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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this the end of my marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6280 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all i feel like this the end i have been married for 2 years and am 24 years old. i met my wife and fell in love at first sight. she was pregnant with another mans kid and i have raised him from birth as my own. 18 months ago she left me for another man and i was heart ... (151 words)

My boyfriend and I have had the porn discussion a few times, but this disturbs me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have had the porn discussion a few times throughout our relationship. The first time, I gave my reasons as to why it made me uncomfortable and he seemed like he genuinely cared that it hurt me and said he wouldn't do it anymore. A few weeks later I made a ... (203 words)

I keep getting bouts of depression. Whats wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - For the past year and a half I have been through a lot of mental torture as I like to call it. But the thing is it is for no apparant reason or at least I think it isn't. In 2005 I left school and went to college, shortly after that I got a job and after that met my girlfrien... (297 words)

Does he want to end things with me and is trying to let me down gently?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 8 months recently told me he is depressed and that he wanted to get away from his friends, me, the city we live in (not together) and away from doing the same old things. He is a mature student and is due to start back at uni beginning of Oct. I had book... (518 words)

I found his secret phone and txt from a girl at work. Hes an alcoholic and we split loads but I hate being on my own so we get back together.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have just found out my partner of 3 years has been cheating on me, i found a secret mobile by his side in bed while he was drunk as usual!, it was full of explicit texts to a girl he works with, i couldnt believe wat i was seeing, i know he hasnt been interested in me for a ... (145 words)

Should I date this guy I work with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and ive been working as a waitress at a local pub for about 6 months. We're all really close and a few months ago two new duty managers started. Ones a complete jerk, but the other is really nice. He's 25 and we can talk for hours about everything and anything. we were ... (329 words)

He cheated on me when drunk and says he only loves me, but when we argue he chucks that night in my face?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and 4 months and i couldnt possibly love him any more than i do now which is a hell of a lot. about a month ago he had sex with another girl behind my back. i found out about it and confronted him. at first he denied it but the ... (195 words)

I date lots of guys but I get rid of them when I start feeling insecure and lack confidence. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dont think im being big headed but.. lots of boys ask me out and things butt when i do start goin out with them and im with them and things i always mess it up and end it like 4 days or even a day after because i get scared that my body isent right and because they have done... (143 words)

I cannot get an erection while masturbating. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am worried. I cannot have an erection when I want to, even when thinking about sexual fantasies. I've tried to masturbate in the past but I just don't get aroused by pretending. Any time I even try to put my hand on my penis, it tickles and it shrinks. I always get noct... (68 words)

I blew this guy out but I now regret it! Should I forget about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i really really like this boy butt i blew him out and now i regret it :(! and i really want him back butt hes just bein weird with me now what should i do i tried tellin him how i feel but i said it when we were arguing i guess that was a bad idea because i didnt get a very ... (84 words)

My ex wants to keep in touch with his exes 18 yr old daughter but she is now ignoring him because he wont pay their bills. What can he do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I split from my boyrfriend 4 months ago. There was a lot of anger on my part because i always felt he was keeping something from me the year i was with him. Thats why we split in the end. Turned out he was. He was in touch with his ex, but only because of her daughter... (433 words)

I think my boyfriend might be sexually involved with his sister!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im feling totally diasturbed! i have a boyfriend of 4 yrs who has a sister that is 3 yrs older than him ( she's 24 ) and i think they are sexually involved. no. 1 they sleep in the bed together and thinks its totally okay! shes totally okay with taking her clothes off in front ... (197 words)

I have been given meds for irritable bowel syndrome. But should they be making me bloated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have irrital bowel syndrome and i have been put on Colofac tablets by my doctor, i have recently got servere bloating that hasnt gone away, would these tablets give me severe bloating? As i thought they were supposed to get rid of symtoms like that. ... (47 words)

My friend is jealous of my relationship. How can we sort this out when we all go out together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im going out with this boy evrythings fine but whenever we go out some wheere with a couple of m8s including my best m8, my best m8 always gets really depressed me and jelous becuase she hasnt got a bf... me and my bf have both triied helping her find someone but she ... (140 words)

