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writes:hey ...i have a boyfriend whom am pretty serious about even though it hasnt been too long since ive bin with him...also there is my ex boyfriend whom i dated for 3 years and now its also been over 3 years to our break up. i somehow cant quit talkin to my ex and neither cant he(my ex) he says he loves me and i think so too but at the same time i think i love my boyfriend too(current).My boyfriend totally hates the fact that am still friends with my ex but i think its totally fine. i cant imagine life without bein in touch with my ex its a bond i share with him.....but i cant even leave my current boyfriend for i know he loves my and I have lost my virginity to him!! Off late,me n my boyfriends hav been havin too many fights over the fact that i still speak to my ex am afraid we might split up. I really need help,let me know what u guys think i should do!!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (16 November 2007):
 Well, if you want to push your boyfriend away, so you can have an excuse to return to your ex, you are doing a great job. That is the ONLY reason I can think of that a woman would talk about her ex to her new guy.
I think he is right, and you need to make a choice. Friends with the ex (that you are obviously still in love with) or the current boyfriend.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, whiteshadow  +, writes (15 November 2007):
 I know how you feel cos i have been like that but it is so selfish. Can you imagine if your boyfriend spoke to his ex and told her that he loves her but he loves you aswell. Im sure you would have something to say about that right?
And if you think you wouldnt that is insane. I feel sorry for your boyfriend. It ither one or the other. We call them ex'x for a reason. once you left them...your meant to leave them behind not drag them along into your next relationship
You cant have your cake and eat it hunny
Better choose soon before its too late and you loose what you have xx
gd luck
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