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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:my girlfriend and i both orgasm very differently. i can only orgasm through clitorial stimulation so i can only orgasm through oral sex or masturbation. Whereas she can only orgasm through some sort of penetration then she ejaculates. i have never experienced an orgasm like hers and she never had one like mine. we are both happy with the way we come so please im not looking for replies from people saying relax and orgasms like each others will come etc etc - we have both never experienced what the other have felt so we are both just curious about the difference in each others orgasms. so will appreciate replies mainly from women who have been able to achieve both types of orgasms and perhaps can explain more to get an understanding of how the opposite may feel(not biologically - i mean describe what the differences are in sensation between both, which one may feel better, the different feelings with the both etc....)
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reader, Mrs. Read +, writes (26 July 2007):
 I have penetration (G-spot) orgasms most often. They feel more of like a swelling and build-up that is then released in waves that feel like they are going from the middle of me down to my feet and up again to my head. My body is very sensitive afterwards and I experience chills and there is a bit of fluid release. (I used to be embarrased because I thought it was urine, but it's not.)
I had two clitoral orgasms, and they are more like a pain that has to be released like a huge sneeze. I have a sensitive clitorus, that I had to "shut off" when I was younger not knowing that the 'pain' was actually pleasure and so it takes A LOT of (sometimes painful) stimulation for me to have an orgasm that way.
So, I am just happy with my G-spot orgasms. So, my conclusion -- just enjoy the way you come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): I have both kinds, and I like better the one that your girlfriend has had & that you have not yet. There is no way to describe the feeling really, but let's say it is similar to the one that you have had, just over a larger area, and inside of you, not on the clit. I think it's more satisfying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): If you do some research you may find that it is possible for you to have orgasms like your partner and vice versa. The easiest way is not often the only way. You might have to resort to some very specific techniques or toys but that could be a lot more fun that listening to other people try to describe it to you :-)
I'm not sure about the validity of this video, but maybe something like this could help you. There are even sex instructors you could go to in most cities.
http://www.redtube.com/2325
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