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writes:Ok so I want to have a female-female-male 3some with my girlfriend and another girl. but she says she wont have a ffm 3some with me unless i have a male-male-female threesome with her... i dont want to have a mmf 3some but i really want to have a ffm 3some, how do i convince her???
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): You really must not love this woman at all. Don't you care about her sexual needs and desires being met too? I personally think 3somes are wrong if you're in love with your partner, but hey, if you're going to do it, make sure she's satisfied too.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 November 2007):
 You can't ask something of her if you wouldn't be willing to do it yourself. I say, if she says "okay, I'll fulfill YOUR fantasy, provided that you fulfill MINE" - that seems pretty fair. Otherwise, what's in it for her? Some women are very uncomfortable being with other women.
Not to mention, a MMF threesome doesn't mean that you're going to be hooking up with another guy. It doesn't sound like she's asking for a bisexual adventures. There are lots of porn featuring two straight guys getting down with one girl. You don't have to kiss the guy, you don't have to touch the guy. Your girlfriend just gets the pleasure of TWO dicks instead of just one.
She said she'll have a threesome under one condition - she's put the deal on the table, and if you're not up for it... well, I'd say you're done "convincing" and the answer is no. If you're asking her to have an open mind, you should only return the courtesy.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): Dude.
Just take one for the team. Just make sure the guy's cock isn't near your face.
Trust me. I doubt you'll be regretting it when you have your girl and some other chick hottie humping you rotten one night.
We all gotta make sacrifices, its all give and take... and various other cliches that all amount to the same.
Flynn 24
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (15 November 2007):
 Before I give you my response lets straighten your question out a bit. Its not how do I convince HIM, its how do I convince HER.
On second thought it might be how be how I convince HIM…because that’s what you’re going to have to do when you ask your best friend to fuck your girlfriend.
A threesome is something every man should enjoy at least once in his life. Don’t miss out on this, my friend. You are on the verge of something special! Agree to the mmf thing if you have to, and involve a good friend, someone you can trust to fuck her. You take one end he takes the other…you don’t have to touch.
Doing the mmf is worth doing to get the ffm. When you get your ffm enjoy it lick its heaven…you will feel like a million bucks.
But when it’s over you better be prepared for the consequences…IT might end things between you and your girlfriend if she can’t handle the emotional baggage that can come with a threesome. She might fall in love with the other guy…now that can be a problem.
Anyway, my best advice to you is go for it, you only go around life once and this may be your best chance to do something like this. I personally have done threesomes and it’s awesome!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): hey i wrote this question and to answer you, yes she is very serious she says it has been a fantasy of hers since she hit puberty but i am grossed out by the idea cuz im not gay at all. females often kiss other girls so i dont see why she wont just do it but she doesnt see it this way.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (15 November 2007):
 sorry mate, but you know that nobody is going to sympathise with your predicament. I agree with RCN she is probably just saying this to make you realise she is a one guy girl.
Then again, if she is serious then why is her request unreasonable, do you think your needs supercede hers in the relationship?
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reader, cristin343 +, writes (15 November 2007):
 he's right. if she's not into it then she's not into it. what are you hoping to gain from this.
Get some porn or something! my thoughts are that you will jeapordize the relationship, and if you dont care about that... well the question is, what are you doing with her in the first place?
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reader, rcn +, writes (15 November 2007):
 She says that because she probably doesn't want either. There are people who date who really don't want to share the person they are with, with someone else.
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