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writes:I'm 33 years old and happily married with 2 children. When having sex i lose my erction halfway through. I withdraw and my wife will restimulate me. When i restart having sex i then feel the need to ejaculate immediately. This is so frustrating as it seems to go from one extreme to the other. (Going soft to wanting to ejaculate) I know the situation has got worse due to it being on my mind. I usually want to ejaculate very early into having sex I have learnt ways to hold it back and then the loss of erection comes into play. Please help as i feel my wife has been patient is starting to get more and more frustrated. I have suffered from stress du to my father dying and having depression but this has been an on and off problem for some time.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (16 November 2007):
 Short term solution: Get a strap on and use that as well as sex toys like vibrators and such. It will not fix the problem, but she will get some pleasure out of it.
Long term, there are erectile dysfunction clinics for you to check out. A number of suppliments including saw pamentto, and natural health food stores have them as well. These may help with blood flow and stimulation.
If you masterbate, stop. Let sex with your wife be the only time you get to release. It will train your brain to respond to her touch.
Are there certain sexual fantasies that you want to live out with your wife that you have not approached yet? Maybe it is time.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, siren1 +, writes (15 November 2007):
 Hi i know i am female but you really need to go to your GP theirs millions of men with the same problem as you, if it was my partner i would go with him to the GPs theres no shame in this and you need support from your wife i hope she is giving this to you otherwise this will had to your problem because you will always be trying to hard so she is not dissapointed so swallow your pride and go to the doctors and remember your not the first man with this problem and you wont be the last so GOOD LUCK and let me know how you get on!
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reader, pyan  +, writes (15 November 2007):
Hi
i have gone through the same problem, you need to get rid of the stress. you sould go and see your dr about the depression as it curable with help.
i tried to ignore it and in the end could get an erection and hope that it would go away but it didn't. send me a massage if you want to talk about it further.
good luck
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