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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:my friend always said her orgasms are much better than mine. i can orgasm by my clit while she can orgasm by squirting-which i guess is every woman (and man's) fantasy and i always believed was the ultimate or best orgasm a female can have. i have never orgasmed that way so wont know.a few times recently my friend and i ended up in bed together and i saw her orgasm like this. alot of times when she orgasms she would ask me if she did or didnt - when i have an orgasm my body is in spasms of pleasure that is so intense. she is defo not faking it as i see her ejaculate. she yells and makes a big deal like it is the end of the world but 80% of the times, she normally asks me to check if to see if there was a wet patch if she squirted as she isnt sure if she orgasm or not. i dont get that-if female ejaculation is as amazing-surely you would know if you came? but most times she sits in a stupor trying to figure out if she came or not? i dont get it? so my first question is - is that how it normally is for female ejaculation? she always led me to believe hers was so much better than mine but seeing her orgasm i question if she is experiencing the intense pleasure i get when i orgasm - i mean if it as amazing as everyone says then you will know if you came without the need for another person to validate or check for you?the second question is recently i made myself orgasm by my g spot once. the feeling was similar to my orgasm with my clit but not as intense. it felt mild in comparison to my clit orgasms. but most people say g spot orgasms are so much better? or will i have to do it loads of times to make it more heightened?final question is that i am curious to orgasm as my friend by squirting-is that sort of orgasm achieved by the way i came with my g spot? does anyone know? i didnt squirt anything i dont think. or is female ejaculation brought on by stimulating somewhere other than the g spot? ps not really looking for people telling me to relax and orgasms come normally....so any actually knowledge or insight will be great!thanks x
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 These are general statement based upon my experience through asking women I have been with. Orgasm through"g-spot" or intercoarse is not as intense as orgasm through clitoris stimulation. In some women the location of the clitoris near the vagina allows for clitoral stimulation during intercoarse. Some women can only orgasm through intercoarse being on top, some cannot orgasm through clitoral stimulation. My experience, no two vaginas are alike, similar, but not alike. I know you said you're not looking for this kind of an answer, but it's real. I have found that a woman's ability to orgasm cannot happen without some mental and emotional components 1. desire, 2. relaxed and feeling safe, 3. no outside influence or issues clouding her mind. Foreplay I have found is essential to a woman achieving a fulfilling orgasm, sometimes 2 or 3. Squirting I have experienced, but is was with intense foreplay and a long session with her really focusing on having a strong orgasm. Most women never experience orgasm let alone an intense one or "squirting". I think sex through clitoral stimulation or oral sex is the most intense for women because the clitoris gets extremely sensitive, kind of like a man's penis. Sex with someone you are close to, "in love with" is the greatest though. It has more meaning for a woman and gives her an emotional component that sex with just anyone cannot give her. If you want to practice having awesome orgasms, do it with someone close to you that you can trust and discuss it with. Have them try this or that. Hopefully they're open to you pushing their head into you for increased stimulation or pushing it out when you become to sensitive. Some men don't like head control when they perform oral sex, some men just want to please their woman. Practice is the best way to acheive sexual fullfilment. Getting to know your body through masturbation works great. Any woman that I have been with showed me how they masterbated so I could duplicate what they were doing with my tongue and mouth. I watched and learned very intensely. Think of the fun!
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