 words)

My love broke up with me. How do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my love sudenley decided to stop dating me.when he told me i was in shock.im very scared to lose him.i love him,and i know he still loves me. how do i get him back? how do i make him realize that he needs me?... (44 words)

Is it weird for my fiance to keep memories from ex girlfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

1 September 2007 (F) - Is it weird for my fiance to keep all of his pictures, cards, and notes from his ex-girlfriends?... (18 words)

I need to lose weight. How can I get motivated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

- I'm having trouble getting motivated to exercise. I've set myself a target of Christmas to lose about 20lbs. Does everyone think this is acheivable? I eat fairly healthy already, but do little to none exercise, so I'm hoping that doing swimming, running and cycling, crunche... (77 words)

Is it normal to be this scared after losing your virginity?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i lost my virginity 4 days ago it was protected sex as he used a condom. It didnt split or slide off so why am i so paranoid? It is normal to be this scared after losing your virginity?... (40 words)

My husband is lazy and he wants to be a female !!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid i have been with this guy for 4 or 5 years. Since the last year i have loved him dearly but his work ethic is really bugging me. We just got married. we have 2 kids togeather under 2 and he refuses to get a job that offers more than 10 hours a week. He just sits ... (172 words)

We are ready for intimacy but have a problem with privacy as our houses are always occupied!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - okay me and my gf of 6 months, both feel we are ready and wish to have sex together. The only problem is both our houses are occupied with lots of family so its too hard to get some privacy. Any ideas ? ... (43 words)

I want to be in a relationship too, but I always end up as just a "friend."

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a 14 an i feel i really want to have a girlfriend. Most of my friends are having sex and have girlfriends and i just feel left out ?? ive never been in a proper relationship before,and also i never feel confident to ask girls out because i dont think im that attractive, as ... (143 words)

I have been having thoughts of dropping her, but it would be hard to let go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Im a seventeen year old male who lives in Aus. i have been in a relationship for about 4 and half months now. At the start we were fine we had arguements from now and then by the 3rd month they started to get hefty. Lately my girlfriend has been having little goes at me ... (296 words)

Whenever I make eye contact they laugh at me! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I walk around thinking that all guys will be attracted to me, but once I make eye contact they laugh at me. What could be so wrong with me that guys including cute ones would laugh? Not smile but laugh. Are they just jerks or am I ugly? I graduated from a modeling school so ... (59 words)

I'm not confident with girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 14 and i feel girls arent that intersested in me, which makes me feel less confident in myslef. I try to be really nice to them and flirt a bit but i never feel they really recipricate and so it just makes me think three is something wrong with me,Im starting to loose ... (77 words)

She tried it on but i feel like its all my fault!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well My Problem is im a 16yr guy and there's this girl who is 14 going on 15. Our band went away together last year in july and i havent seen her properly until 3 days ago. When we were on tour, i really liked her but didnt want to scare her so didnt say anything, so jus... (325 words)

Does her starting smoking again mean she doesn't care about me anymore??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend in England 6 months ago and we both love each other very much! She lives in Turkey and returned 1 month ago trying to get visa to return and study. Whilst she was in England she quit smoking, she said that it was all because of me ,it made me feel fantastic ... (184 words)

Maybe he wouldn't have broken up if I had gone to the adventure park with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

- I feel dreadful, yesterday my bf of over a year finished with me saying that "I think we need to split up, this isn't working i need to sort myself out." (On his mates phone by text because he hasn't got one at the moment!)Ever since then i have had that horrible love sick ... (248 words)

I'm a married woman, I like chatting to the net guy, but the conversation always turns sexual! I'm afraid of running into him sometime in reality...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

1 September 2007 (?) - Oh man, what have I done? Someone please knock some sense into my head! I am a married woman, my husband is away at the moment, and my hormones are getting the better of me. I met a guy online who knows I am married. At first he was cool and was asking if I had any single ... (254 words)

I have a married woman chasing after me. Do I need to play hard to get?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a married woman chasing after me. Do i need to play hard to get? she has been married for 14 years and has two children. I have already told here i was attracted to her. her response was "that why i told you i was married up front" i am a single male in my mid 30's and ... (212 words)

I went abroad for a month, came back and he had met someone new. What affected him? Was it because his dad was ill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - The past 2 years I spent dating a guy I thought was the answer to all that I was looking for in a guy. From the moment we met, he swept me off of my feet. We loved being around each other and we went on fun trips as well as some of the best dates of my life. I thought our ... (802 words)

My ex cant make up his mind which of us he wants. I've started getting on good with his girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im sorry its long but i need help!!! i am in one of the most awkward love triangles ever, the type that movies are made of. so. i am currently 18 y/o, about to enter college as a freshman. i will be going about 2 hours away to college, btw, just keep that in the back of your... (540 words)

My bloke went off with my best mate, they split and now he seems to want to come back? What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with ma boyfriend 2 months ago,actual he started dating my so called bestfriend,i hear they broke up, he never wanted to talk to me but a month a go he started sendin me IMs asking me if i hate him,why am i acting like he is not existing,im always playin with his ... (149 words)

I like a girl thats a few months older than me. But she has a boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I like a girl named Maddie but she's a few months older than me.She also has a boyfriend.But I have iked her for three years now!She is in my class because we are both in collage-prep and it's sixth and fifth grade.So please tell me what you think I should do!... (51 words)

Is he really into me or does he just see me once a month for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he into me or is it just sex? We have went on trips together and we see each other once a month. We don't spend much time talking on the phone. We usually just call to say hi and ask how each other is doing. We have spent time together with out having sex and we have also ... (122 words)

How can I attract a 'good' man, who's looking for a relationship and not just sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 26 years old and my last and only relationship ended when I was 19 years old. I have hardly dated much since then. I think I am an attractive woman as I get alot of male attention, and asked out on alot of dates. But, it seems like I only attract men that are loo... (207 words)

I'm 14 and I like a girl in my class. Im shy. How can I let her know I'm interested???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 14 years old and there is a girl in my class at school that i have wanted to go out with for 3 years. but im relly quiet and shy. just wanted to know of any ways to let her know im intresded without having to do much talking to her.... (54 words)

How can I make this whole "sleeping with a friend who has a girlfriend" situation better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6322 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - after a party a couple of months things got out of hand and i became very drunk , things led as they do and i comitted a sin , my friend and i slept together we are 14 and were not thinkin strate , he also had a girlfriend who he claims is his life , he really cares about her ... (131 words)

I'm drifting away from my family because they hate my guy that's 29. I'm 17. What should I do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been seeing this man for nearly 2 years now, but my family hate him because hes older than me, im 17 and hes 29. He has been nothing but nice to me since we met, but ive been slowly drifting away from my family, and i dont want that to happen, what should i do???... (56 words)

The guy I'm dating, Is dating another guy too. The other guy treats him bad. What should I be doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months now we haven't really gotten serious. He is dating another guy which I am fine with since we aren't serious. However this guy does really hurtful things and I hear about it all the time. Everytime this happens the guy gets really ... (118 words)

What causes night terrors in adults and what can be done to prevent them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

1 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend suffers terrible night terrors; he has violent dreams in which he is being tortured and can usually still feel the pain when he first wakes up. He gets so distressed even though he tries to put on a brave face. He's had them since he was small but they haven't ... (114 words)

Before we broke up 3 weeks ago, she had gone off sex. Do you think she had someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

1 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Just before me and my ex broke up for the last 3 weeks she was very resistant with having sex. She wasn't really turned on that much and I think it was building tension to our break up, would this play a factor in why we weren't having sex? We had a pretty good sex life ... (86 words)