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30-35,
*icolem
writes:I'm just starting my second year of university (engineering), and yet have never had a boyfriend. I really would like to have at least some sort of relationship, but I have only ever had one guy ask me out, and he was a creep who admitted he asked me as a last resort. I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong. I don't want to advertise myself as the "I'll take what I get" type of girl, but I'm starting to feel pretty depressed and desperate. Any ideas? or hints?
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (22 September 2007):
 love finds us, not the other way around unfortunately.
if you try to hard, you could, as you have before, end up with soemone not right for you.
be patient and you're not alone,alot of girls start dating properly when they're older.
good luck
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reader, JustaGuy +, writes (20 September 2007):
Hi, I was in the same situation. I also did engineering and know exactly what you mean. Being a guy there were only a handful of girls on my course, I guess engineering just is'nt as popular with the girls, so I went through the whole of uni right up until half way through my final year without a g/f! I guess what i'm trying to say is you cant rush or force this but you can increase your chances. There must be a fair few guys on your course i'd imagine! I know by now you may have formed your 'social groups' within lectures but why not just sit next to that guy who you've always liked, I did that and found it fairly easily start conversation by asking somthing like "did you get this answer....." , "can i borrow a pencil" - you get the idea. Once you've sat next to them once its easier next time , less arkward. It sounds cliche but its a good way of making friends.If I saw one of the girls in my class walk by in the corridoor i'd use an excuse like "what room is out next lecture in" or somthing like that just to initiate a bit of conversation or get her to notice me. good luck
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