I think my girlfriend wants to cheat on me, what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I think my girlfriend wants to cheat on me. What do I do? Here are somethings that have happened: First of all, my girlfriend and I both have herpes. We both know this and talked about it a few months ago. Just the other day I saw in her search history in the net that ... (314 words)

We broke up 3 months ago but I still wish she would come back. How can I get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, So my ex,I cared and loved her, we never argued, had similar interests, could talk to each other for hours, we enjoyed each others company, we spent all our spare time with each other, we would talk online each night if we weren’t together, we were always affection... (471 words)

He's a great dad and a great guy but I don't think I love him anymore! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married 6 years now. We met when I was barely 20 and were married 2 years after. We have two children (one from his previous marriage)and I'm trying to act like I'm happy in my marriage for them. I just don't know how long I can do this for. I don't want them to ... (194 words)

I find sex hard work. I don't want him to think I'm not interested in him. How do I change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have been with my boyfriend 2years and i live with, i love him very much. its just that most of the time when he wants to have sex i dont. its not coz i dont find him sexually attractive its just that i can never be bothered to have sex with him. i fell like its to much... (96 words)

I lost my virginity and now have bloating. Anyone got any advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I lost my virginity nearly 2 weeks ago... it was protected sex, but i am now suffering from severe bloating. I also suffer from irrital bowel syndrome so do you think this is the problem? The condom did not break or slip off so should i be worried, please help :(... (55 words)

I am totally falling for a guy. I'm 15. What should I say and do????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am totally falling inlove with this guy...i am 14. I know you'll be saying like are you sure you are falling inlove?? Yea i am hehe. It's nothing like i've ever felt. No crush...he is always in my mind and i feel totally comfortable around him iv known him since i was like a ... (120 words)

My boyfriend might be moving away. Should I go with him? We have been together a year.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 21 and moved to kent 2 yrs ago i have a 2 yr old son and his father has no contact with him. when i moved here i never thought i would meet anyone but i did and i love him to bits. he has three children two of which live with their mum who now might be moving to yorkshire to ... (120 words)

I think I messed up on the second date. Tell me what you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Just wondering here... If I were to really screw up our second date so she no longer talks to me (not sure what I did exactly, but I know I did something wrong) do you think there is anything I could say to get a fresh start? Our last date was 3 weeks ago, and the week bef... (258 words)

I had a stupid one night stand when I was drunk! Will I get over feeling guilt and shame?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so guilty. I got totally drunk (never ever been that drunk before) that I can hardly remember anything of my night. But what I do know is that I have stupidly had a drunken one night stand! I cant believe I was so stupid- it is so out of character and I dont know how it ... (142 words)

I had an abortion but we are trying for a baby. Is it possible to get pregnant so soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I HAD RECENTLY HAD AN ABORTION LATE AUGUST. I REALLY FEEL DEVESTATED ABOUT WHAT IVE DONE BECAUSE OF MY PARENTS OPINIONS. BUT ME AND MY BOYFRIEND IS TRYING TO CONCEIVE AGAIN THIS MONTH IS IT POSSIBLE TO GET PREGNANT SO SOON? Can you not use caps next time pls xxx... (51 words)

My boyfriend cheated when he was drunk. Should I believe that he cant remember it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend cheated on me when he was drunk and he cant remember anything, but she does. he cant remember finishing the deed and he usualy cant, so should i believe that he cant remember anything and cant remember finishing?... (40 words)

I'm quite well off but am I wrong to like a woman that has manners to offer to pay her way on dates?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age - I'm on the dating scene.I'm quite well-off, but I hate women who are after a free ride. I know as the man I'm expected to pay,initially at least. But am I wrong to judge a woman because she doesn't have the manners to even offer to pay her way? It really annoys me, and makes me... (59 words)

She is giving me mixed signals. Is she interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Tell me if she is interested i'm having mixed signals. Here is why i think she is and why not. Why i think she is: - for her bday i gave her a rose and poem and she said that i made her day and that she really liked the gift a lot. She looked very happy. - when i talk to... (336 words)

