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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a nice boyfriend. I think he loves me... think, I'm not sure. He of course is telling me that occassionaly and sms, phone calls are inevitable everyday! At the moment we have a Long distance relationship, since He's working in another country, but he hinted on several occasions that Should i finish my thing here He'd be glad to come to his country for or at about Christmas (I assume he wants me be introduced to his family, although he "jumped" to spend his holiday alone telling me stories about how is there constantly when I'm having a hard struggle here)So, the problem is his sms reveal some feelings for me, but on occasions are such that i Don't know where I'm standing.He is not a Lover of fuck-buddy since he didn't positioned like that and on the other hand I cannot consider him as serious at all (we're quite apart and his telephone callings does not give me any sure grounds nor support for this hard period I have.It seems like he wants to "strap" me not to bump into another guy But on the other Hand doesn't give me anything On which i should Rely not to do That! I'm annoyed, so confused any Hint what should I do next , Pleasee!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): You should.. give him an ultimatum. Long distance relationships are only draining on you. You are not even positive that he is being loyal to you. You must tell him that he either wants you or he doesn't. Tell him to move and get a job in America, or you will not be strapped to him any longer.
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