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I don't like the sex organs i have.

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Question - (23 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am male and am attracted to females but I dislike having the male parts I have.

I am also not sporty and don't really like cars nor do i fit into the catagories of a typical bloke.

Could I be a lesbian in a man's body?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007):

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i dislike having male organs. does this mean anything?

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A male reader, Andy00 United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2007):

Andy00 agony auntThis sounds pretty interesting.

Firstly, what do you find wrong with having the organs you have?

As for sports and cars, while I like sport and enjoy playing it, I don't have the greatest physique in the world, but it doesn't bother me. If you're happy how you are, then what's the problem I say? I also have very little interest in cars themselves, other than driving them. To me, they are just things that get you from A to B. You mention about not fitting in the catagories of a typical bloke. Could you elaborate on that?

Anyway, I agree with blaz£, you shouldn't catagorize yourself too much. While it's ok to do sometimes, if you do it too much and you find that you don't fit into the "typical" ones, then it'll begin to mess with your head. I suggest you try to accept who you are for a while longer, keeping in mind what we've both said. From there you can decide how dramatically you want to change.

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A male reader, blaz£ United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2007):

blaz£ agony auntDo you find yourself attracted to girls parts more?,

because in that case you just proving your not gay and you like girls.. but is it that you actually dont like having male sex organs? not every guy likes cars and completely fits into the male category, the view of men being strong, muscular and very protective. and who likes football is a sterotypical view of a man. what do you think a man is?

The kind of person that is completely masculine,

or the person that raises his kids right?

dont judge yourself by that category.

i think you sould have a long think before making any radical dicisions, workout what you actually want.

good luck yh?

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