My boyfriend is on dating sites as single and looking. Is this the same as cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really confused whether I should sacrifice my happy relationship of a year because my boyfriend constantly joins and hides his online (local) dating sites, sex personals etc. He claims he loves me and wants to be with me, but then why would he be doing all this online?... (130 words)

She's keeping us guys that like her hanging and sleeping round her exes house. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know where to begin, my heart and thoughts are all over the place. Earlier this year, a met someone who became a very close friend of mine. Time went by, and I started to develop feelings for her. At the time, she had recently broken up with her boyfriend of 5 y... (627 words)

How do you find out if someone is taking internet conversations further than chat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have known each other for 3 years. We dated once before for 6 months, when he broke it off saying he didn't love me anymore and that he was bored, etc. After that, he hooked up with MANY girls and we both dated around until we once again got into a serious ... (192 words)

Will my boyfriend stay in jail because he pushed me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone please tell me what happends when someone gets in trouble for a domestic disturbance. My boyfriend was put in jail for three days because he pushed me during a fight and my roomate saw and called the police. I do not want to get him in trouble because I know that ... (211 words)

Should I split with him because I worry I will get hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

- Ive been seeing this boy for 2 months now. I really, really like him and so I think I should stop seeing him cos Im scared of getting hurt. I feel like Im falling for him already - I always want to be with him, Im worried when a day goes by and he hasn't made contact, Im ... (206 words)

Is there a possibility that I might be pregnant again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I had my abortion 8/21/07 I started having unprotected sex AGAIN 8/28 through 9/6/ so is there a possibility that I might be pregnant again? ... (25 words)

I had a dream that I used a sex toy on my husband. What does this mean? Is it normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a dream that i bought a strap on, and used it on my husband. is this a normal fantasy or just a weird dream, and what does it mean?... (33 words)

Me and my girlfriend have nothing in common. I've met someone new, should I persue it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been dating the same girl for 5 years now. the relationship is very unhealthy. we only have dinner and have sex about once a week (typical date night for us) we live seperate lives and have nothing in common. however we love each other very very much. I have recently ... (109 words)

Is my guy gay or Bi??!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! Is my boyfriend gay, bi or what?? I started seeing someone 3 months ago ( I am female, he he a male). We are both in our late 30's. From Day 1, he told me has never been in love, while I, on the otherhand have been in love a few times in my 35 plus years. He told m... (961 words)

I want to split with my girlfriend but I'm worried I wont meet someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - Did I do the right thing???? I recently split up with my first and only girlfriend. I'm 27 (so its a late start for me) but she was younger. She's a lovely girl and loved me with all her heart, she would have done anything for me. But throughout the relationship I wa... (247 words)

Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I cum in her when she's on her period?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Can my girlfriend get pregnant if i cum in her when she is on her period? and can she get pregnant if i cum in her behind?... (27 words)

I heard that my guy has slept with my cousin and a male mate. How do I find out if its true??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i got this situation that i really need help on,i was out with a cuple of friends yesterday and sum1 told me that my bofriend has cheated on me with my cusen. the person told me that my boyfriend that i have bin with for two years and his brother had sex with my cusen ... (154 words)

I want to have sex with my cousin! Is there anything I can mix with water that will turn her on???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - actually i love my cousin sister and i want to have sex with her, she is married, she has two children her age is around 30yrs, i stay with her in her house,her husband will be out for business tour, please tell me how can i attract her for sex, is there any medicine available ... (79 words)

I feel he doesn't like the quietness of our love-making (we have to be quiet because he lives with his parents), so he feels compelled to say something.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem I want to address with my boyfriend about our love-making. We are in a serious relationship, and he is a wonderful lover in so many ways. However, when we are doing sexual things to each other he might mention things that I consider inappropriate like ... (268 words)

I like a girl at school. Can anyone help me with this? I'm not very confident!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I went back to school the other day. After my first lesson of a certain subject I found myself really liking this girl! Today we were together in a group and were having a good laugh together. I dont know anything about her but would really like to. Please help me with ... (63 words)

I'm easily annoyed by his affections but I feel that walking away would be the biggest mistake of my life. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in quite a few unsuccessful relationships in my past. I seem to always fall for the type of man no woman in her right mind would ever want to be with. With that said, I'm involved in a very new relationship with a man who is crazy about me. He has a great job, is ... (281 words)

