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writes: ok. its very complicated.i like my friends EX-boyfriend. but She still loves him. They went out for quite a while n he was her first everything. but they broke up because he hurt her. i dont know what exactly happened. and i started liking him. i told her and she freaked out. me n him r flirting sometimes and i can see that he is maybe interested but yet i met this other guy that is crazy over me n he thinks that i like him. shes isnt a cloze friend or anything, i met her 2 month ago but still i dont know what to do . plus she cut herself 4 times over him! anybody wants to help me out?
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reader, Stars47Nites +, writes (15 November 2007):
ok ok ok, first off this ex bf of ur friends.....more then likely a huge NO NO!!! cuz come to think about it, he could be just trying to get in ur pants becuz he got in ur friends. But honestly, u should probably find out why ur friend and this ex boy toy of hers broke. SO it could save u from making a wrong descision.
But this other guy that seems to like u, do u like him? Maybe u should try it out with him?
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reader, cristin343 +, writes (15 November 2007):
this is some unhealthy and crazy behaviour. you saw this guy hurt your friend and broke her heart, yet you are considering dating him. You will be the one with a broken heart next, and you will be hurting your friend even more. nothing to gain from dating this loser. focus on 'this other guy'. and if you or your friend is cutting themselves... definately go see a therapist or counselor or something. that is not healthy AT ALL.
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