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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

One day he will proclaim his undying love for me and the next he will act as if nothing has happened...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend of five years and I have become very intimate in the last year. All of our friends assume we are going out and for all the world we are, we spend hours lying around talking and although we have not had sex we have done other things. The problem lies in the fact ... (128 words)

Help! I can't get him out of my mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well I have my eye on the this guy in school, but he is COMPLETELY off limits! I'm comstantly thinking about him. When i'm not thinking about him, i'm admiring him from afar. It's getting to the point where i'm going insane. I was hoping someone could give me tips on how ... (62 words)

My friend's future husband has been diagnosed with cancer, I dearly want to be able to give them something special as wedding gift. Ideas, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am hoping to get some help and ideas. One of my best friends is getting married in 3 weeks. The thing is, it isnt your usual wedding as her fiance has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer, and has been given 2 good months, with 2 bad months and the doctors cant say... (155 words)

Had unprotected sex, took the morning pill just within 72 h. Could I be pregant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had unproteced sex with my boyfriend we used the pull out method!! stupid i know, anyway i took the morning after pill, but on the third day, just within 72 hours. I was okay, but i had a little blood in my undies 6 days later, ( I heard this could be spotting), and i have ... (119 words)

I am afraid she will run away if I come on too strong and try to see her more.To girls: what is she up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a girl for about a month, we have had about 6-7 dates. Most have been initiated by me. We haven't kissed properly yet, it just seems a bit awkward although we both do like each other. She doesn't call me just for a chat, but has on the two occasions she asked ... (136 words)

We've been fighting for seven years. Can we work this out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, well I am in a situation that I don't know how to get out of. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 years. All of 7 we fight. She is very aggressive, tempered. I am kind of scared of her but then again I'm not. Everyday we argue. EVERYDAY. I have starting to have ... (113 words)

I let friendships drift apart and feel lonely now; never leave the house other than to go to work and my colleagues are of other category of age. What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

- I'm so lonely, i dont have any friends in life and dont know how to meet anyone. im 22 and not at university or college and i work in such a small firm where most people are in their 40s or 50s so i cant meet anyone there. i lost touch with my friends a few years ago - i fo... (224 words)

Is it possible that he already had chlamydia before we started our relationship and I just did not catch it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months when i went on holiday for a week for a hen party, my boyfriend gave me such a hard time about it thinking that i was going to cheat on him. About a week after i came home he started getting some problems with his private bits ... (117 words)

What do men think about a women asking them out?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 36, female and single. I got chatting to this great guy who's single and 38, i felt that he liked me. I then asked him out on a date and he said Yes. What do men think about a women asking them out? ... (46 words)

Is she nice because she likes me or is it simply kindness? We had a relationship in the past, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I first found the love of my life close to 4 years ago, I know most people say they find love as a teen and you may not believe me but that's beside the point. After meeting her at school we grew extremely close, closer than i've been with anyone and eventually, inevitably, ... (456 words)

We've split up before and it was agonizing. I've been thinking about doing it again. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 3 years now. I'm 17 and so is she. We split up a while ago and it was agonising. It didn't get any easier and we both wanted each other back, so we got back together. It's a few months on now and I am doubting us. She... (189 words)

Is there any hope or is this all too messy to sort out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Help. Another threesome question with a twist: when first meeting my boyfriend 3 years ago I was a story teller and prolific liar. Blessed or cursed with the ability to say what I believed people wanted to hear. I told my boyfriend that I had done all sorts of comb... (244 words)

Do doctors prescribe medication to help you cope with a break up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

- Has anyone ever been given medication by their doctor to help cope with a break up? Im really really struggling to forget about my ex - it hurts like hell and im torturing myself by thinking about him and crying about him all day and all night to the point where i dont wanna go ... (116 words)

I've been rejected by this girl and can't get her out of my mind...In fact I rejected two girls because of this, help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

11 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - OK I need some advice on getting over this, cause its driving me nuts. I can't get over a girl I went on a few dates with, I usually don't get too many girls interested in me, but in the three weeks since I last saw her I've had two different girls wanting to go with me, and ... (198 words)

I'm married to a great man, but I think I'm in love with his brother, who makes me feel really special.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married to a great man he works hard for us but things havent been going well for a while i feel the love has gone out of our relationship. He's quite a bit older than me but his brother makes me feel really special he's made a few passes at me and things nearly happ... (175 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me without giving a reason and now ignores me, and I have a hard time at the job. Help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

