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writes:Hi. i have this boyfriend he is father of my baby. the problem is he no longer tell me that he loves me as he did before. since we have the baby. i am the one how calls him, wishing him luck in the morning before he goes to work and at night i call again to ask if he enjoyed his day. he never bother to know how i feel unless i call him. Reply to this Question
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reader, useless  +, writes (15 November 2007):
 talk to him when he has his free time with you.if he doesn't feel like talking maybe you should try and sex him up first because maybe he just needs some love once in a while if he's tired from work. And after sex you'll have his attention and that is your time to ask him anything and know what you want to know.
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reader, angelblueeyes  +, writes (15 November 2007):
 Hi
you need to sit down with your b/f and talk about how you are feeling etc.
Some men struggle with their feelings towards their partners when they have a new baby they find it hard to talk or just to be close to you, its ok saying he does not care for you anymore but he may just be giving you space & time with your new baby, maybe he thinks that you are coping well & don't need his help, but you wont know either way until you talk to him, i wish you luck!!
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (15 November 2007):
 It seems that he doesn't care anymore, but you don't give us conclusive facts of this.
a) He might just be stressed at work
b) He might be having some difficulties adjusting to this new situation with the baby.
Maybe he doesn't know that it is hard on you too, and that you would like his support through this.
I think you need to sit him down - when you see him, and tell him how it makes you feel when this happens.
Ask him what has been bothering him, and ask him how you can work together to fix it.
If he is still funny after you've spoken to him, then maybe he is not interested anymore, and best you move on.
Good luck
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