A
female
age
36-40,
*ewan
writes: i'm in love with this guy who work as collegue of my friends and one of my friend likes me and wants me to be his girlfriend but i told him we are just friends and i dont want to be his girlfriend and i stopped going to their work place but when this guy started a job there i keept coming to see him and get him, to know me more so we can start dating but the guy seems he doesn't have interst on me. then one day i call all of them and invite them to dinner including this guy i'm in love with and he didn't show up, at last he came and said sorry and i have another plans. coincidently or not we have the same bday. i dont know what to do to get him please helpppppp helpppp me its been so long since i felt this way and i really want to have him. thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): I'm in the same boat, i.e., in love with a co-worker. Dating is hard for women because we have to wait and let men chase us. If a man is not interested, he doesn't make a move. Usually there are clear signs, i.e, he doesn't flirt with you. But for me, the guy is always flirting with me, and I become a 16 girl blushing and acting stupid. Oi! Its so frustrating. I know he knows that I'm infatuated and I think he's flattered and enjoys flirting and making me squirm but b/c of it he's not interested in me seriously. It sucks! I'm sorry but there's nothing you can do but wait and just look hot when he's around.
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