- my life is a complete mess right now and i dont know how to get out of it. i just started a new job in a care home about 4 weeks ago and its taking me a while to get the hang of it and everyone else is frustrated cause i make silly mistakes like today i got shouted at for ... (231 words)

I have no interests anymore, and no motivation. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I need some help from anyone willing to give me advice. In the past I have made many bad decisions in life. My parents have never been a very good influence in my life at all, and still aren't, and I have not many friends, as I move around a lot. I do not trust ... (123 words)

Got very drunk and woke up in his bed: what are the early signs of pregnancy, and two, was I raped?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi... I am in a very frightening situation some people may have been in before. I was recently living with this guy whom I've met at my job, because he believed he could help me further with my education and help me out. I know I should not have, but I got drunk, like really ... (160 words)

Why must I get so jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Why must I get so jealous? I'm not in a relationship atm, but when I am or I get close to a guy, when I find out things about him or other girls he's been with, I get so jealous. I can't help it. My ex's best friend was a girl and I was so jealous of their relationship [they'd ... (97 words)

Do I do take this job and deal with temptation of this man or be unemployed? (I'm married)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a major issue I am infatuated with a another man but I love my husband and have been married for 6 years with 2 kids. It all started in 2004, I met a man who was a courtesy office at a property I worked at. I interacted alot with him due to my line of work help... (313 words)

Why does she give me false hopes? I need help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend broke up 1 week ago. We had ben together for almost 3 years. We bought a house together, now we are trying to figure that one out. She tells me that she is not in love with me. The thing is she keeps tellling me with all her exes she knew it was over for ... (175 words)

He says I never explain myself properly, and we end up rowing, I'm afraid he is trying to control me like my ex did.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Everytime i try to explain to my bf my side, my veiws on things he doesn't understand me and we end up rowing and breaking up, this has been going on for over a year now. I will try and explain a little to you -I was in a relationship for 14 years with the father of my kid... (393 words)

My bf never makes an effort to call me. I've told him it bothers me, but nothing's changed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now. At first our relationship was amazing we did everything together and saw each other everyday.I understand that wears off after a while. But now he never texts me, never rings me, i have to do all the chasing. He hasn't ... (173 words)

My bf told me he cheated on me w/ his ex after he gave me an STD! How will I move past this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my bf have been together for 2 1/2 yrs. I moved here to be with him after a long distance relationship. We both have two kids from other relationships that we raise. His ex wife cheated on him and left yrs ago and has never wanted him back until the day she found ou... (716 words)

How long should our break last? Will we be able to get back together and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had been together for four years. About 5 months ago he got drunk and kissed a girl, but told me that night and apologized. I attempted to get over it but was devastated for the next few months. I lost the emotional aspect of our attraction and in that time ... (101 words)

It's been lies for the past 6 months, so how can we rebuild trust in each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What can I do or my boyfriend do to rebuild trust? Is compromise an option? Hey all, I could really use your help. I'm 32, my boyfriend is 29. I recently found out that my boyfriend has been lying to me about where he has been going out. He knows that i'm not supportive o... (216 words)

How do I get rid of this creep?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - *(Note -I come from a conservative part of the world, where marriages are still arranged!! Yes, Seriously!) There's this guy who happened to see my profile online, on a social networking site, and found me interesting. (We belong to the same community - very distantly relate... (213 words)

My ex wants me back and I still love him, but I'm already engaged to someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ok here's my story, i left a guy for my ex, me and my ex were together for almost 2 years, then i had to move overseas to work,that's when he cheated on me with another girl, as soon as i knew, we broke up and i moved on to another guy, me and my new guy decided to get enga... (248 words)

My guy wants to move in with me!! ...and bring his brother, too. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am afraid that my boyfriend will never move away from his brother. We have talked about our futures before and he always brings up taking care of his brother. They are only a few years apart but I think that I'm going to have difficulity. He constantly mentions moving in ... (100 words)

My fiancee is a cross dresser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my fiancee, is a cross dresser, and iv been with him for 4 yrs. he hasnt always been honest with me about this, but latley this side of him is out again.im sort of ok with it ,but i have 3 imprssionable young sons. they saw pictures of him dressed like this on my digital camera ... (161 words)

How do you get a guy to like you?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

