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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i have just turned 16 and for the past 3 months my younger boyfreind who is 15 and not 16 for 8 months has been asking me for sex. he looks alot older than he is,is a lot taller then me and stronger and is very dominant. i really dont no what to do because i feel as if im going to give in soon as i really want to have sex with him however i know that it is illegal at the moment. we have done everything but have sex but i fear that that wont stay the same for long. please help me to decide what to do because my other friends who have younger boyfriends have had sex and i am beggining to think it is ok to do this. i'm just not sure. any advice given will be much appreciated. btw we've been going out for about a year now but sex has only recently become a problem that we cant decide on. Reply to this Question
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reader, blaz£ +, writes (23 July 2007):
 heya b, listen. if the only excuse stopping you in that its illegal then i am sure that there are other doubts in your mind?you hear abot people losing there virginity at 9/ 13 and he is 15. those other people didnt care about law and he is only one year away so think what else is stopping you letting in?remember it should be you deciding what you do. you say he is tall and strong. very dominering, mabye he is rellying on his masculinity to control things. dont let him.good luck b hope everything goes ok, and realize why you dont want to have sex...and weather it was ur idea to have it... if you want to wait. wait xx
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reader, blaz£ +, writes (23 July 2007):
heya b, listen. if the only excuse stopping you in that its illegal then i am sure that there are other doubts in your mind?you hear abot people losing there virginity at 9/ 13 and he is 15. those other people didnt care about law and he is only one year away so think what else is stopping you letting in?remember it should be you deciding what you do. you say he is tall and strong. very dominering, mabye he is rellying on his masculinity to control things. dont let him.good luck b hope everything goes ok, and realize why you dont want to have sex...and weather it was ur idea to have it... if you want to wait. wait xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): I don't think your question should be "should we have sex?" it should be "should we be together." You using words like "very dominant", "i fear" and "become a problem" makes me think that he's not the guy for you. Plus don't do anything that you don't want to do. You are young and everybody's NOT doing it. Don't feel pressured.
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