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writes:i like this girl. I want to ask her out to bowling or cinema. Any ideas? If she acts a bit quiet or awkward does that mean she does not like me or could she be shy? Because this girl is perfectly fine in school, and over the phone but i think embarrassed and shy when out of school with friends. I want to meet alone. All help needed lol thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): Her being shy could be a sign that she is nervous around you. If you want to go to a movie with her talk to her about what kind of movies she likes. Mention one by name, if she agrees suggest that you go see it together. Don't rush anything. If she says no suggest that you go another time. Pay attention to her reaction. It will tell you if she's really saying no to the movie or to you.
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reader, advice12  +, writes (23 July 2007):
ok first ask yourself how long youve known this girl for. My current girlfriend now ive known for three years prior to dating her. she was shy at first when we started dating to even before that when we had the thought of getting into a relationship. Most important thing to remember is not to jump the gun on anything. And heres a piece of advice that might help you just remember there are gonna be friends of yours that want to see you toghter with this girl and friends of yours and hers that are not going to. ok sorry for going off topic but when you guys are on a date and shes quiet it usually means shes watching you. Shes watching how you act around her and around her and your friends. if you act differently around her with your friends your done. The key is to act the same way. You wanna acknoledge that shes there but at the same time not be on top of her. a good way to break ice is just to go out with a bunch of your friends and hers however might hurt you cause girls tend to stick togther, another sign you wanna look for is when you guys are eating or talking if her arms are crossed shes either bored or not intrested. you wanna have fun do something that no one has really ever done before, be romantic but not despreate. show her you wanna get to know her but you cant jump the gun on the first date and tell her you wanna date her. Wait a good couple weeks before you even mention it. A good tell tale sign that shes intrested is that shes gonna want you to meet her parents. if so act normal like you usually do around her dont try to impress her parents. DO NOT LIE and tell them your something your not by trying to impress them. the reason why she wants you to meet them is becausue she knows the person that she likes there gonna like not someone else if you can understand that. But overall you wanna be yourself dont try to be like there ex's or someone out of tv to come sweep them off there feet thats a no no. she see rite through that and think that all you wanna do is get them in bed. if you want keep me updated and ill try to help you out the best way i can
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