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What should I do during sex?

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Question - (23 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey

I'm 16 and I have never had sex before because I don't know what to do, I'm scared that the guy I'm with may not like what I do... What should I do during sex?

please help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007):

Heya babe. Listen, the first thing I would say is let the guy know it's your first time. maybe talk to him about it first.

With sex, Just be natural and be yourself. Relax and be comfortable with what your doing and make sure it feels right for you. let go. have fun.

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A female reader, xmollyx United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2007):

xmollyx agony aunthey if your planning on having sex with your boyfriend if you have one then why not talk about it first im sure he will understand. Try not to be scared it will come naturally im sure who ever your planning on having sex with will be just as nervous as you are. Good luck..X

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A female reader, 88jane United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2007):

88jane agony aunthey hunni!

firstly make sure that you are going to do it when you feel ready and when you are with someone you really care about! dont just do it for the sake of it!

secondly, let the guy know that its your first time--he should take this into consideration and take it slow (the first time can sometimes be painful). If you take it slow then it should be ok-but it will get better the more and more you do it!

So just relax, for the first time i would suggest the guy going on top as this is more comfortable but you can experiment with what feels right for you.once you are comfortable then to be honest it all comes naturally---however, if your really worried, get a book!!!

but the main point i have to say is ENJOY YOURSELF!!! xxxx

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A male reader, fred flintstone United States +, writes (23 July 2007):

just do what makes everything feel good.. dont be rough be gentle and go slow... message me if you like more information..

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A female reader, pinkpeone Canada +, writes (23 July 2007):

Hi hun!

The only thing I can tell you is to relax and be yourself! If you have never had sex before, just let your partner know and make sure you are doing it because you want to do it, not because you are being pressured. If you are comfortable and relaxed, you will know what to do. It's hard to say what to do because sex is not something that you can rehearse.

If you have any specific questions, feel free to message me!

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