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writes:My son father died a few months ago. And now one of his friends is trying 2 tlk 2 me.He's a very nice guy,but I just feel that's its wrong, what shoul I do. Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny  +, writes (15 November 2007):
 I would find out what his intentions are first, he could be just being friendly as he knows what you have been through. I would talk to him, be upfront and honest and stress that you do not want this to go any further than just friends talking.
Good luck x
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reader, Norex +, writes (15 November 2007):
 dear friend.
i know why you feel it's wrong but you got to move on with your life, you can't stop living and enjoying the good things in life and lock yourself forever it's not good for you and not good for your son.
if you think it's so soon to start dating don't, take your time but don't waste it.
just make sure that the man will be supporting and understanding for both you and your son.
i wish you luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): If all he's offering is friendship, then talk to him. You'll be able to talk about the person you've lost together and it might help with your grieving process. If you're unsure about what he's offering though, ie. more than friendship, you should tell him outright that you do not feel comfortable in anything more than friendship.
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