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writes:Need some advice on how to be more intimate with my girl friend during the day and at night. We do have sex most nights but the cuddling thing after is the bit i most enjoy except i can't seem to do it. I need help on how to cuddle her and how to make her feel more loved whilst we are in bed etc. Are there different ways, stuff we can do whilst cuddling? Also can you give me some advice on how to do this in the day too just in general everyday stuff because shes my first and i'm hoping only girl friend so i'm new to all this. How do i make every day more intimate and loving for her? What do women like to do when at home thats more lovy dovy type thing. Reply to this Question
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (16 November 2007):
 Aww you really do sound very sweet and very much like my boyfriend. He also enjoys the cuddling part after sex but do you know why scientifically? The reason that couples enjoy this cuddling part is because of a hormone that is released when you orgasm that promotes feelings of love! Most men turn over and go to sleep and miss this feeling whereas some men enjoy cuddling up to their other half afterwards.
I agree with the previous comment about the text messages and a lovely back massage is definitely one way to treat your girl! Theres nothing better than having a nice massage late at night with some candles from the one you love :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007): You seem like such a sweetheart, your girlfriend is a lucky lady!! A lot of men (in my experience anyway) don't enjoy the cuddling part of sex so much, so the fact that its your favourite part is surprising and very sweet. as for making every day more intimate and loving, well something as simple as giving her a cuddle and telling you love her every day would make her feel adored. And maybe you could try showing her that you're thinking of her during the day when you're not together. Like maybe sending her a loving (not dirty) text message or something during your lunchbreak every once in a while. Personally, I find that just snuggling up together while watching a dvd or something is very romantic for me. Just lots of non-sexual touching as well, like gently stroking her arms or her back or something and being thoughtful. Maybe giving her a massage if she's had a rough day?
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