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writes:I am currently in an almost 2 year relationship with a guy I really love. However, we are both spending a year in a different country together, and since we got here about 3 months ago, we are arguing more and more. Possibly because it's the first time we are living on our own rather than with other people, (we also work at the same place) but I also have started to have feelings for someone else ( who also works with us and has become good friends with both of us)I don't know what to do, I feel like I need a break from my boyfriend and have some fun with other people, but I don't want to lose him.Am I being selfish?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): There's nothing wrong with your feelings, but you do have to make a choice about eithe staying with him or moving on. You can't have both.
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (4 December 2007):
 I wont call it so much as being selfish. Maybe your just not ready to settle down for a while. When people tend to skip the " HAVING FUN" stage in their life, they tend to want to go back to it. You just need your space considering you and your bf are spending too much time together. ITs becoming more of a routine. Talk to your boyfriend about this and let him know how you feel. Just tell him that you just need some time for yourself. But before you do that, think about what you really want and be honest with him. It may hurt him a little but if he loves you he'll understand.
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