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writes:WE both love each other, but decided to have a space. (1 month ago)He needed his space, wanted to focus on his music, and I was way too busy for school and work. We could continue our relationship, but I don't like vague relationship. So I thought we should break up. We both agreed that both of us might meet another partner.Right now, I'm miss him a lot. but, I think just feeling lonely isn't good reason to return. Even if he asks me to date again, I want to have more time, hang our own friends more, have more free time, so I can hear my voice.Does anyone have experienced this? (had distance, then go back to your ex)What made you go back?What's the biggest reason? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): my story is about a man who was my best friend in the whole world. I was young, stupid, damaged from past relationships and of course jealous of his EX (she was there wherever i looked) but she won!! i broke it off with him because of her. He told me he wasn't interested in her and they were just friends, and she had a boyfriend. I loved him so so much. He touched a part of my heart that no other man will ever compare to that. He is the one for me but i was too stupid to realise it. He made me laugh, he made me feel good about myself, no matter what we did we always had fun, we could talk to each other about anything and like me he loved the simple things in life. We were meant for one another, but because i couldn't control my jealousy i ruined it. I want a chance to apologize to him for that and to tell him that i think about him all the time without sounding like a stalker. I was going to write him a letter? what do you think?
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reader, pretty_07  +, writes (15 November 2007):
i know what you are going through i've been there myself but if you have decided to move on with your life without him then stay strong and focused. it's normal to miss someone who you were with constantly and isnt there anymore, i broke up with my boyfriend of four years and at the beginning all i wanted to to was call him or see him but it gets better with time trust me...........just keep busy, find stuff to do with your friends and also find time just for you. all these coupled with lots of prayers got me through the ordeal and am glad i never went back.........do what feels right for you.
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reader, cristin343 +, writes (15 November 2007):
 Yes, i am currently going through this. I was dating someone who was not living up to my standards. Things got worse and worse between his drinking and getting fired from jobs and on& on... i left him two weeks ago.
Leaving the closeness and comfort of this relationship really began to sink in about a week and a half later. I know that we are not right for each other, but remembering the great times that we had and the extreme closeness that we shared for two years started to break my heart. it is so hard to leave a serious relationship, whether good or bad. there was some type of love that kept you there for a long time and you probably feel lonely without it.
i promise it will get better!! time is the greatest healer. be strong.
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