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*onfuzzled_Hannah
writes:Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now. I got told he'd cheated on me (slept with someone else) just after we had been together for a year. Obviously, I can't know whether or not it happened, because he says he doesn't remember. But I just wanted to know if relationships can still work out after there's been cheating involved?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): Not without complete honesty to restore your trust, and although you want to believe him, someone who claims they can't remember whether they cheated in the midst of a multi-year relationship is simply lying. I'm afraid it's far more likely they can't remember which time you're talking about and have resorted to a cover-all lie to keep from having to lie about specific occasions--he's sticking with the big lie to keep from being caught lying about details.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): If he cheated,then he didnt love you. Sorry to say it,but once a cheat always a cheat.Cheating is by choice,not by force.
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