11 September 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Has anyone got any tips on how to get a guy to like you? e.g flirting tips. Anything would be great! xx... (22 words)

There were rumors of her cheating. I didnt believe them, but now she is upset with me anyway

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year now and we just moved off to college. We both have never been so happy in our lives but last week someone I know started a rumor about her cheating on me. Although I trust her completely because of some the more personal things ... (196 words)

I was all moody with my BF. Have I ruined things now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

- I slept over my bf's at the weekend. I was quite moody with him and we did argue a little over stupid stuff. When he dropped me off in the morning he seemed different, he did not kiss me goodbye or tell me when he was gonna call. I havent heard from him since. Have I ruined ... (80 words)

He let another girl give him a bj, but wants another chance with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was working in the same company were my Bf is the co-owner we're leaving together for almost 9 months. He's a hot and attractive guy. I can tell that coz a lot of our employee has a crush on him. One of the employee really likes him to the point that she was offering her body ... (409 words)

My ex keeps popping back into my life and I get confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I cannot decide what to do. I need outside advice. My son's father who I still care for somewhat wants to come back. I left him before my son was born, not sure if it was my pregnancy hormones or what. Now he makes excuses to come over to my house. We have been spl... (302 words)

I always fight with my boyfriend. Its not his fault. How can I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I always fight and argue with my boyfriend. I am always the one starting the arguments and always blaming him for everything. I know and I can see that it is hurting him and I dont know how to stop doing that. It hurts me because i put him through everything that aint his ... (158 words)

This guy I was seeing also had a long distance girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I started seeing this guy soon after my divorce. After 2 weeks of seeing each other he told me he had been seeing this girl from another part of the country. He said it was over with her but didnt know how to end it. I didnt question him about the other girl assuming it was ... (188 words)

Why does he always choose rugby over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - On sunday, i was really unwell with womens problems and i had a migraine. i really wanted my boyfriend to come over and pick me up because like every girl gets, i was tearful and upset and felt although i really needed a cuddle. the day before we went to a theame park and he ... (254 words)

We have been separated for years, but I am afraid to file for divorce

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age - I am 49 woman, separated from my husband for a number of years though not in his eyes. In 2000 he gave me std's after 20 years of marriage, the same time this happened i lost my mother and my world fell apart. this actually helped my husband stay in the home because i could not ... (382 words)

Is removing pubic hair really all that important?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always been slightly worried what boys would think about pubic hair when I'm ready to have sex, as I am about most things involving my first time. I've heard that they like it shaved. LOTS of boys do, the majority apprantly. I always thought that trimmed would be ok. ... (242 words)

Did I have an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Did i have an orgasm?! How can you tell for sure if you did? :S . . He was fingering me and on top of me and kissing me and i went really hot and shaking a little and breathing very fast and couldn't stay still because it was like an unbearable pleasurable feeling if y... (93 words)

My boyfriend is recently separated and while he says he loves me, I still feel second best

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i fell in love with a man that has been seperated since christmas. we been together for a few months. he was working near my hometown. the job finished and he had to move to a diffrent area which is 3 hours drive away. he has met all my family and we are very happy together. ... (198 words)

Is it normal to bleed from fingering?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - After being fingered and during is it normal to bleed a bit? It definetely wasn't his nails i know that.At one point there was a really sharp pain but it went soon after so i didn't stop him... Help please :) ... (46 words)

Any tips on controlling acne?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well my problem is i keep gietting these annoying little out breaks of spots. my skin isnt bad, but its not the clearest. i use cleanser, tonner and moisturiser but i still get really oily skin and a fair few spots. i ws just wondering if anyone had any tips or advice in kee... (66 words)

I feel like my ex is stalking me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - it feels like my ex is stalking me...let me explain hes constantly txting me and emailing me and generally harassing me and is always giving me dirty looks when i even tlk to another guy...its freaking me out like crazy...ive tried tlking to him and all he says is he loves me ... (70 words)

My friend likes the same boy I do, but he chose me and now she is mad

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of months ago my friend told me she like the boy i liked...and i found out he liked me...we went to a party...flirted hidiously and then spent the whole night together and she completely cut me off...all my friends sed she should just be happy for me because i was when ... (81 words)

Negative blood results, but still feel pregnant

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Negative blood results, but still feel pregnant. Hello everyone!, i posted a question few weeks ago regarding my period being late. I will state again that, my period comes between 28-35 days. I'm sexually active. My last period came on Mid-july. (July 19-22, 2007). It... (167 words)