I feel so bad for snooping on my boyfriend! Should I confess to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so bad about myself. I have been having lots of nightmares lately including a very vivid one of my boyfriend with another woman. Anyway, the other night after I had a couple of drinks I found myself looking under my boyfriend's bed. I don't know what I expected to ... (178 words)

My ex and I got back together but he wants to keep me secret because his family don't approve. What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age - I have been dating a man for 2years 8 months,and he broke up with me about 2 months ago. he and i are again dating but he hides me for fear that if his family finds out they will dump him. they are very dependent on him and i don't think this will happen.this man is 69 years ... (146 words)

I'm 15 and loads of guys liked me 6 months ago. No one sees me as more than a friend now. Whats changed???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and about 6 months ago i had lods of guys wanting to go out wit me, but now its like no1 is intrested in me an every1 i like jst sees m e as a m8. i havent changed so y deos no1 like me now!! plz help.... (50 words)

My boyfriends is willing to raise the child as his, but I'm scared the ex will one day want to be a part of the baby's life and confuse him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - last month, i made the mistake of sleeping with both my ex and my current bf a week apart... i am now pregnant and dating it would mean it is my ex's baby... he says he had always loved me but now i've hurt him [because i never told him when i slept with him i had a new bf] and ... (125 words)

How long does the honeymoon period last?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how long, does "the honeymoon period" of a relationship last?... (10 words)

I'm in love with another woman... Check out what she says to me and see if you think she feels the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (?)

- Hello Aunts, I need some help. I am a woman in love with another woman. I told her how I felt and she denied feeling the same way. It has been 9 months since I told her how I felt, yet she keeps sending me mixed signals. she told me she was straight and that she had chances to ... (631 words)

When should I start taking the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, i just got the pill, but have not started taking it yet, it says you need to start on the first day of your period, i was just wandering.... if it starts at 5pm sunday night, would i take one that night?? or do i wait until the next day?? thanks!! and also, i need to ... (78 words)

I feel we've been drifting apart lately and that he doesn't feel he has to do anything to keep me, so I removed the ring from my engagement finger until he notices it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Just wanted to know others opinions on whether what i have done today is unreasonable, or reasonable under the circumstances. I have a 12 year old son and split with his father when he was very young. I always hoped that one day i would remarry. I have been with my live in ... (415 words)

I'm losing my boyfriend because I'm jealous of his kids and I don't trust him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm loosing my boyfriend becouse im jelous of his kids, and acuse him all the time. i dont trust him.... (20 words)

I like my best mates brother but I don't know how to tell people, I'm scared what they will say!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5997 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i wrote before saying about this boy i am seeing and he has a girlfriend, but this boy is my best mates brother. my best mate does not know what is going on i just dont have the guts to tell her. i really do like him and i know it would work with me and him, but the only ... (112 words)

Sometimes I sing her to sleep on the phone at night but lately I've been hearing noises of moaning, groaning and what sounds like sucking or kissing. Very confusing.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok well this we'll be the first time i've truly ever asked anyone for help, especially online in a situation like this but i just can't help this feeling.it's driveing me crazy.I'm currently in a long distance relationship with a girl that i truly feel i love and want to spend ... (1178 words)

We are to be married soon, and all the time I feel I'm going to lose him!...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 3 years he is wonderful and means the world to me. i am the problem though, i am always so jealous when he looks at other women. I'm sure i have no reason to worry but it gets me in such a state sometimes i feel i'm going mad. We are to be ... (78 words)

He ejaculates in about 3 seconds when he is inside, though there are no problems when I masturbate him. Worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has no problem getting hard and it takes a while for him ejaculate when i toss him off but as soon as we go to have sex and he is inside me he ejaculates in about 3 seconds it's affecting our relationship, i'm really worried please help... (49 words)

My husband and I are separated for a year now, after I confessed about my affair. 15 years of marriage, thrown away? Help, please.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age - i was with my long term partner for 15 years we had a son together,we split up a year ago,because i had cheated on him in all the years we lived together i never even looked at another man,but what happened my ex started going to the gym all the time,before we spent most of our ... (433 words)

