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Update on my husband who said sex is too strenuous

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Question - (23 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2007)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

An update on the question I previously posted:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-doesnt-want-to-have-sex-because.html

I spoke to my husband about it, and asked him if anything was stressing him, but he said no.

He still insists sex is strenuous, which is strange, as he has a very muscular body, not too muscular (e.g. like a bodybuilder).

What help should I get for him, as he still insists sex is strenuous and I feel upset about it.

luv Kristina

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007):

Hi love,

I read and answered your post last time sweety, Im starting to think there is something amiss here after what you said before.. I mean you have done everything in your power to excite and get him going there just has to be something not quite right, Have you noticed any other unusual behaviour not just the sex side love... message me if you want a chat ok LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (23 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntIs it possible that what he is implying is that he does all the work and you just lay there or are you an active participant? As a very wise aunt once said, enthusiasm is vital and that "I'd prefer enthusiastic sex twice a week as opposed to boring sex 4 times a week." No offense meant it's just a thought.

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