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He went to jail for getting me pregnant - I lost the baby and we split. Now we're together and I'm pregnant again, but he won't tell anyone about us!

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Question - (20 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

ok i have a question quick insite

i was pregnant and lost my baby when i was about 4 months along due to stress and everything as my boyfriend was in jail for 2 months for having sex with me

i was 16 and he was 20 at the time

im now 17 and hes still 20

im pregnant again hes baby and hes parents dont know

they knew last time and they would call me with terrible things and started alot of fights between me and my bf

so bad after i lost the baby that he and i broke up and they knew it

but we got back together a month later

its been 5 months since we got back together and i have told my parents long ago about everything

there not totally happy but taking it in

but he wont tell hes parents like hes a shamed of me and advoids the questions when,

he says soon and he never wants to he hides me and hes a grown man im tired of my name in hes phone the homie and acting like he hasnt talked to me since he got out

also its really hurting me and leaving me confussed if he even loves me

he doesnt have any one eles i know for sure just hes mother doesnt like me because of my age

we have been together since he was 19 and i was 15

i love him to death but i dont want him to have to hide me and actually answer my calls around them

what should i do ????

what should i say to get him to tell hes family about me and him again??????

please help

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (22 September 2007):

rcn agony auntYou're first sentence says it all. I don't know what's going with him, but I do know if he tells everyone, if one person slips to the wrong person, back to jail for him. You don't want that, and I bet that would not be on his top things to do list either. Second offense, much more time in the slammer.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007):

well that might not be the best thing for him tellin them might end him back in jail. did you parents press charges to put him in jail ? how far along are you and does he or your parents know you can only keep it a secret for so long then it becomes obvious trust me !

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