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Never been on a date or had a boyfriend! How do I get this stuff started?

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Question - (23 July 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

well, this question has probably been asked quite a few times on here,

but here it goes

i am 20 yrs old... I'll be 21 in january actually. and I have never been on a date or had a boyfriend. I've had crushes on plenty of guys, and most of my friends are guys, but I've never had a boyfriend.

All of my friends are dating, or married, even the ones i've grown up with are involved,....all of them

I know that i can be horribly shy and awkward when it comes to guys I like.. and i know i need to work on that

The one guy i was/am really into is taken, but we're still pretty good friends, we got to hang out a bit in class last year

But It would help if i knew what to look for, how do i tell if a guy is interested, how do i go about approachng a guy to find out if he's interested

I have plenty of practice trying to get over feelings.. i just need help on how to get stuff started

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A male reader, blaz£ United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2007):

blaz£ agony auntheya.

umm if you want to get stuff started with a guy you have got to show confidence.

it will be hard but with exprerience that stuff will come naturally.

be flirty with the guy you like. see if he responds.

if you dont flirt he will think your not interested and not think about you in that way.

but im not quite sure wat you regard as flirting?

anyway good luck hun xx

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