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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 July 2007):
 I think it's impossible to answer the question in the way it is posted. I don't think the difficulty in commiting that one specific man may have will be exactly the same as that of another specific man. Situations are always different, and people involved are, too.
I don't think you can put every man into the same category, unless it is a very, very broad one.
I mean to help, and the purpose I had with what I said is maybe clearing the question of all possible sources of mistake.
Now, I can imagine that a man will find it difficult to commit to a specific woman if he didn't want to commit, in the first place. Unfortunately, not all people get into relationships with commitment in mind. So many people, men and women, have other purposes. So I suppose that you, my dear poster, happened to be involved with someone who didn't want to commit. Maybe you were not with a keeper. Or, he didn't want to commit just now.
Also, sometimes people get into relationships and, as time goes by, they find they don't really want to be involved seriously with that person. However, for a reason I can't understand, they stay involved, until the other party asks for commitment and everything crumbles down.
I wonder what your case is, my dear poster, but I hope this helps.
If you ask this question with a particular situation of yours in mind, I have the feeling that maybe you're heartbroken. My advice is, don't take this to be the end of the world. You will find someone who will commit to you.
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reader, shooting-star90  +, writes (23 July 2007):
 becasue they have to comiit to one kind of sex, kissing.. they like to try different thinggs :D its a male thing but i wouldnt worry.. you'll find some 1
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