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My best friend said he fancies me; we decided not to date but in truth, I love him

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Question - (23 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

there is a boy i really like and he is my best friend the other week he told me he fancyed me and wanted to go out with me so i suggested we both thought it through. we both came to a conclusion that it would be best not to but deep down i love him i really love him like ive never loved any one. what do i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007):

youre still really young.

you need to consider the facts that your best freinds and would you want to lose a great friendship over feelings that you will end up losing in time.

my best freind just told me she fancied me and it knocked me for six. i now have no idea how to talk to her the fact that it was late at night when she tld me and a bit tipsy. it hurts hearing someone that you care about you is falling in love with you.

be careful and try not to get hurt.

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A female reader, xmollyx United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2007):

xmollyx agony auntYou should tell him! Least you know how he feels for you but just be careful make sure if anything does happen with you and him that your prepared for things that may go wrong..

Good Luck..X

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A female reader, chiikka skyyyyy United States +, writes (24 July 2007):

HI

i know the problem your in. And it is true the best relahsinships come from friends. But your also in fear because if you guys go out then one of you guys dump the other person its gonna ruin your friendship. Sometimes it does and sometimes it doesnt . In your case i dont think it will just go for it and see what happens. But if the whole relashinship thing doesnt work then just rember you guys are still and will always be BEST FRIENDS.

xxoo

chiikka skyyyyy33

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A female reader, Spud +, writes (23 July 2007):

It worked for me so it can work for you too.....just keep having fun!

take care

xxx

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A female reader, 88jane United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2007):

88jane agony auntoh hunni tell him how you really feel! you know he likes you too so there isnt that fear of being rejected. as polly said, some of the best relationships started as friendship first. Knowing that you both want to be more than friends will make it more difficult to stay just friends. Take the chance on a relationship--you might regret never going for it, one day!! the only thing you need to think is if the relationship doesnt work it may be difficult to be friends in the end! but this might be worth the risk if you love him the way you say you do! your young--take a risk and have fun!!

xxx

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