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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well i was with this boy. And he was really sweet and everything but he was also a d**k at the same time and never called me, never made the effort with me, never came up and said hi to me when we were out with our friends. And just plainly treated me different around our friends than he did when we were alone. All he ever used to do was make me upset, and the next day id be fine again beause he spoke to me first this time or sent me txt saying that he loved me. Sounds pathetic i know. All my friends told me to get out of it and i had so many chances to but i thought no, i'll leave it - it will work out eventually. And then he went and dumped me didnt he. And i was//stil am heartbroken. Its only been 2 weeks. And im still in love with him. I still get that gushy feeling in the pit of my stomach about him and all tht stuff.And the worst part is that i see him everyday as his friends are my friends and so we all go out everyday.And he seems to fancy this girl now thats started coming out with us.And they constantly flirt with each other.Its breaking my flipping heart =[I cant stand it, because i remember when he used to do the exact same stuff to me.Its making me feel so horrible.Im trying to ignore it, trying to move on, but its just so hard.I just cant.Someone please please please help me!HeartBroken.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): Don't worry about him - he's just immature and you're better off without him - if I were you I would show my independence and get a new group of friends - surely there's a chick in your group that will go to other places than where the "group" hangs out. Why should you sit there grovelling - he doesn't seem to care so why should you. I'm sure you can catch up with the group sometimes but seriously go out there - live a little. Make him think you have your own life without him and don't care about him and whoever he's found to flirt with. Seriously it is the only way. XX good luck babe - you are amazing to even have sat through what you have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): hey! I think he is a right jerk. he does not deserve your jealousy! when your round he try to think of all the wrong things he used to do when he was with you!! just think am glad that i dont have to go thru that anymore!! like he use to make you upset al the time thats not fair on you at all!! just think if your ex and that girl gets together then she will have go thru what he did with you and just be lucky that you can find someone else that will treat you the way you want to be treated!!! hope i helped!!xx
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