How can he go from declaring his undying love to not even returning a phone call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What should I think? I never really understood men.... I have had my ex text and call me for the past few months. Chatting about what was and what could be. We decided it was hard to make any plans without meeting up to see how we felt. So we made plans to meet up and eve... (257 words)

I am really falling for this guy and its messing up my schoolwork.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well my prob is: iv known this guy really well for quite a long time now and we've always been really close, i tell him everything and he always helps me and is there for me. the problem is i am now starting to fall for him really bad, i cant get him out of my head. Thats the ... (141 words)

She keeps going back to her ex. Should I wait for her to make up her mind, or just cut the cord now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've posted questions regarding this before, but here's a quick rundown, just in case you all aren't as obsessed with my love life as I am... :) I'd known this girl for four years (calls me her best friend), finally told her how I feel after her boyfriend of a year and a hal... (346 words)

He proposed, but now says it wasnt real!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, This is a relationship question that i would really like help with because im always thinking about it and its worrying me. my boyfriend who ive been with nearly 2 years perposed to me unexpectedly on holiday last month. ive been hinting that i really wanted to get enga... (180 words)

We ended, but I still really like her. Should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated this girl for around 4 months, we ended in February... We broke up mutually, just agreed that things weren't 'right' etc. I felt fine with things for a while, she got back with an ex, and I was absolutely fine with it no problem. We said we'd stay in touch as friends... (469 words)

How can we resolve this conflict and how can I get time back for my hobbies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

11 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I moved in with my girlfriend a little under two years ago. We've been together since high school (13 years ago) and both of us agree it's the best thing we've done. Our relationship is solid and we very rarely argue apart from about one thing: housework. She is a teacher and ... (275 words)

Once a cheater, always a cheater?.. Am I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Once a cheater always a cheater? I was always of the impression that cheaters are always going to be cheaters.. Until I rather stupidly cheated on my boyfriend - who is now an ex. It was a drunken night when I kissed someone else but I decided to let my boyfriend go as ... (142 words)

Why has my boyfriend suddenly cut me out of his life??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Last week my b/f just suddenly decided he needed 'space' we hadn't fallen out or anything it just came out of the blue. I havn't heard from im in over a week although we lived together and all of his clothes and everything are still at my house except a few which he took with ... (114 words)

My girlfriend just can't decide who she wants to be with!! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know where to begin, my heart and thoughts are all over the place. Earlier this year, a met someone who became a very close friend of mine. Time went by, and I started to develop feelings for her. At the time, she had recently broken up with her boyfriend of... (695 words)

I think he likes me, but I'm confused! What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, i'm 18 yr old gal,student and just met a 26yr old guy last month. im still a student and he has a stable career. the thing is the day we met he has been giving me clear signs that he wanted to start a relationship with me for instance, says im pretty,loves to ... (170 words)

My husband tires to be Superman, helping everybody where it's needed... But it's really hurting me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband always tries to be a knight in shining armer. Hes always stops things we are doing as a family or together to go of and save some one so to speak. Some examples are: at 11oclock at night his sister (who lives 3 1/2) miles away phoned to say her computer had broken m... (306 words)

I give her oral, but she refuses to return the favour! Am I being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

11 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been goin out wid my gf for a while now n we see each other most nights. After a week or so i started touching her which she doesnt mind at all she enjoys it. i have also given her oral sex, i dont mind doing it it turns me on however she never returns the favour. she ... (133 words)

We've had a BIG fight. How can I win him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend had the biggest fight ever, and both of us are hurt. He also dont look at me the way he use to and he does not want to hold me. I really love him and dont want to lose him! What can i do to win him back. ... (52 words)

I think my marriage is in trouble. Please tell me what you think.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Here is my story, I have been married for just over 2 years. My husband and I dated off an on for 3 years before we got marrried. We now have a son (16 months). Our marriage has never been very strong. We still have seperate checking accounts and my husband refuses to allow ... (259 words)

Cancer stunned my boyfriends growth. In height and... Other things. Will he still be able to satisfy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

- heya my bf had cancer when he was younger (hes now 21) but all the treatments and keymo stunnted his growth. It didnt just stunt his height it stunnted other things aswell (his penis size). i am fine with this but i was wondering if it could effect us when we have sex.(we are ... (70 words)

