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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi,I am a 17 year old female with a boyfriend of too months. We are very close and considering sex. We are both virgins and he is really up for it, i want to but i just feel i have no sex drive at all. I have been in 'touchey feely' encounters with guys before and always got bored around 10 mins into it because there was no/very little feeling at all and so just stopped which obviously annoyed the guy! It sounds crazy but i discovered masturbating at the age of 8/9 and so now im pretty sick of it and it takes me ages before i get any feeling. I'm pretty sure it would take hours before a guy hit the right spot on me and even then it would take ages before it amounted to anything. Most girls my age are having fun and i desparately want my sex drive back but at the moment the idea of sex is nothing appealing and i have completely lost the ability to be 'horny' for some reason. I liked it before when i was like that and so i want it back. is there anything i can take to improve my sex drive or do? all suggestions welcomethanks
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (4 December 2007):
 Well to be honest if you haven't tried penetrative sex then you can't be horny for it can you? Once you've done it you'll start to crave it. There are all different ways in which you can be pleasured and if your partner performs oral sex or masturbates you during your lovemaking i'm sure that he will hit at least one spot.
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