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Who do you think I should go for? They both know I like them, but I don't want to lead anyone on, I'd rather just go with one girl and stick with her.

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Question - (4 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2007)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

OK so I'm in a bit of a spot and I can't make up my mind... I like two girls, but I don't have any intentions of trying to date both of them, or to see one of them on the side or any of that.

I'm having a hard time deciding which of these two girls I should go for, I'm asking you guys because if I asks my friends they'll just tell me to go with whoever looks better.

So here it is, I've hooked up with one girl a couple times now, I sat by her in class, and I've known her for a while now.

I like her and all, but I don't know if she's over her ex-boyfriend, in fact I'm pretty possitive she's not. But she has a great sense of humor, and she has alot in common with me.

The other girl I like too, and I think she'd be a faithful girlfriend for sure, whereas I'm not sure if the other girl would be. The only thing is she hangs out with a crowd of peole I've never really gotten along with.

She's also very distant, she won't talk for long, and never really gets into real conversations, just basically a "hi, whats up?" kind of deal.

But we hooked up and have been talking since, but she sends some serious mixed signals so I'm not sure if she likes me back or not.

Who do you think I should go for? They both know I like them, but I don't want to lead anyone on, I'd rather just go with one girl and stick with her.

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A female reader, confused_girl_88 United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2007):

To me its sounds like the second girl is playing games if i were you i would go for the one you have most in common with and the one you can have a good convosation with

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2007):

TELLULAH agony auntPersonality wins every time.

Why would you want to date a girl you cant really talk to?. Maybe the girl with the great personality will be faithfull, you cant tell that she wont be, unless you give her a chance.

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