We're ready for the next step, but why am I so scared??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - We're ready for the next step, but why am I so scared?... (12 words)

He told me we need space... How should I be feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my boyfriend just told me on the phone that we need space, we argue too much lately. we hat two arguments in the last couple of weeks. i hav been sensing he needs space for a while. what do i make out of it? can you guys please giv me your point of view and girls please. ... (185 words)

I suspect my husband may be cheating (again)!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age - I have a gut feeling that my husband has been cheating on me, he just says that I'm paranoid. In the past he has cheated on me, and the way he is acting, the same patterns are there!! On his phone bill, there is this one number that he talks to, and texts, that on top of coming ... (110 words)

Lost my virginity weeks ago and still paranoid about being pregnant! Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i lost my virginity 2 weeks ago and im still so paranoid! I dont understand why i am as it was protected sex (condom). I just can't stop thinking that i could be pregnant or something. I keep telling myself im being stupid as i was responsible and used protection. Should i ... (81 words)

I've sent my ex an apologetic letter... Do you think anything will come of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, yesterday i sent a letter to my bf best friend to try and sort this whole situation out it was an apolojetic letter for being horrible to him and asking him if we could be friends because recently he wont talk to me or even look at me i dont know this is ive aske... (93 words)

Should I forget what happened and ignore him? My mate texted him that I loved him, which has made things worse.

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my life is so messed up right now. theres a guy that i have liked 4 ages and we finally arranged 2 go on a date, it was wickared, i had the best time ever, and we even ended up making out. but since then we never saw each other again till we went back 2 college, so i though i... (149 words)

How long can you be separated before you can say for sure you aren't going back together?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im just wondering how long do you think that you can be broken up with your boyfriend before you can say for sure that you are definitely never getting back together. I broke up with my bf 8 months ago and we arent back together even though i thought we would be by now. Have ... (72 words)

I feel he is manipulative when we have a conflict, and he also threatens to kick me out. Should I stay?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I are together for 4 yrs already. We have argue and fight just like any other couple. Only one time I brought up his female co-worker(that he is so nice to, and dedicates his time to her when she asks for help) in a fight because I noticed how much effort he w... (228 words)

My ex boyfriend will marry another girl, I'm losing my confidence which I'm afraid will affect my career and future.

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My ex boyfriend is going to marry another girl. We were together for around 10 years and my family and me did everything for him. His family first proposed my parents for our marriage on his wish. But they wanted it to happen soon which my parents were unable to do due ... (187 words)

I know society would disapprove more of me than her when we become aggresive. What do you think?

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11 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi a few weeks ago I accused my gf of cheating on me and demanded to see her paycheck. She didn't cheat of course I act jealous a lot but she got mad really mad and started slapping me. The next day I slapped her to see how she would react and she slapped me more. After we made ... (148 words)

Can a lasting relationship come out of cheating, and how does it feel to be the "other guy" ?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A couple of questions: What does it feel like to be the "other guy"? Is it possible to have a relationship with a girl you've been cheating with? Can a lasting relationship come out of this scenario? Any tips/hints/suggestions you could provide would be helpfu... (167 words)

He has no self control when in comes to "checking out" other women, although says he loves me.

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11 September 2007 (F)

age - My boyfriend is allways checking out other women mostly ones with large breasts and butts when he is with me. ( i wounder what he does when i;m not there). there is looking and then there is pathetic constant gawking! I fell emberraced and also diss'ed when he does this . we ... (143 words)

Any other way he can keep himself from cumming so fast, without taking pills?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okie, so this is the deal, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now and we have has sex only about four times already, but every time we do have sex, he cums too fast [in like 2 minutes!]and leaves me unsatisfied. Without taking pills or crazy organic crap and ... (69 words)

I cannot see her or her daughter suffer the consequences of my leaving. Thanks to all.

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11 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - In regard to the last question I posted: Your advise was all good and probably right. Only one problem, I really am in love with this woman and her daughter. I can not see her or her daughter suffer the consequences of my leaving. Their worlds would turn upside down and insi... (203 words)

I have no problems being friends but how can I tell him that I've no feelings for him?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy in my group from an orientation for school. The group exchanged phone numbers. WHY was this necessary? I'm not quite sure but it was initiated by some girl in the group. Anyways, the same guy got my number and called me throughout the week to hang out, wat... (233 words)

Ready to experiment but what can we do to make me have a orgasm?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years lost our virginty to each other and before we started having sex i have never been so horney but when we did have sex i would feel next to nothing. I wasn't ready then but now i am. It has gotten much better and we are more then willing to ... (94 words)

I took a relationship break, my ex's best friend is a girl who talks nastily about me now, though she doesn't know me.

