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writes:Okay, first off, I'm not particularly good at writing these, nor am i in the habit of asking for advice over the net. Anywho...I'm friends with Mr X. It was him who initiated the friendship, i was always miserable and, well, emoish really, and he made it his mission to try and cheer me up. We grew really really close and eventually i started liking him as more than a friend.Then he one day out of the blue started dating one of my friends who had asked him out (it was his first girlfriend). They got along really well, and he claims to love her.The she dumped him. Then he told me he loved me before he ever loved her, of course, i figured he was just saying that because he had just been dumped, so i remained /just/ friends with him.That was four months ago. He knows i love him, but he still loves her, even though she is over him. Although, every so often she flirts with him, which i think is kind of inappropriate...I really want to be with him, more than that i just want him to get over her and cheer up. I hate it when he's sad.I'm not quite sure if this counts as a question, but basically, all i want to know is if there is anyway i can help him get over her, and if there is anyway i can find out if he does actually like me as more than a friend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007): Just try asking him out. If he liked you there's a chance he might say yes. Then if the relationship hits off then he'll get over it. Nothing ever happens if you just wait. Good luck! :) Also, don't worry about how your friend feels about it either, she dumped him so it should be fine.
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