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36-40,
*junwa
writes:I am in love with this guy for a year and i am not sure of spending the rest of my life with him because of our diffrences.We fight alot and argue most times.We have been able to tolerate each other for this years but i think marraige is diffrent from relationship.I dont want to make a mistake, what do you think?. Reply to this Question
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reader, going_for_gold2  +, writes (23 July 2007):
Don't just marry for the sake of it. Make sure that you not only love him but also you can tolerate him for the rest of your life.
If the arguements are over trivial issues, then you need to try and be more tolerant with eachother. If major issues are the cause then you need to sit down and talk before committing.
Hope this helps?
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reader, jomana  +, writes (23 July 2007):
 well there are some boundries that you have to agree on before getting married like how will you raise your children and etc... if you still have feellings for him and you think you can't live without him ,then try putting some boundries . also there are certain books that were published concerning your question , they include wether or not you could get married by asking a few questions to you and your partner so try looking for those; they were stated on the dr. phill show and on the oprah show.
hope i've been of help
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