He claims his ex is the only person he has loved, we're in the honeymoon stage now, but the ex is being disrespectful to my relationship with him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been seening my guy for a few months now. Its the honeymoon stage. Although technically we are an unofficial couple, we have a great connection, tend to be inseperable and generally drive each other crazy in a good way. Also note that he is always honest, even if it ... (419 words)

My fiancee recently asked for permission to kiss two other men before we get married. It has shaken my faith in our relationship. Suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My fiancee recently asked for permission to kiss two other men before we get married. We are going to get married in about a year. She said she just wanted to get it out of her system. I didn't really think about it much and said she could. The next day she went to a coffee ... (302 words)

Our first date went well. Do you think he wants a relationship now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I started dating this guy about a week ago but we had been texting for a couple of weeks before. When we first met up he gave me a peck on the cheek, we went for a meal, he pulled out my chair, paid for the meal and then walked me to my car at the end of the night. He g... (155 words)

He talks about marriage but hes older than me and doesn't have any money?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a women who is 24, and i am single. but there is the man who is busy telling me he loves me. sometimes i think i love him too, but there is only one problem with him. he doesnt have money. not that im looking for his money but his is so old, he is 32 years old. i havent ... (79 words)

Do I risk damaging our relationship by bringing up the friendship with the ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello I have a question relating to my girlfriend being friends with her ex. We have been dating a few months now and are very close, when we met I knew she was friends with several of her exes which I didn't really like too much but I know I can trust her so went along wi... (401 words)

Should I give up the relationship or fight for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little less than a year. we're gonna be apart for the next six months because i have to go abroad. when he said that he doesn't love me (he used to say that he does), but only likes me a lot and he has doubts if the relationship can continue ... (217 words)

We were fine again in 20 minutes and laughing about it but inside I am still jealous, should I be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Confused and need of some advice! My girlfriend is returning to England as a foreign student(we met 7 months ago whilst she was studying English) We love each other very much and she has gone to much effort to arrange a visa to return to study and also see me! She has bee... (453 words)

What can I do for him that he will love??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a while and he always seems to be the one who gets the chance to do really cute things for me. He always get the first chance to kiss me if the lights go out, or he tells me the perfect thing, etc.etc. I am just wondering what are a few thin... (117 words)

He is also a dancer on cruise ships but I am thinking of going back to school, I'm 20, while he wants to start a business in mexico and take me with him! Should we stay together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. i am in a relatinship with a very nice kind and genuine guy. we've already been together for a year! the trouble is he is 38yrs and i am 20yrs. i love being with him, he's everything i ever wanted in a guy! but it gets deeper. I met him as i work on cruis... (380 words)

Should I be concerned if my boyfriend messages random girls on the internet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I be concerned if my boyfriend messages random girls on the internet?... (13 words)

Why aren't I pregnant?

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10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so my boyfriend and i have been having sex unprotected since atleast march of this year and almost all the time he cums in me.... i'm not on birth control of any form... should it be taking this long? i mean shouldn't i be pregnant already? Is there something wrong with me? ... (53 words)

Why is she acting this way since I told her how I felt? Did she reject me or was it a wrong impression?

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10 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Please Please Help!!!!!!! I am really confused. This girl i like is driving me insane.We are both 16. We are friends and talk alot, but still, i dont want to ask her why she is acting the way she is. Last week, i told her that i really liked her and asked her out. She hesitate... (427 words)

They love me when I am invincible, but as soon as I crack they don't support me. Do guys only like women who are strong?

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10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this sounds weird but guys only like me because they think that I am strong and don't put up with their crap. All my bf's always tell me how I am different from other girls (I hate when they say this). How I don't care about the same things other girls care about. To a ... (323 words)

Dating my cousin's wife's brother, but at the same time messing around with my cousin though he's married. What should I do?

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10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 19 years old and I am dating someone who is 38. Everyone in my family knows and its a great relationship but the problem is that he is my cousin's wife's brother, and at the same time i'm messing around with my cousin who is married with his sister and has three kids and i ... (75 words)

My boyfriend lives in another city and I feel neglected.

