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anonymous
writes:helloi have a problem my mom is having sex with my friend and they both won't talk about itmany times i caught him coming out of my house and many times i heard his voice in my mom roomi don't know what to do i can't talk to mom and i can't talk to my friendwhat should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, whiteshadow  +, writes (16 November 2007):
 one of my best mates went out with my mum ocne altho he was quite a few years older than me. I loved them both and didnt mind really. I gave them space like my mum would with me and we spoke about it.everythign was fine. The onyl thign ir regret was, after he broke up with my mum... we didnt remain friends as he didnt feel comfertble being around cos i live with my mum etc. wich is such a shame.
I advise you to speak to them both, or you will suffer in silcence
good luck sweety x
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (16 November 2007):
 Both your mom and your friend are ADULTS and are entitled to their privacy. (I am assuming they are adults by your age, if this is wrong, correct me please).
There is nothing for them to discuss with you, nor check in with you. The same rules will apply when YOU have a lover in the future.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, jm81690 +, writes (16 November 2007):
 Tell your mother, that's wrong, and irresponsible as it gets.
Also, how can you still call that guy a friend? If I were you I'd beat him into next week.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 November 2007):
 I think you need to CONFRONT your Mother. Firstly, if your friend is as young as you are, then your Mother is being sort of irresponsible. Sure your friend is of legal age, but he's still young and shouldn't be messing around with your Mother.
Sit your Mom down and firmly tell her that you KNOW she's having relations with your friend, that it's skeeving you out and that you feel super uncomfortable.
You are in a really icky situation. So sorry, sweet thang!!
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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