A
female
 ,
anonymous
writes:I use to want to live with my boyfriend really bad. Since now he’s unsure what to do with his work and career, I want to wait until he gets settle. Is it really selfish of me to think like this? Moving in together means a lot to me. We might be buying a place together. Stable income is definitely something we have to sort out before making the purchase. I even started wondering if he is the right guy for me. While he’s thinking things through, I am frustrated why he can’t just work toward it as we have talked for the past year about it. He said he needs time to think about what to do with his career. At the same time I’m waiting patiently. Why can’t I convince myself my boyfriend is doing the right thing? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 July 2007):
 Don't buy a house together unless you get married, the legalities can be horrendous if you break up. That being said, I think you need to understand that you can't always have what you want when you want it. If he is sorting through his career goals he sure doesn't need you pressuring him. What's your rush?
|