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10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My "boyfriend" lives in another city and went on vacation with his family and sister/niece/nephew from another country for 2.5 weeks, so the last time I saw him was on August 12. While on his trip, he only e-mailed me once and text messaged me once. After he returned on Sep ... (201 words)

How to say to a guy that has treated you well and cared for you that he is not the one?

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10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How to say a guy, that has treated you well, cared about you, was on your side to support you and who you know has feelings for you, that HE IS Simply Not THE Guy you're looking for?? and not to be painful for him? What's the best way? Please, any Help!... (53 words)

Is he too old for me??

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10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a problem because i like a neighbour who is 20 years old and i'm 14. At the beggining he started talking to me and asked my name; then he gave me his cellphone number and he added me to his msn list. He noticed that i really like him and he said to me things l... (247 words)

I love her but I have trust issues from previous relations so I've been snooping around and can't put my mind to rest. What should I do?

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10 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My past is not the greatest i have slept with random girls and i had some one night stands! so here is my question - Me and my girlfriend started dating 6 months ago and when i moved into her house i snooped around because that is the person i am due to the fact that i have... (293 words)

What do you do when you like two guys who are both your friends??

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10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey people. I got a bit of a problem. Okay here's how it goes;I like two guys.They both have basicly the same classes with each other and thier good friends. Bob*not reall name* is in one of my classes and we get along very good and sometimes I think that he really likes me ... (211 words)

I want to keep this relationship/friendship going but it's disappointing when the answers are postponed. He says we are soulmates, and we're both married.

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10 September 2007 (F)

age - i've recently been in touch with someone i new in high school. we're both married and have grown children. we are very attracted to one another, and he has stated in one of his e-mails that we are soulmates, however, he is very slow to respond back to my e-mails, due to ... (84 words)

Was it a date or just a friend thing? Any advice?

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10 September 2007 (F) - I need help. I've been friends with this guy for a while now. I always had kind of a crush on him. I finished a 4 year relationship 3 months ago and he used to advise me all the time. Lately we've been hanging out a lot and we usually don't hang out just by our selves. My ... (287 words)

I want us to learn how to control our anger towards eachother, but after the police intervention I'm afraid the relation will end.

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10 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Please someone help me. I have been crying for over 3 days now. My boyfriend and I have been having some problems, for intance: Whenever he got me really really mad, I would try to smack the back of his head or his chest or sometimes slap the side of his face. Well he would try ... (382 words)

Should I end this though we have wonderful times? He's showed me no signs on wanting a future together and is looking for his soulmate online.

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10 September 2007 (F)

age - I have been dating a guy for the past eight months. I am a very attractive female. My boyfriend is the average joe. He is a part-time musician. A while back he had to perform and I accompanied him. During one of the half hour breaks that he had a man came up to shake his hand ... (174 words)

I really like this guy and want to go out with him. Any advice on how to make this happen?

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10 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Heller!! Well i liked this guy since last valentine's day and i let him know once. Since then he's seemed like a mystery. He reely quiet and doesn't say much. He smells reely reely good and that's a major turn on for me. I reely reely like him and i want to be with him any ... (57 words)

Is it easy to get laid in college?

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10 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I'm wondering if the rumours about how easy it is to get laid in college is true. I'm in my last year of highschool so I really look forward to moving out and going to college and whatnot, and everyone goes on about how easy it is to get laid in college, is it true?... (58 words)

I feel that he needs to give me something valuble materially to show me he cares

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10 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really in deep love with this guy, we know each other for only 4 months, but it just feels good.The problem is, that i put so much value on "material" things u know, maybe because im accustumed to it, and had linked them with love which i know is wrong but simply it ... (206 words)

She won't cut him off completly and I feel like I am going to get hurt in the end. Am I wrong for asking her to stop talking to him?

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10 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a bit of a dilemma, I love my girl but we have had problems in the past. I don't think she feels we can get passed it and I think she has feelings for another. It started as a long distance relationship 6 years ago, I live in England, she lives in the States, shuttlin... (377 words)