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writes: Here's the situation - I'm 20, fairly athletic, my friends who are girls say I'm attractive, I'm fairly confident, and have a good sense of humour, and I can keep a converstaion going by asking questions and getting involved. Yet I have never had a girlfriend. What am I doing wrong?
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (5 December 2007):
What you are doing wrong is not the question. Maybe its just the wrong time. Everyone has their own time in falling in love and getting involved in a relationship. Some people get it early, some a little late. Just be a little patient and she'll come to you, whoever she may be. And when you do find her, you'll be so delighted that you waited. So dont go about blaming yourself for why you havent had a girlfriend yet. Dont put yourself low because of that. Just simply wait your turn for love. Itll come to you soon. Good luck!
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reader, Heartly +, writes (5 December 2007):
I think you should ask the girls that are your friends , the know you and your personality ask them to be honest with you and im sure that they would be willing to give you some advice ! And always remember , that there is nothing wrong with you , you may just be putting off the wrong vibs. or looking for the wrong kind of woman !
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reader, Emajayne +, writes (5 December 2007):
Its cause ur looking, simple as that. Stop looking and she will come immediately. Or maybe u know her already. Dont feel as if u need to have one. That is the worst possible attitude to have. Just be happy for all the colourfull attributes u have. Maybe women see that u know all these things about urself and are repulsed by ur love for urself. No offence, but its happened. Just thought id warn u
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