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex boyfriend and i took a break because all we would do was argue we couldnt communicate with eachother, his best friend is a girl and today i look at her away message and it said "leave her she is not good for u, u want her so bad but behind her pretty brown eyes she is not ... (194 words)

I wouldn't want to continue meeting if there's no hope of getting back together, although I broke up with him. How long should I wait this out?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i have been dating this boy for about 2 years now. We just recently broke up for the second time( the other time was in January). I broke up with him both times. He is really a insecure person, he has a crazy mom and does not have a lot of love in his family. I am real... (188 words)

He hid from me that he was married, should I now write to his wife and tell her? We met online.

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a huge dilemma. I have had an online relationship/frienship with a man overseas for over four years now on and off. It has been an intense relationship both sexually and emotionally over the internet. He started to call me all the time. To this day we still speak and hes ... (279 words)

The guy I'm dating calls too often, disfocusing me from my studies. How to let him know not to disturb me?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Its almost 4 am. Im awake. Thats ok,im student and study usualy at night. Well, here is the problem. Im dating with a guy who presumably now has problems with sleeping,... Dont want to sound unsympathetic or , but this guy knows that i have strict deadlines,that im running out ... (204 words)

What present should I offer him for this 1 year together?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's the deal, October 3rd is coming up and i dont know what to get him?? should i get him a cake? make him a little book about our times? Picture books? October 3rd is out 1 year together, my long relationship ever! plus, I'm broke! My mom wont let me cash in my checks at ... (62 words)

He's ditched his girlfriend... Is he coming after me?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I known this guy for about a year now and I really like him. I think he's flirting with meh but it's hard to tell. H just broke up wit dis grl, but i dunno cause i heard him telling peeps dat he broke up wit her to got out wit someone. I hope it's me. He never used to talk to ... (78 words)

I keep thinking about my boyfriend all the time... It's annoying me!!

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i need help..really bad..i have a boyfriend..and i cannot stop thinking about him..I mean its annoying now..EVERYTHING i do he is there in my thoughts..he wants to marry me when he turns 18..will that not b acceptable cus im only 16... (42 words)

Are we really over?

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11 September 2007 (?) age 30-35 - hey guys i just got really hurt here is my problem? I get back togther with my third time ex Austin 4 weeks ago so i called him tonight and told him to call me back whick he did. Then he said kiss me of course you know i did then all of the sudden i didn't here him say that he ... (171 words)

He doesn't like to spend time with me as much I would like to with him...

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in this relationship for over a year and I know that I may be quite needy for quality time and love. I've given everything but haven't recieved the amount needed in return. I love him but these days all I do is cry over things he's doing. Not really serious but just ... (113 words)

Am I still a virgin?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, on my birthday my friends bought me a vibrator. Now am i still a virgin since i use it?... (20 words)

He is scared of marriage, age 46, and not sure if he can be everything I want him to be...

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend for 3 year. 2 years living together. I suggested we go to couseling together. He declined and broke up with me, saying he needs to take a step back and see if this is something he wants to continue. He is scared of ... (125 words)

My wife and I have been married for years and have been happy for the most part, but I found out she made out with another guy 19 years ago

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11 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there. My wife and I have been married 14 years and have been happy for the most part. We dated throughout college, were very commited to each other and were seperated one summer for a few weeks when she went to camp as a counseler. After camp I discovered a note to a male ... (240 words)

How can I stop arguing with him?

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11 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend an i have been together for 4yrs and i always argue with him for everything and i do it any where now. he doesn't even want to go out with me or talk to me and i feel like i'm losin him what should i do to stop it?... (51 words)

I want to get over her, but I'm a fighter and can't let go. What should I do?

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11 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I need something cleared up, if you guys could help me. I have suffered mercilessly since my g/f of 2 years (who I was very happy with) split up with me because she was tired of enduring a long distance relationship of 240 miles (we met up 13 times for a week or two each... (305 words)

I don't know how to ask her out... Any advice?

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11 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i need some advice im in school and today i saw the cutest girl in my class and i would want to try to go out with her but i dont know what to do? help please!... (37 words)