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writes:There's this girl, and I'm really interested in her. Several issues arise from this situation, however. She is attractive, thin, popular, and basically the polar opposite of myself (unattractive, overweight, and a relative social recluse). We were hanging out for the first time (I met her two weeks ago at school, she needed help with her math work) last week, and things were going great. She seemed to be lightly flirting with me, and other things of the sort. We really hit it off, and by the end of the afternoon, she had shared things with me that she's told no one else. Heres the problem, she has a very serious boyfriend that she loves (like really loves none of that bullshit that people think is love), so I'm not sure what to think. I'm worried, as well, that she's been avoiding me lately, which would be terrible. But, here are the real questions1. Is there any way I could be with her?2. Is it already to late, am I in the 'friend zone'?3. What can I do to not be coming on to strong
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): sorry, you need to give it up. you are looking for signs where there are none. she is avoiding you. and btw, women are naturally more friendly than men and sometimes that is misinterpreted as flirting........from what you have written there is no chance for you to end up with this girl. go for a girl in your own league, shy, overweight , and not so popular
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): Let her go man. Seriously.
She's already going out with a guy she cares about and if you came between them she'd only end up hating your guts.
Plus at risk of destroying your self-esteem but a girl that hot won't date an average bloke unless he's super-funny, super-rich or she's drunk at the time.
Flynn 24
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