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anonymous
writes:Please help.The other night my boyfriend went out for a work night. I had a missed call from him and a msg bout 3ish. Then the next night when he rang me his caller id was off. Why was his caller id off?? Im thinking that he was ringing another girl on private number.Maybe you think im being paranoid-thats because he txt a girl b4 from his old job (so he says). apparently she txt him 1st trying to set him up.He then txt bak saying "she cant b more unreal than you, are you setting me up" The problem is he sent it to me by mistake. We finished for a week but i gave him another chance. He seemed fairly sorry and put it down to showing off in front off the boys. ( i dont think ill ever get that full story)Anyway im just thinkin that caller id's dont just go off on their own. He says he doesnt know why. Hasnt got any excuse even. Do you think he is cheating...I confronted him and even said just let me go coz i didnt want to be mixed up with sum1 who doesnt want me and only me!!! But he still says no and that he loves me and wants me forever(loada crap talk id say)!!! I just dont know what to do or what to think anymore. Where do i go from here. Phones caller id@s dont just go off.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): Okay... First you have to know there is a little think called womans intuition and if you feel there is a problem there is usually a reason for it. I have been there, so in love that you don't want to see wha tis right in front of you, but sit back and think..... What advise would you give your best friend in the same situation? That gut feeling is there for a reason don't ignore it. I am not saying give up totally but make sure he is giving you as much as he is receiving from you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): I think your guy sounds like he wants to remain single but isn't being honest with you until he made the coment that you should let him go because you did not want to be with someone that did not want to be only with you...(i.e. be exclusive) He is clearly playing the field....what you do from here is merely your choice. Do you continue to date him casually with the hopes of a commitment in the future and date other men, or do you move on entirely and look for someone that wants to be only with you? He is giving you a clear message that he is not thinking seriously about your relationship at this point and any pressure from you in that direction right now will send him running....the caller id turned off is NOT the issue here.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (17 November 2007):
 If you are sure he is playing games, I think it is time to move on.
On the other hand if you are not positive about this maybe you ought to sit back and see if other incriminating evidence shows up.
Sometimes things are not always as they seem.
Hope things go well for you in any case. Doc
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